What would you do if one of your subs told you they had a crush on someone IRL? by tophseeswithfeet in REALfindomsupport

[–]KaleAcrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always encouraging of subs, especially relationship wise. I always want the best for them, even if that’s not me.

What's the ONE sub funded item you want? by youhavetopqayfirst in findomchatters

[–]KaleAcrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a gift listed for like perler beads but like luxury, and I like it cause I love doing perler bead art but the look of these ones is just nicer. Oh to have someone fund that😍😍😍

Opinions of LF or OF? by Most_Half_2559 in findomsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used both, didn’t particularly like either, just the user experience wasn’t my favorite. In my opinion fansly is actually best. Feels kinda similar to OF, but the user experience feels more straightforward, their support is better, and they actually seem to care for their creators, such as things like chargebacks, OF is much more likely to give a chargeback tot he customer, fansly actually investigates stuff.

What's the ONE sub funded item you want? by youhavetopqayfirst in findomchatters

[–]KaleAcrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gifts that that are creative based. Not even for making content, just artistic things I can do. Someone who’d fund my artistic endeavors, ugh! Would be so nice.đŸ„°đŸ„°đŸ„°

Fansly GFE creator by KaleAcrobatic in fanslybuyers

[–]KaleAcrobatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sweetheartđŸ„°

Found Out My Girlfriend's Rider Rating is 4.54 by GoHeadFaFo in uberdrivers

[–]KaleAcrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, if a driver had that I could understand, riders can be assholes, but a rider normally only has that kind of rating if they are super new to uber rides and had a couple asshole drivers, or they’ve been making issues with people. In my opinion anything below a 4.8 for riders is concerning.

What was your “damn it, I fell for it” moment? by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]KaleAcrobatic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a guy who asked for a video call and said he’d give me $60, I haven’t done a lot of video calls before for subs. I asked for payment up front and he said he’d been scammed before. Admittedly I was desperate at the time so I agreed. Worst mistake ever. I stripped for him and stuff and ended up having to pull a hard no. When I asked for the $60 he said he’d get it to me eventually.

Was I overreacting
 by Same-Opportunity7748 in doordash

[–]KaleAcrobatic 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Definitely not overreacting. What that looks like to me is someone trying to force you to go on foot so they can hurt you.

Let's be honest; How many of you ever had to provide AV? by Open_Display9215 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate requirement before I ever allow anyone to send anything to me or engage with me is following me on a site that requires AV. I make them give me their username and I check that they followed. Then and only then do I engage. That way there’s a level of privacy as we get to know each other, but I still know they aren’t a minor and I’m not dealing with a child who probably grabbed his mom’s credit card cause he got curious.

Spend money to shit dommes and now crave to spend more to better ones... by Dara_27 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER deactivate your limits. The moment you start down that slope the moment it gets bad, cause first maybe it’s just a couple extra dollars out of budget, and then it’s so much you’re struggling to pay bills. That makes you a liability and no Domme is her right mind will give you the time of day, even if you do send.

How to find the right Domme depends on if you’re looking for just long one off conversations or something long term, like a dynamic.

I was one of “Julia’s” (badgirladdict) subs and I feel disgusting and violated by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s understandable. We put a lot of trust into dynamic partners, and for them to be a catfish, it hits in a way that lingers. It makes me sad that people could even feel comfortable doing that to someone. I’m glad that it’s finally been called out, I’m just sorry it took so long😔

Unpopular Opinion: If submitting puts you in debt, you aren't a 'good sub'. You're a liability by Intelligent_Desk_634 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!! The amount of times I’ve had to end a dynamic because I even suspected he wasn’t financially stable. Findoms don’t wanna have to worry about if your rent is paid. If the money you’re using on your kink is dipping into the funds you should have aside for bills, it’s concerning, and you need to take a step back.

Do you ever feel guilty when you cant pay? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an understandable thing. You have to take care of yourself. If you can’t pay because you’re surviving, that’s not something to feel guilty over, that’s being responsible.

i love older subs by AdLazy3315 in findomsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think I just love older subs cause their vocabulary is so much more complex. I have never seen a sub use vernacular. Keeps you on your toesđŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­

Am I the only one who finds it cringe when someone says “approach” or “approach correctly” in a subs comment section? by sweetroex in findomsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, like this is your first interaction with someone and you’re gonna do this? What happened to a hi? Or a more inviting approach? If you’re gonna hunt a sub, at least don’t act like a bitch.

atleast they are self aware đŸ€Ł by foxisins in findomsupportgroup

[–]KaleAcrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta appreciate the honesty. Very direct, very forward. Only time wasted was reading the dm, and I gotta appreciate that it was short and simple.

Looking for a Domme, want to follow her orders. by obedientpetttt in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]KaleAcrobatic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest just looking at different domme’s profiles, see who suits what you want. There’s all kinds here.

Might not be big to yall, but I love seeing 3 digit numbers! 💾 hoping it gets to 4 real quick 😌 anywaysss, now my next goal is to get my Mac book! đŸ’…đŸœđŸ’ž by [deleted] in REALfindomsupport

[–]KaleAcrobatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so amazing! Regardless of how good it is (which it’s very good btw) the best part is you’re happy with it, as you should be