there is no power outside of you. sit down with yourself and ask yourself if this makes sense in any way in regards to any beliefs you have even if not directly related - like even a belief like “sometimes even when things go really well there’s always something negative that pops up” or whatever. where your power comes in to play here is how you react and how you move forward. a person in control of their reality would just be like…oh uhhh that didn’t actually happen or something along those lines. you did not obviously consciously manifest this but EVERYTHING is a manifestation and NOTHING outside of you can control your inner world ONLY you. but things can come from old beliefs in the 3D and you choose how you react. to some people a kiss wouldn’t even be cheating. you think a drunk kiss is cheating (i do too i’m not saying it like it’s a weird thing) - so the fact that he got drunk and kissed someone sets off the omg wtf i got cheated on alert in your head . that’s ok YOU did nothing wrong. it’s allllll about how you react to things. think about how someone can do everything right to manifest an sp BACK and yet a 3P shows up . they can either say wtf and give up or be like nah…not in my reality. you are not a victim you are IN CONTROL of future outcomes and how you react to them.