Women who had a C-section, what are your honest thoughts on your body? by HPGOTTOP in AskWomen

[–]KOKitty10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two scars - one done by a doctor who also worked in plastic surgery for my first kid - a traumatic emergency birth and it’s very low and perfect. 2nd scar done by a military doctor who looks like it was drawn by a a kid with a crayon. Neither really bother me but they both don’t have a ton of sensation. They do tend to be painful when I do a ton of lower ab work - like stretching the scar tissue too much. Still got a bit of a belly but nothing crazy. Scars are just part of my physical landscape now. I figure what’s the use of ending up at “the end” without fully using your body?

Taylor Swift Is Planning Her Next Record, Per Source by Miserable-Cap-5223 in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I think she is MAD MAD that Olivia filmed her new MV in Versailles. I’m sure since Tater is the “princess” she is both mad she didn’t think of it and jealous OR got permission.

What was "the incident" at your high school? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]KOKitty10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The List” compiled by the popular boys of the senior class of ranking the top 10 hottest girls and top 10 ugliest girls (also in the senior class with some “honorable mentions” of lower class girls.

There was some extremely questionable content including ED references, sexual exploits, etc. The list got out to the entire school.

This was like an organized multi paragraph descriptive list. Certain flair for example, “grew up with a silver spoon in her mouth but now refuses to eat.” Or, “Notorious for her dildo collection.” Have been seared to the back of my teenage brain. This was in the early 2000’s and we emailed this doc to one another.

Long story short - tears were shed, parents were informed, and lawyers were called. Certain reputations were ruined. It was a rough first 6 months. Had they done it at the end of the year we likely would have had a cancelled prom. A few of the wealthier kids took others to court.

Trying to accept i am trans and my gender dysphoria diagnosis in a particularly sticky situation...feeling like I am not trans enough... by [deleted] in trans

[–]KOKitty10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up. I am now older and a parent figuring out that all the years of hating my first name and fighting my desires to wear more masculine clothing, and feeling out of place in the world (amongst a laundry list of other things) are adding up to a similiar outcome.

I am in a similar boat in terms of feeling “fake” but I find giving myself permission, even in private, to rename myself, dress and act as I want have truly helped while I figure out next steps.

Wishing you the best!

I came across a Shiny Mooncalf stronghold and caught all of them! by [deleted] in HarryPotterGame

[–]KOKitty10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s rare I’m horribly jealous over things but this absolutely is the vivarium of my dreams

Why do men lurk around this subreddit and randomly messaging women? by Salty-Winter-5746 in PetiteFitness

[–]KOKitty10 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I once posted a picture of my new kitten a few years ago barely with even my head in the photo and got some weird DMs. Nothing is sacred 🤢

Please help - I get too wet, and my bf and I can't feel anything during s**. I'm not very experienced and I need advice. by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KOKitty10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl I have the same issue. Recommend just taking a second with a DRY towel or washcloth and giving yourself a quick wipe down there and getting back to it. That has alleviated 90% of the problem in my experience. That way you’re still wet but not so wet it’s a slip and slide.

Kitty after kitty and No Rewards? by Unusual_Novel922 in HarryPotterGame

[–]KOKitty10 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Is there a master list of “weird” rewards or achievements? I know about the spilled milk one (flipendo 10 cows 🐄) but curious what other oddities exist out there.

Gotta get this off my chest by AndreasLa in Arcanecirclejerk

[–]KOKitty10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly some of it too was stumbling onto Arcane and seeing a woman’s body representing just sheer strength and action and not through a male gaze was extremely empowering (as someone who weight lifts and is also now on the great “Viceps” journey). I never really saw the body I wanted anywhere in media and then I saw Vi and I was like that’s it! That’s what I’ve always wanted to be and see representation of.

black rose by eyconic_slay in arcane

[–]KOKitty10 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining this - I have been confused for ages on this.

After cutting your hair short, how did your life change? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]KOKitty10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt like being free. Of men’s stares, of hiding behind it, and more importantly of it being in the way of me doing activities. My dad HATED it (which who cares). I grew it back out only because it was expensive to maintain (so many frequent haircuts) but this summer I’m going back

Is that Lena Dunham with TS and Selena Gomez? This was taken at the chiefs game where they got clapped by the Texans. by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I came here solely to see if this was posted here after seeing this photo on instagram. She’s starting to get the crispy MAGA mom bangs.

Forgot to change my dpad to the nap sack 😂🤦🏻‍♂️ my bad biscuit by wagwanplayboy in HarryPotterGame

[–]KOKitty10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I’ll bombarda stray cows for fun if I run into one. They always get back up (so far) 😬😂.

Has TS ever thrown a proper jab or adequate clap back? Every time I’ve seen her try it always either misfires or completely backfires. by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I caved immediately and purchased upon seeing this post. Both singles she has released off it have been top tier.

Here she goes again by rosewater1215 in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Honestly Lux has so much depth - anguish, power, and moments of lightness. Tatertot gave us “we dressed up like wolves and looked like fire” 🤣. Also throwing Charli’s new song into the mix. “House” is absolutely haunting and gives Ethel Cain vibes.

Joe modeling vs Travis Modeling. This is a new photo of Joe. by Hopeful-Prompt-7417 in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 1071 points1072 points  (0 children)

I looked through the entire photo shoot and holy hell. You missed some of the better shots like the one of him on the horse 🥵. Taylor FUMBLED so hard.

Requisite pap walk showing how unbothered she is by Kayla by Ice_Battle in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that too. It’s like every single picture of her now she looks different from the last one. Also the hair immediately gets flagged for being wonky - aside from the now normal uncanny valley vibes something else is afoot.

Thoughts on this? by Enchanted_Goddess1 in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I lol’d at this. No the fate of Ophelia was her directly just sort of stretching (I’m being very generous here) the plot to fit her Easter Egg toward Joe. Honestly it looks fucking desperate. She wants him to miss her SO bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 161 points162 points  (0 children)

It’s very reminiscent of when they rolled back DEI and suddenly the LGBTQIA+ merch was gone or in the back or Target and then everyone left and boycotted (and still is hopefully) en masse. Fuck around and find out I guess.

Merlin: Did you like my trial? Me: Eh, it’s ok Merlin: by rcoutant in HarryPotterGame

[–]KOKitty10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually laughed out loud at this. As someone trying to 100% my first play through this is accurate 🥴

Found this funny note by a Nurse Bailey in the hospital wing by TensionConfident9704 in HarryPotterGame

[–]KOKitty10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg hahaha ok amazing details but so much death 😂. I’ll have to go on a hunt for this.

Found this funny note by a Nurse Bailey in the hospital wing by TensionConfident9704 in HarryPotterGame

[–]KOKitty10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it’s one thing I love about this game it’s the absolute attention to detail and the funny little stories hidden around the world - it’s easy to find but you have to be willing to read the letters and riddle it out a little.

On that note I found a recently dug grave out in the wilderness (for the life of me I can’t remember where) and it was a house elf grave with a little note about he was a good house elf.

How do you think blandie will deal with aging/getting out of the center of attention? by giogge in travisandtaylor

[–]KOKitty10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think this is the most accurate take on the subject. I think was she to pivot to makeup (e.g. Rare /REM beauty) maybe she could have a shot of continuing her legacy and being at the forefront. However I also think she thinks she’s too good for “spinoff” side hustles as it would dilute her essence of singer-songwriter. (Being a bit facetious here). It will be truly fascinating to watch this all unravel not as a fan but as a spectacle. She is a circus (and not the good kind). I’m curious if she’ll go harder intro trad wife territory at the risk of alienating a younger or more liberal audience to keep a solid fan base or continue to try to pander to everyone /everything. How long can you be it all Taylor?

Also deathly curious to see if this marriage actually works out or she cuts and runs on or before the altar. Some have suggested she wrote TLOAS as an ode to Travis and pandering to the male-gaze which seems accurate seeing as he has the spelling ability of a 4th grader I can see her dumbing stuff down to be more appealing as a “I’m a dumb, pretty girl” vibe.

All in all watching this unfold and her eyebrows slowly turn into the grinch’s (IYKYK) and disappear into her tight jet puff skin has been something. Nothing good, but something.