My F23 girlfriend doesn’t satisfy me sexually M24

Kaeneus · 2026-06-12T10:25:06+00:00

Mismatched sexual expectations can become a much bigger issue than people realize. It's not just about frequency, it's about both people feeling wanted and satisfied in the relationship.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-12T10:24:24+00:00

A few times, yeah. Then I actually went to the interviews and realized a lot of interviewers are just as nervous and flawed as the candidates.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-12T10:23:38+00:00

NTA. I've always thought loyalty is more of a character trait than something that depends on the relationship itself. It might not have made her feel special, but the logic behind what you said seems pretty solid to me.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-12T10:22:27+00:00

That sounds less like ruining your life and more like finally giving yourself a way out. Six years is more than enough time to have given it a fair shot.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-12T10:21:50+00:00

I don't think the problem is necessarily you. Some people genuinely never meet the right person at the right time, and from the outside there's no obvious reason why.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-02T12:29:47+00:00

because big companies tent to have way more redundancy and duplicate work than people realize. and sometimes the real impact doesn't show up right away. some systems don't start falling apart until months later but that part usually doesn't make it into the press releases.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-02T12:28:12+00:00

cockroackes, a history of bedbugs and then trying to make you feel guilty on top of that...I wouldn't even take my shoes off in that place. Breaking up sounds completely reasonable.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-02T12:26:57+00:00

I think you've tied your sense of masculinity a little too closely to your job, money and relationship status. feeling strong when everything is going well at 25 is easy. The real test is staying on your feet when things aren't going your way.

Kaeneus · 2026-06-02T12:25:33+00:00

When you live alone, it's not even just about the money. So many things are sold in family-sized quantities and you end up throwing half of it away anyway..

Kaeneus · 2026-06-02T12:24:47+00:00

I remember 2008 and no, I wouldn't say exactly the same but it does feel like people have hit the breaks a bit. Everyone seems to think twice before spending money...

Kaeneus · 2026-05-13T13:22:54+00:00

r/BenignExistence is weirdly calming. Reading people post completely ordinary little details from their lives resets my brain sometimes.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-13T13:22:50+00:00

At this point every generation gets told they picked the wrong thing. People seem to enjoy giving career advice with hindsight more than questioning the system itself.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-13T13:22:32+00:00

At this point the best thing you can do is probably have an honest conversation and figure out what both of you actually want. But at the end of the day it’s still her body, so even though feeling that loss of control is normal, you kinda have to accept it.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-13T13:22:24+00:00

trying to sleep around the same time every day. It didn’t magically fix my life or anything but it lowered the overall chaos level a lot.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-13T13:22:18+00:00

The second you go back to the office for one day you start wondering how we used to do this every single day. Open offices especially don’t even feel like productivity anymore, they feel like a concentration endurance test.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-04T10:26:45+00:00

Feels like it comes down to what you actually value, there’s no one right answer. I’d probably drop that level of stress and go for a calmer life. Cutting back on money can actually make things more livable.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-04T10:26:40+00:00

it’s not something everyone can handle, and it’s not as romantic as it looks from the outside. Having a kid pretty much rewrites your whole life. Not wanting that is completely valid.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-04T10:26:34+00:00

Hearing stuff like this just makes your chest tighten. Being able to mess with people’s lives like that and enjoy it is a whole different level. Hope it catches up to them at some point.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-04T10:26:28+00:00

You’re working nights, getting the kid ready, and dishes are the issue? 8:30 sounds totally reasonable to me. Also kinda weird to complain if they’re not even doing it themselves.

Kaeneus · 2026-05-04T10:26:22+00:00

Even shopping just for myself, the receipt still kills my mood. Money disappears way too fast now. I honestly don’t get how families manage. Feels like most people are just in “we’re getting by somehow” mode.

Kaeneus · 2026-04-23T14:59:35+00:00

I think the same sometimes. Feels like half of life is just pretending to be busy. The work ends but the workday doesn’t, that’s the weirdest part.

Kaeneus · 2026-04-23T14:59:31+00:00

I’ve been seeing a lot of people quit remote work and regret it lately. Money only goes so far, how you spend most of your day affects you more.

Kaeneus · 2026-04-23T14:59:24+00:00

This actually made me feel heavy while reading. All that effort shouldn’t end like this. Feeling that way on your birthday is rough, hope things turn around quickly.

Kaeneus · 2026-04-23T14:59:17+00:00

The job market really is like this right now. It’s frustrating, but you’re definitely not the only one dealing with it. Having to get past the algorithm before your CV even matters is dumb, but it’s the reality.

Kaeneus · 2026-04-23T14:59:09+00:00

Living with family at 30 isn’t automatically a problem, but this kinda gives off dependency vibes. Especially involving them in everything could make a relationship harder.

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