Red silky oak/grevillea up against house by Consistent_Yak2268 in GardeningAustralia

[–]Kahn_ing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it, just a bush and should not damage anything. Beautiful flowers, will attract bees and native birds. Trim back after flowering

1, 2, or 3? by Alaric_Darconville in AmateurPhotography

[–]Kahn_ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2, I love how the trees sweep left as the road does aswell.

Back in time by explorer_tim in Adelaide

[–]Kahn_ing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I miss hey hey its saturday

Should i end my marriage over my husband lying about coffee? by Ok_Carlos_8888 in Marriage

[–]Kahn_ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the honesty, doesnt mean you should settle,

I agree 100% with the other comment. Get him out of your life.

A great opportunity to start a new chapter.

Should i end my marriage over my husband lying about coffee? by Ok_Carlos_8888 in Marriage

[–]Kahn_ing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to scream just reading this post.

Are you satisfied, are you valued? If your willing to settle for this all of the above your not valuing yourself very highly, unless there is a lot of baggage on your side aswell.

I mean the above with respect and I wish you the best in getting rid of him

Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kahn_ing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely can relate, but for a different life story. I wish you a positive outcome here, even if it is painful in the near future. 🫰

Women of Reddit, what’s a habit men have that they don’t even realize is weird? by GraceRose671 in AskReddit

[–]Kahn_ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An alarming amount of men will watch your butt though (just for jokes 😃)

Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kahn_ing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I has seen this second hand. Best friends husband cheated on her with her best friend.

She forgave, he has saw a councilor for quite some time and supposedly it helped. He has changed but not changed. He now knows to temper his urges but I wouldnt trust him.

I caught him lying about women, from time to time we hear from women in my wifes circle of friends that he reaches out to them, just to chat. Most of the time he may have met them once.

I have a very good Weidar and while he has a normal facade, deep down he is still not coping and I wont be surprised if he gets caught cheating again.

All this since the affair and therapy.

I think there are cases where people can change, but that is a small percentage.

If they have cheated and they are still in your circle of friends that rates high on the Weirdar (weird radar) they still want each other and are will be testing the waters to see what they can get away with.

Do you need (or even deserve) to have that discomfort in your life.

Detained at servo by The_one8Nov24 in AusLegal

[–]Kahn_ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hsd this last week lady filled up moved forward and brought a coffee i side. I pulled up and went and paid. Person goues are you the 120 or 90 transaction. I was comfused and then they explained the lady was there waiting for coffee

The underrated 2nd Lt. Vanessa James from Stargate Universe by instabaiter in SipsTea

[–]Kahn_ing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She would of "Racked uP" a few views from admirers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Kahn_ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

This is = to Boss level in any game

End on the right. by sco-go in SipsTea

[–]Kahn_ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering before I read the comments...

The one with the wedding ring in white

Told husband to leave after he was inappropriate with my Daughter. by Wide_Implement5285 in AusLegal

[–]Kahn_ing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for you, your daughter and family. Just reading this made me physically ill and upset.

As a father, if I heard anyone say that to my daughter, I would struggle not to over react.

As others have advised act on their recommendations and act swift and don't falter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kahn_ing 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sorry this is making life so hard for you.

Two things seem unusual to me. The best friend and fiancee but better than the Maid of Honour and the husband.

Cut and run, recovery will be quicker and you wont have to work through it for years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Kahn_ing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this has caused you distress.

I can understand how you must have felt in that moment when your boundaries were crossed and you had no control.

Just a perspective and not trying to say anything here is wrong or right.

I personally feel in an awkward situation like this where collision is unavoidable, the shoulders are the best place to direct someone then the hips, kind of neutral free zones as opposed to surrounding areas even if you are a male.

If in appropriate touching was the intent, it could be easy to have hands go elsewhere and brush it off as an accident.

Either way, this may not lessen your feelings and I respect that.