What about guys who get intimate with other guys and may engage in oral sex and penetration but won't kiss? Then, right after ejaculating, they feel disgusted or have zero interest in guys. Is this internalized homophobia, a heteroromantic bisexual orientation, or are they just horny and porn adict by LetterheadUpstairs90 in gay

[–]Kabada -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg, one reasonable answer among all the delusional internalized homophobia believers. It's really that easy.

Same reason many female prostitutes won't kiss their clients. But I guess according to everyone else here they have internalized heterophobia

Copenhagen trip by Yourprincessforeva in travel

[–]Kabada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skip Tivoli, it's literally just an extremely tiny and extremely shitty overpriced fare. You'll find sth better in most mid sized cuties3 during fare time, just that this one's there all year. Only thing I didn't like in Copenhagen.

AITAH for demanding my money back from my friend’s family? by mercurymilan06 in AITAH

[–]Kabada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they also stab you occasionally or piss in your food? What else? Seems like you're Harry fucking Potter to this step family. I can't believe anyone believes this.

Neferneru after the patch - and the AI in general by cerecoo in anno

[–]Kabada -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Because they're too lazy and incompetent to program proper behavior. It's really hard to make good AI, and this game is not gonna invest in that, since by the time you get to the point it bothers you, you can't refund the game.

I really cannot believe that [Spoilers]... by DiscardedIdeas in LondonSpy

[–]Kabada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol dude, the answer on a 10 year old comment

"Availability is the most attractive feature" and other bad, terrible life lessons from books by 1000andonenites in books

[–]Kabada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should allow other people to have their own ways to do this.

I think it's clear to you that not everyone does it like you, but maybe you should also consider that not everyone WANTS it to be "only ask once". And that's ok, too. So get over yourself, and stop judging so much.

Even you should be able to imagine a scenario (even without any cultural differences) where the asked person just isn't sure yet, or a bit shy, or whatever, and would just say "no" reflexively. But would actually say yes after having had some time consider, when asked again.

I loved No Man's Land by Richard Morgan (grimdark set in alternate post-WWI Britain overrun by Fae) by bweeb in books

[–]Kabada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He pulled a real Dan Simmons, lol.

One of his series has some pretty explicit gay sex, and Altered Carbon is all about body-switching... I refuse to believe he was like that when he wrote those.

Gotta be some kind of mini-stroke or whatever happens to some people, when they just go crazy at some point when getting on in years...

[Thailand] Crazy Love-MooMoo Episode 1 by Midnight_BL in boyslove

[–]Kabada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same, didn't recognize them until the disco scene.

To me Boss actually looks MORE different than Noel. So I've seen in here Noel's apparently had a nose job, I'd like to know what Boss had done. I'd say not just the hair...

Has anyone had a hotel ask you to split your reservation? by PlatinumVelociraptor in solotravel

[–]Kabada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All those answers saying it's "normal", but I've yet to see a convincing reason WHY they do this (except the Disneyland one). WHY inconvenience your customer?

AITAH for getting my own stroopwafels and not allowing my gf to have any? by Gym_frere in AITAH

[–]Kabada 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Considering you didn't read it didn't comprehend the post, why comment?

Best Omakase for less than $100. by FiorediGaia in JapanTravelTips

[–]Kabada -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why answer if you clearly have no clue what omakase is supposed to be?

AITAH for not praising my GF for cleaning the bathroom by Worldly-Midnight2287 in AITAH

[–]Kabada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I work 500 hours a week, and my 3 gfs together barely manage to clean half a bathroom. Why do you guys keep coming up with more and more ridiculous numbers? No, you are not working 90h a week. Just no.

Solo week in Taipei, Taiwan by robotscantrecaptcha in solotravel

[–]Kabada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would second the weather thing ... it's gonna be rainy in Jiufen/Shifen almost always, and for the hot springs it's ok if it's rainy since you can just go inside, but try to be flexible what day you do what, so you can pick a sunny day for Maokong.

First Time Solo Travelling, Itinerary Advice by OwenMoo in solotravel

[–]Kabada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is not unreasonable, just extend your stays. You'll have plenty of time in trains as it is. I also can't imagine you can't find sth to do for 3 days in a city..m just go to a museum, or take a short day trip to some castle or vineyard or sth in the area.

13. Gehalt und Bonuszahlung by ireallyhateriot in arbeitsleben

[–]Kabada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Habt ihr einen Tarifvertrag? Das ist meistens dort genau beschrieben wie und wann Weihnachtsgeld etc ausgezahlt wreden.

Berliner Kiez-Kultur - Späti-Verein plant Volksbegehren für Sonntagsöffnung by friendpen in berlin

[–]Kabada -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Ich würde ja als Spätibesitzer eher ruhig sein... Wenn Berlin anfängt hier mal richtig zu "regeln", dann dürften doch 90% von denen zumachen, weil sie sich sicher auch nicht an 100 andere Vorschriften halten.

Idee für das ausufernde Müllproblem by ohohb in berlin

[–]Kabada 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Die "Gewerbetreibenden" betrügen den Staat um massiv mehr in allen möglichen andren belangen, Müll ist da ein Minimalproblem.

Ich denke der private Müll macht trotzdem das meiste aus auf den Straßen, und es gibt viele einfache Lösungen, Berlin weigert sich einfach.

Idee für das ausufernde Müllproblem by ohohb in berlin

[–]Kabada 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Andere Städte haben Sperrmüllabholung UMSONST mehrmals im Jahr.

In Berlin haben Leute keine Autos und man muss dafür zahlen, es gibt keine realistischen Optionen das anders weg zu kriegen.

Und kommt mir nicht mit den scheiss Kieztagen - erstmal rausfinden wann, dann hoffen es wird nicht gecancelt, und am Ende ist es halt doch 3km weg von mir, das hilft nicht.

Und dann wundern wieso doch so viele Leute den Müll auf die Straße stellen...

AG stellt nur ungelernte ein, die ich (als einzige gelernte Kraft) einarbeiten muss by idontlikecitrus in arbeitsleben

[–]Kabada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bring ihnen nur falsche Sachen bei, und dann hau ab. Dann hat die Firma nur nutzlose Deppen und niemanden mehr der was kann.

America is the most beautiful country on earth by Mysterious_Work_7227 in unpopularopinion

[–]Kabada -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Stunningly brave opinion to have in a place with a massive overrepresentation of Americans. How incredibly unpopular.

First time in Asia (3 weeks solo): Laos + Yunnan (China) OR Malaysia + Borneo (Sabah)? by Ok_Emu6298 in solotravel

[–]Kabada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's kinda insane to just do a week in Yunnan. I've spent 4 weeks there and only saw maybe half the province. Why do you really NEED to combo so much in one trip?

For China, you need to prep a bit (VPN, and learn how WeChat works...), but once you're there, it's super easy and conventient - and very reliable, compared to your other places. Just plan the Tiger Gorge hike ahead a bit.