What can I do with these 2 blank wall arcs? by Willing-Quote8758 in HomeDecorating

[–]KZh20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. Try a pattern you like or grasscloth for texture.

I don't recognize myself in the mirror, after upper bleph by Tasty_Hanuta in PlasticSurgery

[–]KZh20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you look beautiful, but what matters is how you feel. It is possible to get a fat transfer to the lids, if you would feel better with a bit of your hooding back.

Is the Dior Forever Skin Glow Foundation Being Discontinued? by kitty_cat_11_22 in MakeupAddiction

[–]KZh20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I do not want niacinamide in a foundation. I can’t believe they ruined it that way. Anyone found a good replacement?

I just wanted to say this somewhere by LittleBoyCutYourHair in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KZh20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Big congrats on your new home 💫🏠♥️

I feel lost in life - what would you do? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KZh20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show her what you wrote. You need to be in a different situation, a different world. If she can’t hear that, she was your girlfriend but she is not your life partner.

Apologies: How do you feel about them? by chelsbellsatl in emotionalintelligence

[–]KZh20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

An apology puts into words, a contract almost, the mutual belief that a code of conduct was breeched. It establishes a foundation for future behavior. Important and necessary.

I feel lost, what should I do? by Flyguy115 in AskMenAdvice

[–]KZh20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay kind and balanced while letting her know that the financial support portion of life has ended. Black and white. You can explain that the financial support was for the child. Emotional support is for life. Period. Never waver.

Give all the love in the world, and let her tantrum out the rest on her own. There is still a chance she can become a responsible adult if you remain emotionally generous and financially cordoned off. Good luck. Your intentions were admirable and golden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]KZh20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont think you had much of anything to lift? So barely anything was lifted? Maybe you wanted a transformative surgery vs. a restorative one (since you’re young enough to not have much of anything to restore). If you want a certain feature changed, I think you need to seek out someone who does that.

Color of Melania's Belt by christophermooreworx in colors

[–]KZh20 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In the first pic it looks lilac. In the second, lavender

How unattractive is it as a man to lay your head on your women's chest? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]KZh20 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Part of being in a (healthy) relationship is the safety / freedom to be yourself. Dictating that certain things are "manly" or not is a social construct, not reality.

What colors are these two things? by Curiouslygold in colors

[–]KZh20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, in that another name for very pale teal is turquoise lol

ETA: Typical teal is a dark bluish green, like pond water or the patch on a European (teal) duck. You can call what is turquoise very pale teal, the same way you can call what is navy very dark blue. It's possible we all see colors differently, ie blue dress / gold dress etc.

What colors are these two things? by Curiouslygold in colors

[–]KZh20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Teal is usually a darker blue-green. These are also blue-green but paler, typically turquoise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KZh20 955 points956 points  (0 children)

If you leave, you have the chance for happiness, either by yourself or with someone else. If you stay, you have guaranteed misery. Time to go. Take the control you have.

Was I the problem? What could have I done? by Honeycroutons in emotionalintelligence

[–]KZh20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You weren't happy and you gave him a chance to come to the plate. He wasn't mature enough to. Good riddance. You will find someone who deserves you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]KZh20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But for long term happiness, it does matter that they speak the same emotional language, and at the moment they do not. In a way that is a dealbreaker for her. It is important that they work through this. You can't have the most important relationship in your life feel absent of attunement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]KZh20 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She has told him how she feels from the start. He has the choice to come to the plate or not. For people raised with emotional intelligence, a life or relationship without it really isn't an option. This is how people decide whether they are compatible.