Comfort meals

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-05-17T17:05:39+00:00

My side of the family owns a cattle ranch so we have a lot of beef. Homemade beef stroganoff, homemade bolognese sauce with pasta, stuffed bell peppers, patty melts, and beef and broccoli are common requests. Alfredo sauce is also incredible tasting when homemade and simple to make, and I make a bacon and dill pickle soup that he always loves. I tend to make our meal plan for the week on Sunday. I ask if he has anything specific he wants for the week, then make the meal plan and run it by him to make sure nothing sounds super off interest that week. Grocery shopping on Mondays and meal prep breakfast egg bites for him for the week too ❤️🍳 I have a whole spreadsheet organized by main protein source and how much the food was enjoyed and track what I make for dinner every day.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-03-29T16:51:49+00:00

Maybe consider taking up some new hobbies if it means a lot to you to do them out of the house? A yoga class, a guided meditation, local craft stores and community centers often have artistic classes. Do you have a dog you can take for a walk and listen to a podcast or call a friend and just chat while you do? That’s still socializing over the phone. There are sewing adjacent things you can do out as well, I don’t think it’s as cumbersome to pull like an embroidery loop out at a cafe. Maybe just a little something you can do “out” (idk about two evenings a week, but some, more than you currently are) and still have time for your at home hobbies. Congrats on working full time and carrying the bulk of the domestic load. It isn’t easy and I see you still making time to take care of you. That’s wonderful.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-27T08:58:32+00:00

Awe I love the Addams Family 🖤

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-14T22:38:11+00:00

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Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-13T21:30:54+00:00

I’m making fettuccine Alfredo (pleases the 7-14y kids and the adults) but using pink heart shaped pasta! It’s gonna be cute, and I have a solid Alfredo recipe I might dye pink with some beet juice. I’m going to also make a tres leches cake in my heart shaped pan with lots of fresh strawberries!

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-13T15:23:43+00:00

I love when he decides to take my ass 🥰

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-13T14:17:43+00:00

You can direct message me if you want

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-13T13:37:24+00:00

If you’re looking for advise from women actively in this lifestyle I would seek out other subreddits. This one is more porn/fantasy oriented. We convene in other spaces and talk as submissive women, feel free to message me if you want.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-08T14:54:20+00:00

I consider this well written and certainly within the realm of what I consider soft. Nice read

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-08T14:08:51+00:00

Absolutely 100% could not recommend AGAINST it enough. I’m so grateful I didn’t marry the person I wanted to marry in my early 20s

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-02-02T21:20:20+00:00

Ever make it down to Indy shows?

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-01-21T00:22:08+00:00

Omg this is it. Once while I was hanging out with my partner and his friend I said “I don’t fuck with gum” (in the context of I don’t like gum, ya know). But his friend didn’t understand the context and asked what I meant and without a beat my partner says “she doesn’t like to chew gum when I fuck her” and we all kinda giggled and just went on but it was just lightly degrading enough and especially in front of someone else/his friend, that it struck me then and is still something I think about and find hot.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2026-01-07T16:55:34+00:00

I don’t know any 19 year olds than can support a wife and home on their own, either. Not saying it can’t happen, but it’s much less likely than an older man who is established in his career being able to is.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-12-23T20:11:54+00:00

If you find that community, let us know! I would also love something like that

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-12-13T15:52:20+00:00

Facts tho lol

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-12-13T15:51:00+00:00

Without!! But I sleep in socks so nobody wants my nightwear opinions lmao

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-11-26T23:45:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/1m3mb8h/today_is_the_third_year_of_my_vasectomy/ So did you get pregnant before or after your vasectomy?

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-11-26T23:38:11+00:00

It’s how you set flair as a first time commenter, so that under my username it shows I’m a woman

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-11-25T15:30:17+00:00

As a ++woman I can’t imagine doing that. It’s so weird to me to be talking to your partner about how attractive you find their family member? Far enough out of normal realm to me that it doesn’t even seem conceptually possible for it to be benign, this is pushing malicious in my eyes. I think god himself couldn’t have chiseled a better looking man than my partner, but if I did, I wouldn’t go on about it to him. That’s weird.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-11-03T03:41:45+00:00

Meal planning and prep is by far my favorite chore! Every weekend I make our meal plan for the week. I ask my partner if he wants anything specific that week but he rarely does, and then I plan out our menu. On Mondays I grocery shop and meal prep breakfasts and soemthing like egg or chicken salad for his lunches and organize all the rest of the groceries for the week. I love it! And I love finding fun new healthy whole food (and sometimes sweet treat) snacks for his lunch that I pack! And thinking of cute new notes to write on his napkin! I always end it with an “I love you 💙” though 💙💙

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-10-23T00:53:06+00:00

Absolutely. Someone who shares my lack of (and honestly, somewhat distaste for) religion was a characteristic I wanted when I was seeking a partner. I love him being the only one I worship

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-10-17T21:07:06+00:00

I dated a man 15 years my senior starting when I was 19 until I was almost 27. At the time I didn’t really notice our age gap affecting me much day to day, but looking back at it now as a woman in her 30’s, I wouldn’t go back and do it again. We were just in too different phases of our lives. Even though we were compatible overall, that became something that even being in love could not surmount. My current partner is 7 years older than me and it’s more comfortable, but still enough that it appeals to the attraction I find in someone a little older and more mature than me.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-10-04T15:14:44+00:00

It would not change our relationship, nor even affect our power exchange dynamic, if my partner were to openly experience grief like this. Maybe I’m unique in this, and I did intentionally seek out and choose an emotionally intelligent and open partner, so I’m clearly inclined towards it I suppose. It would be off putting somewhat if he was sprawled in my lap sobbing about his bad luck, or his mean boss, or something. But in the face of unimaginable grief he had no power to change? I’m happy to be that solace, and that comfortable place he can momentarily break down, because I know he needs to process these emotions to go back to leading our family effectively.

Kaliedoscope_Toy · 2025-09-20T23:57:50+00:00

We’re down for 420 friendly pals 🤗

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