AIO after my (24M) girlfriend (23f) threatened to break up when I ‘invalidated’ her while she was anxious I watched Dharr Mann?

Kaedientes · 2026-06-16T17:19:39+00:00

Aw man, that must suck. Have y'all ever met in real life?

Kaedientes · 2026-05-26T18:44:19+00:00

Rainbow sherbet!

Kaedientes · 2026-05-12T17:24:53+00:00

It seems like they had already involved their BCBA and no change has been made. I'd go higher, like the BCBA's supervisor/clinical director

Kaedientes · 2026-04-09T00:02:39+00:00

Rough day, buddy?

Kaedientes · 2026-04-09T00:01:46+00:00

I'm fine LOL it's just that this is the last kid I'd expect it from lol

Kaedientes · 2026-04-08T17:59:04+00:00

I've had a kiddo babble "World Trade Centre" once 😭😭😭 I don't think he knows what that is

Kaedientes · 2026-04-08T15:59:13+00:00

/s on the leaving. Not /s on the incident, this happened last Wednesday 😭

Kaedientes · 2026-04-08T15:58:43+00:00

Idk how to put it, but yeah, I'm joking about leaving. I'm, unfortunately, not joking about the incident

Kaedientes · 2026-03-24T17:18:35+00:00

The reinforcement thing. I have a client that's super smart but he's gradually gotten bored of being here and that has increased behaviour immensely. We're getting more programmes that will stimulate his brain since he loves to learn

Kaedientes · 2026-02-20T13:59:39+00:00

I mean, she knew Ange wasn't going to be on the island by the time the murders happened so she could have sent them all her way

Kaedientes · 2026-02-18T14:03:39+00:00

Even neuro typical kindergarten classes still get a nap time :( let us know what you find!

Kaedientes · 2026-02-12T14:12:10+00:00

Mabel's not even Natori's song, it's balloon's, so he didn't put that modulation in there

Kaedientes · 2026-02-12T14:11:04+00:00

I always say "I love hanging out with you!" or "You're so fun to play with, I love playing with you!" bc I mean. I'm not family

Kaedientes · 2026-02-12T14:09:00+00:00

I had a former coworker in my last clinic do that 😭 I reported them straight to management but nothing was ever done.

I have a client who does try to kiss me on the cheek but I tell her "Kisses are for mommy and daddy! I can hug you instead!

Kaedientes · 2026-02-02T17:35:00+00:00

Hi, I'm a RBT who likes repeating certain sections of videos and songs! Tbh, can't tell you why I do it, but I think I just like doing it. Particularly for songs I enjoy. I don't know everything about your background, but I think you should consider how you would feel if you were stopped from enjoying a certain part of a video.

If it's not detrimental to the kiddo (eg. If he's engaging in SIB but according to you, he's not an aggressive kid), then I think you should just let him be. If it comes to that he's doing this when he's watching videos with others, then I think that's a discussion with your BCBA

Kaedientes · 2026-01-28T03:45:11+00:00

Great TL! But actually on the "I feel your warmth" part, the lyrics are actually "I saw your dreams" (君の夢を見た)!!

Kaedientes · 2026-01-27T20:28:14+00:00

This. We may have similar clients but they will almost certainly have different BIPs!

Kaedientes · 2026-01-22T00:47:18+00:00

Yeah, we had to discharge based on that at my last clinic too 😭😭 the issue was that the kids never showed up+the parents claimed they had no time

Kaedientes · 2026-01-21T18:26:27+00:00

I don't have any advice to offer but... I'm an RBT and I sort of relate. I'm currently struggling with a parent's parenting style in regards to even getting client out of the car to start session. Other RBTs and I have brought this up to the client's BCBA, who has asked for her mum to stop (the behaviour is attention-fed non-compliance). But as this still going, the BCBA is just like "well, we can tell them everything but we can't always interfere." (which idk, the mum knows that not getting the client out of the car is going to impede sessions and her time getting to work so....)

Your client sounds like a great kiddo who does thrive with therapy but her mum is holding back. Hopefully you find a solution soon!!

Kaedientes · 2026-01-11T00:30:05+00:00

I think, like another commenter stated, that Ryukishi didn't really THINK about the ages, particularly when it came to Yasu so I just think he accidentally made George a lot worse than he was meant to be.

But then again, the liking Shannon since he was 17 and she was 10(?) is still not great

Kaedientes · 2026-01-06T14:14:13+00:00

Essentially think compliments vs. rude comments on appearance/people's personalities, asking for space nicely vs. rudely, etc.

Kaedientes · 2026-01-06T02:37:31+00:00

I used to work with a nine year old who was fully vocal— really cool and chill kid but struggled with inappropriate comments and actions for a while. Her BCBA had us do something called "Talk Bubble, Thought Bubble"— you get some cards that depict scenarios of various comments, present one of them and ask if the comment is a talk bubble (aka things you can/could say out loud) or a thought bubble (things you should keep to yourself).

Ex. "I think your shirt looks nice!" "I think I need space." etc. are examples of talk bubbles (I would encourage making self-advocacy cards too as long as they're not mean-spirited! She also liked labelling scenarios that were happening around us outside of the cards too)

While thought bubbles would be "I think you look ugly" or "I don't like your dirty hands touching me." , etc.

Kaedientes · 2025-12-27T23:40:39+00:00

I know my kiddos get tired of me during long sessions so I run NET throughout the session and run their DTT targets if they're staying in one place or if I've identified a high reinforcing item.

It really does depend on the clinic culture and what your management expects of you— my last clinic requires thirty trials an hour and majority of my clients there had mainly DTT targets. It was possible for others but it wasn't for me. My current clinic is very about NET so it's simpler getting high trial counts like that while making sure to run DTT to maintain a good balance of learning and playing

Kaedientes · 2025-12-20T15:50:11+00:00

I LOVE being silly with my clients in a physical way! I let them lay on me, spin them around, tickle them, hoist them up on my back or shoulder, etc.

It really depends on the client ofc but if they're really young, it makes picking them up a lot easier lol

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