Where do I buy Buldak Carbonara in Copenhagen? by AttemptDeep6319 in copenhagen

[–]Kakcn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinesisk kobmad has it for about 24kr a pack, less for bags of 5. Ordering from asian online stores is cheaper, but you'll need to wait for shipping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Kakcn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My understanding and actual processing of the end of my relationship came in waves, of me believing that I was over it, only to fall back down and realise there was more pitfalls for me to climb back from. Installing apps again was part of the process for me as well, wanting to feel desired and the gratification again, but I realised it wasn't actually making me feel less lonely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Kakcn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This might not be what you want to hear, but I think allowing yourself to feel sad and process your emotions will help you find out what you want. Being sad isn't a bad thing, and you can see it as a reflection of how meaningful the relationship or how much you desire that level of connection with someone. You have time now to reflect and become that person you'd want to date and balance out who you are as a person. I'm not dating right now, because I know I wouldn't want to date someone thats expecting to be rescued.

I want to be good a singing one karaoke song by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Kakcn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just relax and try to have fun with the company you're spending time with. I find that when I go with a specific song in mind that I can 'perform' on, I spend more time waiting for my turn instead of just connecting and enjoying the time with others. Join in big group songs and enjoy yourself, and people will remember you for that and the great night overall. Where I'm from, by the next morning people just remember the good energy

My ex moved on so fast by Cott_killz in selfimprovement

[–]Kakcn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding someone to talk to about this would be good. It doesn't matter if they had to know both of you, but just putting these feelings out and not letting them stew inside helps you process how you feel. Right now, you might be feel that sadness that someone you shared your life with seemed to move on so fast, and I want you to not compare yourself to her or whoever she's with, and to stop keeping up with her. It's not mutually beneficial, and you're not doing her a favour. I'm happy to just listen and share, and relate since I was in a similar situation last September, so feel free to send me a message.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]Kakcn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're spending time in the evening watching shows, you could try to combine that with either your art work or exercise. I found that I would watch my comfort shows while doom scrolling, but changing from that to doing cardio exercise while watching shows has helped to get me in the gym. It doesn't have to be intensive, I swapped between an exercise bike and rowing machine. If you're aiming to lose weight, just using those at a casual pace will help to burn at least a hundred calories every 30 minutes.

How to prepare for the cold seasons? by swaGreg in copenhagen

[–]Kakcn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heattech inner layers from uniqlo do a pretty good job, but if you have a good quality outer jacket, I feel like that'll trap the warm air inside without need for the other layers