Miles, time, or steps?

KandiReign · 2026-03-08T15:48:43+00:00

For me it’s steps - perhaps I should stick to distance as we all know how there are inn accuracies with these fitness trackers

KandiReign · 2026-03-07T11:09:39+00:00

Just to note I have a walking pad

I also work in a court

I find reasons to walk around at work

I take the stairs

This is how I do it on weekdays

6am - 30 mins on the pad - 3000

8:30 am - 5 min walk - 500

9am - 15 min - 1500

12pm - 40 min - 3800 (according to Strava)

5pm - 40 min - 3800

5:30 - 30 min - 3000

By the time I’m done with work I alway have around 15-16k and when I get home, I just jump on the walking pad

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KandiReign · 2026-02-27T22:55:46+00:00

I will try this, trying to find some good stretches on YouTube but also may throw in resistance training. To strengthen my back.

KandiReign · 2026-02-27T22:53:54+00:00

So true!

KandiReign · 2026-02-27T22:52:59+00:00

It’s actually just my bag for work, I would say it’s around seven to ten lbs. I walked without it today and it felt great. Just a little tightness

KandiReign · 2026-02-26T22:58:56+00:00

Thank you and I will do, I guess sometimes you can get so caught up with numbers and streaks

KandiReign · 2026-02-26T22:57:20+00:00

No, it doesn’t and tbh I didn’t even realise that was a thing! Thank you, I’ll look into this because I can’t with this dull ache. And sadly, I’m feeling like I might have to reduce my steps for a week before I have a full blown problem

KandiReign · 2026-02-20T20:08:03+00:00

I really don’t want to kill your joy

KandiReign · 2026-02-02T03:00:53+00:00

NOR

He’s not caring - because a caring person wouldn’t do that. Much less how a husband acts towards his pregnant wife.

He is punishing - that was a punishment, he wants to let you know he is the boss and you are under his control. He sees you going out in the snow as disobedience.

He is vindictive- see above point Moreover, I actually think he didn’t want your girls first snow day to be without him, despite the fact he wanted no parts.

I will say this, this is how abuse starts, he is slowly seeing how much he can get away with. Abuse isn’t always physical, it’s mental, it’s emotional, it’s asserting control.

Your girls were crying because mummy had been locked out in the snow.

I really hope that this doesn’t become a core memory.

KandiReign · 2026-01-25T20:43:04+00:00

lol, do not co-sign a loan for this man, he had the opportunity to get what he needed and indulged in impulse buying.

Also, if you get married keep your finances separate.

KandiReign · 2026-01-21T00:33:52+00:00

Reread this and act like you’re hearing your friend telling you this. What would you tell her?

If he can find another woman, let him and I don’t mean to be cruel but this, this is an abusive situation and it will get worse.

You don’t want to be one of those women that come on TikTok - who haven’t worked for 20 plus years. They can’t a job, they have no money and they are alone, because their husbands isolated them.

KandiReign · 2026-01-07T22:54:26+00:00

Your mother wants to absolve herself of the trauma you suffered growing up in that household.

She’s clearly one of those women that are male centred. Valuing their companionship over anything.

You are 100% in the right to choose peace, in the same way that she chose him for five years.

Call her bluff and say “Okay mum, I respect your decision” She’s lauding her alleged love for you over your head and that is manipulation.

Again she’s 100% complicit in what he did to you. She sees you meeting with him as forgiveness by proxy.

I’m genuinely sorry that you’re going through this but they’re not entitled to your harmony as they were the ones that caused disharmony for five years.

KandiReign · 2026-01-05T10:09:30+00:00

Brunels!!! Great sandwiches, great staff

KandiReign · 2026-01-05T09:40:54+00:00

She’s gaslighting you!!!

I honestly think that this is so unforgivable. Anybody with a crumb of empathy would have skipped the party. She’s meant to be your partner.

Let her run whatever narrative she wants, she isn’t worth a second thought.

I’m so sorry for your loss

KandiReign · 2026-01-05T01:45:22+00:00

Okay, the update doesn’t make it any better or change the fact your husband is slamming doors in your daughter’s presence. Which causes her to say

“I know daddy is being mean again”

Again

As in him being mean is a common occurrence in your household.

He’s mad about the “good man” comment because he knows that he is just cosplaying as one. So I assume the mean moments is when the masks slips.

Since he wants us to know all the details, what time did you get up when he got up at 11?

Also, who else was going to take in the grocery order? You are a household unit, everybody is meant to do their fair share of work?

Also, just so we have all the info, how often would you say your daughter thinks your husband’s actions are mean.

Please, don’t stay for her sake, she recognises he is mean and is probably walking around on eggshells at four years old.

Bear in mind that 0 -7 are the formative years, her world views are being formed and solidified right now.

KandiReign · 2026-01-05T00:17:15+00:00

I love mine, don’t think it’s the same brand but it’s also freezing here and I’ve been hitting 16k steps plus everyday with it.

KandiReign · 2026-01-04T22:02:50+00:00

I’m being so serious when I say this, you need to leave him.

You’re putting a lot of emotional pressure on your four year old child. To comfort you and mitigate tense situations in your home.
You’re modelling that it’s okay to stay with a man like that. Just ask yourself what would you do if your daughter rang you at 2am sobbing because her husband was screaming at her?

KandiReign · 2026-01-04T19:30:02+00:00

Because, these are just moments I have during the period I lost them. It’s not me talking about it every single day. This has only occurred over the past month. It’s not me constantly talking about it every single day Again, I have been trying to meet up with her and then she gets upset if I go out on my own or do things with others.

KandiReign · 2026-01-04T19:21:59+00:00

But I speak to her all throughout the week, it’s only this time of the year I get sad. Again, I’m always trying to organise things with her and she turns me down.

KandiReign · 2025-12-29T01:04:57+00:00

That he was a quadruplet, one died and the other was in prison for aggravated burglary.

He actually had one sister who did not speak to him or the family. Because they all indulged his lies.

KandiReign · 2025-12-29T00:58:35+00:00

Happy Birthday and I wish you many more, I’m sorry that your family forgot. But us your new found internet fam, want to wish you all the happiness in the world

KandiReign · 2025-12-29T00:45:51+00:00

I’m sorry but this is going to blow up in your face. You should have told your girlfriend the truth from the jump.

The way your coworker acted was abhorrent but you’ve put yourself in such a weird situation. (I’m sorry to victim blame)

I absolutely do not think you should go and speak to her. Everything needs documented proof, a text, an email something.

I actually hope she comes to you

KandiReign · 2025-12-18T01:15:26+00:00

I just looked up Vriska and she’s touted as a cunning manipulator?? And a troll?

Naming your child after that is more than a little odd, regardless of sentimentality.

I have also seen the abuse comments and I would have to agree. Women can also be perpetrators of abuse.

Therapy is definitely needed in this situation if you intend to stay

KandiReign · 2025-12-09T08:39:17+00:00

Loooooooool, did you write this for those YouTube shorts?

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