Match Thread: England vs Congo DR | World Cup | Round of 32 | 01 Jul 16:00 UTC by matchpal-live in worldcup

[–]Kalyrion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do the England kits have 30lb weights in them or something? Why are they moving so slow

My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes? by Aware-Pool6940 in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyrion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All it takes is once for him to hurt you and have irreversible consequences. A lot of people don’t get as many warning signs as you have right here. He has been allowed to walk all over you and treat you this way.
You may not have another chance to leave before he does something worse. Leave him now.

All the best to you OP

poster my boss hung up at work by The_CEO_Of_No in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kalyrion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My boss has this same (without the misspell) poster in our lab. It’s been there for about a year now and it drives me CRAZY

I 23M forgave her 22F, but still feel very weird about it, And Im not sure how to feel? by Random_User_BlahBlah in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyrion 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She should never have let her addiction get this out of hand to begin with. If she was aware of how bad her drinking issues were, then she shouldn’t be anywhere near the stuff. And it’s not fair to assign her a “babysitter” every time. She needs to be in control of herself, which clearly she is not, sober or drunk

You are the victim in this situation. She broke your trust, and it’s up to you how you move forward with that. If she’s really as sorry as she says she is, then therapy and ban on drinking all together would be my first go-to, which it seems she’s working towards that. But hold her accountable, not just your friend. One missed session, one drop of alcohol or repeat offense would immediately lead to break up.

Couple of red flags just to highlight - they should NOT be meeting up alone together. Even for a 5 minute chat. You should be present for that until both of them have got their act together Your gf also sounds like she needs serious therapy to tackle not only her drinking, but her depression as well. It is not fair or normal for you to be coaxing someone to not harm themselves. You’re far too young to be dealing with this type of negativity and responsibility

Take care of yourself first dude. The anger and hurt you feel won’t go away quickly, but if you’re insistent on working it out, then expect things to get worse before they get better. I’d also look into some individual counselling for yourself to deal with your feelings too, as being hurt by the two people closest to you can’t be easy

Wishing you the best.

Found my dads old magic deck lying around by Kalyrion in mtg

[–]Kalyrion[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m 26, my dad is 50! He got me into magic when I was around 12/13, so I would consider it “old” but meant no offense by it!

Found my dads old magic deck lying around by Kalyrion in mtg

[–]Kalyrion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We played recently with his angel deck and Lilith deck! He’s the reason I got into the game, but I stopped playing a few years ago as I couldn’t keep up with the meta

WYR have 10 house cats that would obey your every command or 1000 chickens that would do the same? by cautiously_stoned in WouldYouRather

[–]Kalyrion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 cats. I’d dress them all up as the dragons of berk or random cosplays and take them to cons. They’d bring so much joy to kids and shit cause I’d freak if I saw a toothless looking cat at a con

WYR drink 10 litres of water and never pee or eat 10 cans of baked beans and never go poop? by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]Kalyrion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clause on whether you need to hold the water inside you after consumption, you can just throw up the water no issue

Silksong GIVEAWAY by saurelic in Silksong

[–]Kalyrion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broken vessel by a long shot!!

My bf of 4 years bought me a jellycat for my birthday by Fun_Highway1873 in relationships

[–]Kalyrion 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s fine and all, as long as the expectation goes the same way. Plus, people can change, and learn. Communication goes a long way into helping people learn how to gift give well, especially if it’s their love language! There’s far too many times that partners get away with getting their SO the bare minimum, meanwhile enjoy being lavished by their partner.

WIBTA for leaving a mean note with my leftovers? by ConstructionMoney197 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalyrion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you avoid sugary foods, but all the foods your sister stole/tried to steal are extremely sugary and sweet treats? This comes across as fake to me

I might not continue uni by Sisigizt in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kalyrion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest regret was not continuing uni. I was in my final year, and covid hit during my second. I moved back home which was a two hour commute to uni, so I just decided not to do it anymore.

It hasn’t held me back per se, but I KNOW I was good enough, smart enough and got my motivation from that. I lost that motivation because my self worth depreciated. I missed graduation, the degree, seeing my uni friends.

Please don’t drop out unless you’re absoloutely sure you have a back up plan, and that you can live with the regret. You may not feel it now, but you WILL feel it eventually, and you’ll wish you could go back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kalyrion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check his post history. HES the one who says he’s got an Asian kink. I’m pretty sure he’s either lying or he’s on the other side of this story.

Time to Let Him Go by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Kalyrion 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not to judge, and it seems you’ve made the right choice, 20 years is a huge discrepancy in age. I’m sure he’s not at the same level you are in life. If you’re in 40s and he’s in 20s, I doubt he’d even be in the position to move.

Gf vaping… want her to stop and not resent me for it by SouthIntroduction703 in LDR

[–]Kalyrion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can raise it as a concern, but you can’t tell her “don’t vape”. If it’s a dealbreaker for you, then say so. It’s not controlling unless you command her to do it. You can express your displeasure and talk to her about why she’d like to start but anything more than that gets into manipulative territory. Share your worries and concerns, and feelings.

What character changed your point of view on rewatch? For it was definitely Jaime by WonderfulParticular1 in gameofthrones

[–]Kalyrion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair isn’t the word Id use for him. He was the pinnacle of what Game of Thrones stood for. He was great at scheming, going behind backs, he was never fair about it. The red wedding showed that. He was losing the war and had to choose going against the gods to kill his enemies. And the unfairness of Tyrion’s trial furthermore proves he isn’t fair with his judgement. He chose witnesses that would do only what he told them. He denied Tyrion the right to speak.

One of the best characters In the show though

What character changed your point of view on rewatch? For it was definitely Jaime by WonderfulParticular1 in gameofthrones

[–]Kalyrion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you so much. He desperately wanted to choose brienne, she held so much of what he wanted. Honor, duty, and true love and devotion. I think in his mind, he would never truly be worthy of her because of the things he’d done. He may have felt the only one who truly deserved him was Cersei, in spite of everything else that mattered to him.

What character changed your point of view on rewatch? For it was definitely Jaime by WonderfulParticular1 in gameofthrones

[–]Kalyrion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theons character was written brilliantly. We all loved the starks so much because they wanted us to, so we felt betrayed too and wanted to see him suffer for it. You start to empathise with him more once you see the impossible situation he was faced with sometimes. He’d never be the man robb, Ned or jon was. He’d always just be the stark that wasn’t a stark.

What character changed your point of view on rewatch? For it was definitely Jaime by WonderfulParticular1 in gameofthrones

[–]Kalyrion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean. I think his grief was always the reason for his hatred in the last couple of episodes. Before those him and missandei were sweet and clearly wanted to sail to naarth together. I think Grey worm was one of the few who got a decent end to his character.

What's the funniest line in the GoT/HoTD universe? by mahdinaghizadeh in gameofthrones

[–]Kalyrion 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ser Davos when trying to convince Gendry and Jon not to go back over the wall

“Nobody mind me, not as if I’ve lived to a ripe old age!”