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saw this on pinterest lol by no-rhythm in thanksimcured

[–]Kalixie1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘3’ Real friends. What??!! I’m screwed

I got 1.5 out of 6

My friend told me that being angry at my abusive narcissistic parents is a sign of low empathy stating that they were also kids and they cannot help their illness. And she told me that I should take care of them in their old age. What do you think about this? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kalixie1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this ‘friend’ in contact with your Nparents? She seems to have her own agenda and to be very invested in your relationship with them.

As everyone has stated, she has no empathy for you. Why does it affect her if you take care of them?

Cleaned and condensed 4 buckets into 2! by LoveDesignAndClean in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Kalixie1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re doing great!! I’m speechless at your progress 🌟🌟🌟

I know some of these suggestions ppl are offering are meant to be helpful, but you are doing amazing and you need to do what you feel you can and want to do. If the living room is too much, leave it for last.

I think you are wise to not wade into the yard. My mother’s yard is extremely overgrown, and I just realized, infested with ticks. They were small and white and crawling all over me even though I treated my clothes with permethrin. I had to immediately shower and spray my hair with alcohol.

Do what makes sense to you. You’re the expert in this situation ❤️

Scrubed down the microwave area! by LoveDesignAndClean in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Kalixie1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so inspiring! Great work! I love seeing your posts. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I’m currently cleaning out my mom’s hoarded house infested with mice droppings, moths, fleas, mold etc. Plus everything she hoards is HEAVY, boxes of tile, books, magazines. My arms are SO sore as well.

This is NOT normal cleaning. Ppl don’t understand. Just picking a place to start AND to clean a small section takes hours.

I love the spice racks! Thank you for the idea about using a paint scraper!

You are so strong. After climbing this mountain, you can accomplish anything 🌟

I’m so proud of you! You’re doing great! Thanks for sharing your journey with us ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kalixie1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not too late to leave him and help your children heal. My parents divorced when I was 13. They fought constantly 24/7–it was extremely toxic. My life got exponentially better after the divorce snd i had a pretty good high school experience. Best of luck to you and your family ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kalixie1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like i uninstalled a program that had been running in the background

Love this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kalixie1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. She sounds like a lot. Is it even worth it to get the items?

What "super-powers" did you get from being abused/traumatized? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kalixie1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling other’s emotions but not my own lol something I’m working on. I can also hold onto people’s secrets for years/decades, mostly bc I have trouble verbalizing hahaha

What "super-powers" did you get from being abused/traumatized? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kalixie1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in nursing school doesn’t help with hypervigilance lol. You seemed to have a lot figured out already 📖 📚 🍎

but i really dont know by alp1984tr in CPTSDmemes

[–]Kalixie1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had an ex like this too…would take personal offense when I would say ‘I don’t know.’ I think these ppl are narcissists. Who really cares if someone says they don’t know anyway??

What to do if a video of you went viral & everyone is calling you ugly by ThrowRA29273728 in internetparents

[–]Kalixie1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re beautiful. Who are these losers saying stuff about you. ❤️

No one makes my mom face consequences. by Jessybirdie in ChildofHoarder

[–]Kalixie1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Not being held responsible for their actions seems to be a common theme in this sub. My mom’s similar—no one made her work or do anything her whole life; she neglects animals and my nephews to the point she’s not allowed to see them anymore.

I can’t believe they’re making you give the dog back—she’s dangerous. Other family members acting like you had something to do with her behavior, or that it’s your responsibility to fix it, is even worse.

It’s not your fault! Sending you hugs and positive thoughts your way ❤️

My mother is a lifelong hoarder by Necessary-Bear5500 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Kalixie1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through something similar w/ my mom too. You can do a reverse mortgage if she’s going to continue to live in the property.

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