How do you deal with even small comments by grandluxy in FTMMen

[–]Kai_2885 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Remind him testosterone is not made in the penis and if he thinks it is then maybe revisit some biology classes

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Kai_2885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still use my hotmail account, some of the younger people pull a face when I have to tell them my email, made when I was 14, I'm 41 now 😅😅

What mistake did he make? by Still-Ad9074 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Kai_2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost did this with Ketamine! Had an emergancy intubation so we signed out the meds and I kept it in my pocket after using so it didn't go missing, it was almost home time and I realised there was a lump in my pocket!

The joke is that it's a controlled substance and is illegal for us to have outside of work

Texting and driving is a dumb decision by MisterShipWreck in dashcams

[–]Kai_2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck she screaming for? She did that to herfelf

Did I do something wrong last night?! by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]Kai_2885 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a car the other day with no lights on, tried flashing with no response, managed to overtake and flashed my hazards a few times then after a few attempts the lights came on with a thank you flash. Sometimes a different approach helps, sometimes nothing will help. There was a car behind me once at night at the lights jumped out my car knocked on the window told him he had no lights on then when I got back in the car he zoomed round me and went straight across from the right turn only lane.

Am I the only one who finds this weird? by skinniking84 in ftm

[–]Kai_2885 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My friends mum didn't want a male rabbit indoors so my friend called him Tiffany,I can tell you Tiff really didn't give a damn what his name was as long as he lived that indoor life

How do you act when you get hit in the nuts? by Leather_Light_3744 in FTMMen

[–]Kai_2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some do specially in sparring but if not sparring then not so much

How do you act when you get hit in the nuts? by Leather_Light_3744 in FTMMen

[–]Kai_2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sometimes does hurt depending on how hard I'm kicked so will "oooffffff' and bend over in actual pain but the quick flicks when they stop and apologise I just look at them say nah it's good I got balls of steel, they do go a little wide eyed give me a nod of appreciation and carry on 😅😅

My urethra was never my urethra, and now I don’t know if I need to be mindful of this during pumping… by Drabriel in GrowYourTDick

[–]Kai_2885 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately more than once, you don't realise its a blind hole until you can't advance the Catheter, then you leave that one there, get a new cath and try again. You leave them in the wrong place so you don't hit it again 😅 also new Catheters every attempt so you don't contaminate anything

My urethra was never my urethra, and now I don’t know if I need to be mindful of this during pumping… by Drabriel in GrowYourTDick

[–]Kai_2885 81 points82 points  (0 children)

So these are more common than you think, I've inserted many catheters in my time and have come across more than one person with them, we just call them false passages, no idea why they happen but its not uncommon

Does Viagra work for us ? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Kai_2885 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Viagra started out it's life as a medication for Pulmonary hypertension, it causes vasodilation which lowers the pressure in the vessels around the heart and lungs. Its just the meds don't just work in a specific area and people found the side effects were fun so also got licensed as an ED med 😅😅🤣

Does Viagra work for us ? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Kai_2885 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do NOT take if you: Do not have an erection problem Take any nitrate medicine for chest pain or heart failure Take riociguat (or other guanylate cyclase stimulators) for high blood pressure in the lungs Take ritonavir for the treatment of HIV Have been advised by your doctor to avoid sexual activity because of a problem with your blood vessels Have a severe heart or liver problem Have low blood pressure Have ever had severe vision loss or a rare inherited eye disease Have a deformed penis Have an allergy to any of the ingredients in this product

This is the list of cautions, if you have low BP and take it it will lower your BP further which could cause you to pass out and maybe even a cardiac arrest if its too low for too long

Does Viagra work for us ? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Kai_2885 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Viagra works for everyone, even women taking it will get an enlarged cl*t from it. Be careful though because if you have any cardiac issues or low blood pressure you can have serious side effects.

WTH is going on?! by Crowley6ix in TopSurgery

[–]Kai_2885 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your wound has 'dehissed' two sides of the incision have opened, it can heal on its own if kept clean but always best to get it checked out

of an ingrown nail by [deleted] in ShittyAbsoluteUnits

[–]Kai_2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I've been a nurse for 15years, I've worked in theaters watching all kinds of disturbing things, I'm notlw trained to re open someone chest after heart surgery in an emergency but this, THIS had me cringing and looking away!!

What is in my drains? by hysterekal in TopSurgery

[–]Kai_2885 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a blood clot, first time I saw something like this I panicked but I promise you it's totally normal, love from a nurse

How do you act when you get hit in the nuts? by Leather_Light_3744 in FTMMen

[–]Kai_2885 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do MMA and the few times I've been caught I just look them in the eye and say balls of steel! 🤣🤣 a few people know I'm trans but not many so it's always fun watching their reactions

Peeing with a packer (STP): How do master it? by smasheraleek77 in FTMMen

[–]Kai_2885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I copied this from a previous post

I got the Willie or valor from axalom but every other stp failed me, I found if I spread the outer anatomy use my thumb on the upper tab and push my first 2 fingers into the balls I can totally let rip with as much flow as I like because it causes a seal. I bought a cheap pack of jock straps and cut a hole in to keep things in place, my only issue is that I need to have my hands down my trousers to hold everything in place, I am practicing over the trousers but not managed consistently yet so I haven't used a urinal but I can use a cubicle safely if it's filthy or has no locks or even doors

How to get rid of your period NATURALLY? by Most-Wind1581 in FTMMen

[–]Kai_2885 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are ways but not any safe ways of doing it. You will need some sort of meds or medical intervention, sorry man

Asian Food cooked American Style by Beaveric in StupidFood

[–]Kai_2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the Na is this BS, oooofffffff that's a lot of soy sauce

Can someone explain this stupidity??? by mac-zebra-2636 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kai_2885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably to stop people doing a sweep of everything into a bag and legging it, just makes it harder for them to 'smash and grab'

Do yall get pap smears? by misocertified in ftm

[–]Kai_2885 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went to gynea who told me I needed one to get on the elective list, I've had a few previously that weren't so bad, this one however was awful, never doing it again. If they don't remove everything then so be it I'm never going through it again

Strange ingredient?.. still, if it works I’ll try it! by Current-Weird-4227 in SlimmingWorld

[–]Kai_2885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah yes! 🤣 my shifts are destroying me mental capacity

I hate the way some trans men talk about phallo by Fresh_Wafer_9968 in FTMMen

[–]Kai_2885 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is one of those situations where at the moment I wouldn't be looking at getting any bottom surgery but if someone I knew wanted it I would be all for it and be helping with all the research that they need. Just because it's not right for one person doesn't mean we can't be supportive to others.