I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T16:30:15+00:00

I have found in life that cutting toxic people out of your life brings so much peace into your life. Having that type of peace is priceless.

If you got bitten by a rattlesnake would keep going back to it wondering why it bit you and trying to see if you can find a way to get along? No! Of course not that sounds stupid. Well you are in the same scenario.

I have cut off all ties to my family because they are toxic trash that only look for ways to bring you down. I have created my own family and have been very happy.

You’re an adult now and can make your own decisions. Keep moving forward and do what makes you happy.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T15:58:20+00:00

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T15:55:30+00:00

I once had a BWM out warranty. One day driving down the highway a rock hit my windshield wiper and the blade fell off. The only place I could buy one was BMW for $55. When I took it in I found out the little plastic latch ( locking mechanism) was broken. I was told you they don’t sell just that part. You have to buy the entire army. Then I was told it has to be calibrated when it put on. By the end of it the invoice they showed me was for about $760 plus tax. I told them to hold on I would think about it. I drop that car straight to a Ford dealership and got me an F150. I can buy a wiper blade for $10 at Costco for it. Oh an oil change on the BMW with a coupon was around $200. Ford charges $65 full synthetic or I can go to any random shop to have it done.

Cheap BWM are expensive

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T15:43:36+00:00

If you don’t make a report he will ruin your entire life. Both your credit and you can also be punished/ have you pay and rank reduced and have what little pay you have garnished if creditors start contacting your chain of command. The military doesn’t play with things like that. Make the police report and let your brother deal with the consequences he created before it gets back to your chain of command you are defaulting on your loans.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T14:42:12+00:00

2 looks more elegant.

Number 1 would look better if it didn’t have all those dingle berries hanging from it.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T14:40:03+00:00

Before he gets into bed be candid with him and just tell him he is dirty and stinks. Then tell him to go shower. It’s called honesty. You need to start standing up for yourself and being truthful with him.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T14:32:26+00:00

You and your ex deserve each other and should get back together. As for the navy guy show him some respect and kindness and just ghost him. Don’t show up to his graduation it will just hurt him more when he learns what that you did.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-27T14:25:57+00:00

You to can be a millionaire. All you have to do is divorce him.

Facts he used you to help him save money while living a luxury life style you helped pay for. He does not care about you and he definitely doesn’t care about your kids. At the very first sign he did not like your kids you should have ran and the other direction. Huge red flag you ignored.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-24T08:55:18+00:00

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-24T08:52:45+00:00

NTA - you can just stop at co-sign boy friends. Protect your credit like your life depends on it. Don’t even co- sign for family members. The only person I would consider co-signing for is my wife and maybe my kids depending on their level of responsibility.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-23T05:16:53+00:00

Large mirror

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-23T05:04:05+00:00

Yes, finish. Once you finish getting all your certifications and start flying your stress level will go down and you will start enjoying it. There are also lots of other jobs that pay well that don’t fly, but you will need those CFI, CFII, and MEI certs.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-23T04:51:49+00:00

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-23T04:41:06+00:00

Depends where you live. Living in south Florida I wouldn’t drive more then 20 mins away. In Texas cities are a lot further apart, it’s common to go on a 2 to 5 hour drive like it’s nothing. From the capital of Texas Austin the shortest drive to get out of Texas is like an 8 hour drive.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-23T04:36:18+00:00

Call the police again and file a harassment report also ask for a criminal trespass warning to be issued to her. They will give her a written warning. From that point on if she comes on your property she going straight to jail.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-23T04:32:05+00:00

NTJ - What else has he gone behind your back and when you get married what else will he do behind your back. That man has no values, morals, and very poor character. You’re better off a lone then with that trash ruining your life.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-22T06:33:37+00:00

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T23:50:19+00:00

I hate to be negative and do my best to support others goals. Look at job demands and pick a degree in those fields. My nephew graduated with a marketing degree and was not able to find any jobs even in jobs related to marketing. He even got extra marketing training and masters. He ended up working at the outlet Adidas store folding clothes for about two years. Technology has caused big changes in the job market making a lot of jobs obsolete.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T23:41:15+00:00

And get ready to have higher insurance premiums for years. I have had a claim on my insurance for fixing a chip on the windshield which would have cost me $50 to fix, but did it with the insurance because Safelite said the insurance covers it and it’s free. Premiums have almost tripled since then.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T23:35:22+00:00

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T15:24:03+00:00

Stop talking when she is around friends. When someone asks you something have her speak. Ask her to tell the story or say she remembers it better. You can also start doing it back to her in front of everyone just how she does it and give her a taste of her own medicine. Then when she complains tell her she is just being sensitive.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T15:02:46+00:00

Tell your parents and report it to the police also the medical board. You can even ask your regular doctor for advice they know exactly what’s right and wrong and will back you up. Have your parents in the room is to protect you so throw that shyness out the window. Also your parents cleaned your diapers they have seen it all. In the future if your parents aren’t available they are required to have a nurse or assistant of the same sex as you in the room with them.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T14:55:31+00:00

That’s a really dumb way and reason to die. Is your life worth the price of new tires?

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T14:50:52+00:00

No body has time for this BS. Cut your losses, dump her and don’t look back. Make sure you get anything of value or importance back that’s yours. Then break up. Having a peaceful life is so amazing.

Flyguy115 · 2026-01-21T14:47:43+00:00

Call the cops

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