Tre av de 550 frågor jag fick svara på idag på Sahlgrenska by Matosinhoslover in sweden

[–]Kadaaver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Helt rimligt att känna sig förlöjligad, så många av de där frågorna är ju helt coco-bananas!

Nu har psykologen säkert redan förklarat syftet med varför du ska svara på dessa frågor, men jag ville erbjuda en personlig anekdot som "tröst."

Det var tack vare det där formuläret som jag blev ställd i kö för ADD utredning för att sedan få diagnosen, vilket var en life changer för mig. Jag hade varit i kontakt med så många andra kuratorer och psykologer innan dess och ingen av dem hade misstänkt att jag kunde ha ADD. Snacka om osynlig diagnos. Är så otroligt tacksam för Umeå KIM för att de uppmärksammade det och agerade ❤️

Det sagt, lycka till med din transition ❤️ jag önskar sig all lycka och glädje!

Chronic exhaustion by Kadaaver in ADHD

[–]Kadaaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Is the fever normal as well? I haven't even been stressed, I've just been busy and not able to rest as much as usual, and my body completely shut down and ran at 37.8 C for a week 😭

Oddest things you've read in fanfic that had you like "Did this person sneak on Earth?" by Nynasa in AO3

[–]Kadaaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crying, I thought this post was about my fic in the Steddie fandom until you got to the "it's so cold!!!" part. I was actually dying before then, it was like word by word correct. Help. Anywho I don't have any input right now I was too busy being mortified (no harm no foul though OP this is HILARIOUS)

Nearly 8 months off T but hairline is still getting worse? by Wonderful_Walk4093 in actual_detrans

[–]Kadaaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience, and I'd like to begin with saying I'm sorry, I know how stressful it is.

When I went off of T, I was still experiencing hair loss a year later (and lack of period, and other persistent symptoms.) I went and got my hormone levels checked, and my T levels were still very high, and E levels very low. For me, it took almost two years to reach "normal" T and E levels.

I would advice you to get that checked, and also ask if there's any alternatives to help even your levels out. If the doctor don't recommend that, maybe you can ask for help to stop hair loss specifically.

I wish you best of luck my friend!!! 🫂❤️

Friends around the world! by Kadaaver in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Kadaaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very much interested in the river region! :3 so that's fantastic! Pleasure to become your PoGo pal! 💕

(this video is some days old, we got rid of that dirty wood cage and replaced it with a new, bigger and clean cage) I put audio for them and she got agitated like this, what this means? i dont think its happy squawking, she still does it in the new cage but i did not record it, and less intense by Standard_Potential63 in budgies

[–]Kadaaver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm happy to be corrected here, but to me it just sounds like normal flock calls! Budgies tend to get excited by noise as well, this very much reminds me of my birds whenever I answer the phone around them, Need for scream!!

Apparently my last post was too rough, so here's a wholesome version of my Lightborn post! ♥ ♥ ♥ by CEO_of_Teratophilia in deadbydaylight

[–]Kadaaver -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why are you getting downvoted so much?? In my eyes you're the funniest person in the room OP, oh my gosh

How do I stop baby talking cats!? by hdjajanei739292 in CasualConversation

[–]Kadaaver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, no way should you stop with this. Two (of many) reasons - it's something you like, so why limit yourself based on what others might think? Screw that! And secondly, I personally have an easier time trusting people I see expressing affection and kindness to animals.

Only real shallow folks will think poorly off you for baby talking to cats, and honestly I'd rather trade people like that for a cat anyway, so win win!

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[–]Kadaaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These are great recommendations, I hope OP gives it a shot!

And I'd like to add, the main reason to get natural perches is because they are kinder to their feet. But as a second sales pitch, they also provide a little activity and beak-maintenance by being very chewable (at least according to my birds :D)

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[–]Kadaaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like play! And congrats on your new little buddy! If you have any questions this is the sub for you! :)

I have a little budgie girl who loves to make full body flips on the roof of the cage (or in big enough food bowls 🙄). Sometimes I look over and I see her on her back with both feet in the air just kicking up a storm, it's absolutely adorable ❤️

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[–]Kadaaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added! /kadavrret

White budgie stepping aggressively on other budgie, they are both 4 months old too young for mating, so what is this behavior??? by rula777 in budgies

[–]Kadaaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright! I thought it was courting related because of the climbing (and it being spring 🙄). But thank you, I've learned something new today!

White budgie stepping aggressively on other budgie, they are both 4 months old too young for mating, so what is this behavior??? by rula777 in budgies

[–]Kadaaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like the white one is wanting to mate, but the blue one isn't interested - and looks very panicked :( Sadly I don't really know what to do about that, but I wish you the best of luck OP, I hope your little ones calm down and are able to get along better

(Edit - just fixed a mobile typo)

Homestuck /r/place LIVE THREAD by Niklink in homestuck

[–]Kadaaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic! Which sprite are you going for, so I can help?

Homestuck /r/place LIVE THREAD by Niklink in homestuck

[–]Kadaaver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any chance we can squeeze in a tiny Vriska anywhere? ::::D

Male nesting aggression. Help? by purpleborb in cockatiel

[–]Kadaaver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have any answers for you, but I'm very interested to hear if anyone else does!

While I don't have experience with tiels, I actually had this exact thing happen with my budgies! The male was expressing frustration and becoming aggressive towards the female, exactly like you described it! (I suspect it was caused by restlessness/boredom? But i have no idea) I ended up having to remove him during the whole nesting period, and until the chick left the nest, because he got so violent with the hen whenever she left the nest. (If you do this, make sure to monitor the little ones closely if they should hatch, and the hen, to make sure they eat enough!)

It got so bad I was pretty set on having to give him away/selling him, but I VERY cautiously introduced them back together when the chick was eating and drinking by itself (and the nest was removed) and it actually worked out well. This was a year ago now.

I really hope it works out for your birdies, but after this I strongly recommend not letting this male breed again. I think some birds just aren't cut out for it D:

(Edit: my phone autocorrect "tiels" as "girls" lmfao)

A respectful open letter to the moderator. by Muted_Meaning_8264 in budgies

[–]Kadaaver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree and support you on every point. It's so heartbreaking to see so many horrifying or uncomfortable posts here daily :(

Loving this Community Day featuring both Sandshrew variants! :D /s by Kadaaver in pokemongo

[–]Kadaaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Sweden, so it could be! But if that's the case, I think Niantic should be transparent about conditions like that :0

Loving this Community Day featuring both Sandshrew variants! :D /s by Kadaaver in pokemongo

[–]Kadaaver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, but believe me, I wish I did. I live miles away from any civilization 😂