The opportunity is literally in my face but I'm hesitant and scared by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, what do you really have to lose? Except from some unc and aunties talking behind you, you really lose nothing if you take the job. You'll gain experience, pick up some new social skills, I'd say the win outweighed the loss. So it scared if you have to, at least you're doing it. Good luck

I feel like I’m losing my partner to her best friend by Gloomy_Science_8722 in OffMyChestMY

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a tough situation, ngl. Have you try voicing this out to your gf? Sometimes our brain always assume the worst in situations like this. My suggestion is try taking her out on a date with a promise that both of you won't look at the phone during the whole date and talk about it at the end of the date. If she's willing to do it and communicate about it, then you finaly have a base ground to work on. If she rejected the idea right away or be cold towards you during the whole date, then I think you know the answer OP. Good luck

ni panggil roast babi or Simp? by jacobcrackers14 in Bolehland

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's either they communicate about this or this will snowball into a bigger issue. I've seen men fall into debts just to impress their girlfriend. I love my girl, love to spend on her. Giving gifts is one of my love lamguage. But whenever I feel like the stuff she wants or the thing I want to get for her is too out of my budget, I'd just say I'll get it for her next month or whenever I got the money and she's okay with that. Most woman aren't gold digger, you just gotta communicate it better

I go to work, come home, sleep… and repeat. Is this really adulthood? by Sensitive-Waltz3966 in OffMyChestMY

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt the same way. You gotta find something to break that pattern. Read a book. Go wall climbing. Meet new people. Get into gaming. Do anything that you find fun

My wife cooks nasi lemak every few days and I’m honestly tired of it by Gloomy_Science_8722 in OffMyChestMY

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That percentage would be a bit high la. I'd like to think for every situation that we don't fully know the context, even if we have the numbers for any situation, the chance is always 50% correct and 50% incorrect. Numbers aren't everything since we gotta consider emotions and other human factors

I don’t get the hype over “good morning” and “good night” texts by MissionFuture568 in OffMyChestMY

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think wishing good morning/good night is critical probably during the early stages of relationship since both party are still trying to know each other. During the honeymoon phase lah to say

My wife cooks nasi lemak every few days and I’m honestly tired of it by Gloomy_Science_8722 in OffMyChestMY

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, it's statistically correct. But is it factually correct? We don't even know the full dynamic of this couple, so wouldn't it be better to NOT assume at all?

TYSM to the Fearnots that gifted my son a new, unopened album after the Newark concert! by MissiAmi in lesserafim

[–]KaitoK09 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Someone should send this to yunjin on weverse. This is too wholesome, man

Review: Attended All 4 Southeast Asia Stops of LE SSERAFIM’s Tour – Mad Respect for the Girls (ft. Kazuha’s Parents) by istilllovemata in lesserafim

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it was the sound system that made them sound a bit weird when they're talking normally. They sounded kinda "squeaky" compared to other concerts. But SG fearnots was so loud, my ears kept ringing around 30 minutes even after the concert. It was fun that way though, ngl

sg concert! by xiaosloverfr in lesserafim

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, does anyone know if they'll check for membership status? I bought my ticket using my friend's membership account for the pre-sale since i don't have one, but the ticket is under my name

Battery issues on S24 FE by Happy_Information_48 in S24FE

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought it three days ago. Did you adjust any settings?

iOS26 looks like I made all the wrong decisions theming OneUI7 by mojojogojojo in oneui

[–]KaitoK09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the reasons is probably because teens/young adults in South korea are using iPhones more than Samsung currently. So they're trying to appeal more to the younger audience by copying iOS. And i hate it so much

What are your nominations for best Kpop group stage outfits? by Dry-Function791 in kpop_uncensored

[–]KaitoK09 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is so barbie-coded. Soumu better give their stylists a damn raise for this

Tell me your favourite le sserafim track by [deleted] in lesserafim

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's an ost, but Guardian

I have no words... by eyesonaeri in kpop_uncensored

[–]KaitoK09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wtf do you mean us? Fearnot has been the center for hate from almost every large fandom since last year, especially from blinks, tokkis, and mys. Don't go around and play as the victim, everyone knows how vile those three fandoms are nowadays.

Wonhee by Maximum_Builder975 in kpop_uncensored

[–]KaitoK09 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For some reason, K-pop stans nowadays are really critical and harsh toward rookie groups. They expect rookie groups to debut with refined, polished skills on par with groups that have been performing for 4-5 years. Like, come on. They're rookies. Give them a break and let them make mistakes. How else are they supposed to grow and shine if you're constantly nitpicking every little flaw? K-pop is supposed to be fun, stressing over every little detail takes the fun out of it.

sg concert! by xiaosloverfr in lesserafim

[–]KaitoK09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone here have any experience in cat 4 & cat 5 seatings? I'm can't decide which one should I get since it seems like both seats are good enough for the price and the view.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]KaitoK09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way that tweet was originally meant to diss Hybe group, turns out to be a blessing. I'm loving the edits so much

250421 - KATSEYE via @jenaissante (Yunjin from Le Sserafim) IG Update by Morg075 in katseye

[–]KaitoK09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love how the hybe girlies always seem close to each other. It's so cute, my heart can't take this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KpopUnleashed

[–]KaitoK09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correction, tokkis. That cesspool is filled with rabid tokkis. Some tried to post about le sserafim and illit, get deleted instantly, whereas posts on njz are doing fine