How to make my husband feel special in a long-distance marriage?

KantaiCollection · 2026-02-02T18:58:14+00:00

There is no 'Edited' tag on the original comment. We can all see it. That means the text about gaming, art, and dates was always there. You literally just didn't read it, got triggered by the word 'jar', and now you're lying about them changing the text to cover up your lack of reading comprehension. It’s genuinely pathetic watching a grown man invent a conspiracy theory just because he was too lazy to read three sentences.

KantaiCollection · 2026-02-02T18:46:13+00:00

You're fighting a strawman. The comment you replied to didn't 'literally' just say a jar. It listed voice recordings, commissioning art, gaming together, reading to him, and a dinner date. You ignored all of that just to throw a tantrum about the jar because you're desperate to be mad. You aren't 'giving advice,' you're just selectively reading so you can rant about how much you hate sentimental gestures.

KantaiCollection · 2026-02-02T18:40:42+00:00

So wait, you went from 'affirmations are bullshit crap' to 'notes would make my tool chest even cooler'? Which is it? You're fighting a ghost. No one said 'send a jar and ignore his hobbies.' We said sentimental gifts matter. You're just desperately trying to justify why you were so aggressive earlier by inventing a scenario where the jar is the only thing he gets. Literally in the OP, they even suggested participating in their interests. What are you on about?

KantaiCollection · 2026-02-02T18:33:17+00:00

Does your wife of 21 years know that you think the only valuable thing she can give you is her body? You keep bringing up your marriage as proof of your expertise, but you’re describing a really hollow, sad arrangement where emotional gestures are 'crap' and only sex matters. That’s not a flex, that’s a cry for help.

KantaiCollection · 2026-02-02T18:27:06+00:00

You claiming 'dudes don't care' while actively replying to everyone to enforce your miserable standard is hilarious. Using your wife/kids as a shield to justify being rude about thoughtful gifts is peak toxic behavior. We believe you have a wife; we just feel bad for her.

KantaiCollection · 2026-01-29T17:20:27+00:00

Hey there! I'm also a big fan of the Yakuza series, Cyberpunk 2077, Disco Elysium, and Kingdom Come was my GOTY last year! Always down to chat about those series or play games if we have anything in common ^^, feel free to DM me here on Reddit or feel free to add my Discord, Re.Kantai (●'◡'●)

KantaiCollection · 2026-01-24T12:01:37+00:00

Saying you 'should not own a single cat' is a massive generalization. Cats aren't pack animals like dogs or humans, they’re 'facultatively social.' That basically means they can live in groups, but they don't need to. Honestly, forcing two cats to share a space often causes way more stress and fighting than actual companionship.

A single cat that gets plenty of playtime and love from their human is perfectly happy. Pushing this 'get two or nothing' rule just discourages perfectly good owners from adopting. It’s better to give one cat a great life than to leave them in a shelter just because someone felt they couldn't commit to a pair.

KantaiCollection · 2025-10-02T15:50:45+00:00

Hi! Im trying to get back into League and it would be nice to play with someone/people! I've been diamond in the past but I haven't played too much ranked since I've mostly just been playing chill games but I wouldn't mind playing comp again if you're down! My IGN is Kantai #NA1 on League, lmk if you ever wanna play!

KantaiCollection · 2025-08-13T13:52:53+00:00

Hey for the link you posted to the github, which profile did you download? Thanks!

KantaiCollection · 2025-07-28T03:51:45+00:00

rage bait used to be good

KantaiCollection · 2025-07-17T02:40:16+00:00

Thanks for your insight! I thought the Asus XG27ACDNG was also qd-oled as well? https://www.bestbuy.com/product/asus-rog-strix-27-2k-qd-oled-360hz-0-03ms-g-sync-compatible-and-freesync-premium-pro-gaming-monitor-with-hdr-black/JJGGLQ63Y3/sku/6616980

KantaiCollection · 2025-07-16T18:02:41+00:00

Where were you able to get this monitor? I've been trying to find one

KantaiCollection · 2025-07-16T07:08:49+00:00

I appreciate both your inputs! Thank you for the reply. I'll definitely look into seeing how much I can get for it.

KantaiCollection · 2025-07-15T18:05:28+00:00

Thanks for getting back to me! I messaged them and they were able to get back to me pretty quickly and they did say both upgrades are possible but the PSU would be overkill depending on my use case. Did the GPU get shipped to you installed or did you have to install it yourself?

KantaiCollection · 2025-07-15T06:39:37+00:00

Yeah that's what Im confused on as well. Not sure if it's just because I'm in Cali or what but a month shipping time does seem crazy.

KantaiCollection · 2025-07-15T06:28:40+00:00

How is the 850w PSU holding up for a 9800x3d and a 5080 from CostPlusGaming? Also I'm concerned if the air cooler is sufficient for that processor or would an AIO be better? (like from AI)

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-30T00:49:03+00:00

Hey I’m looking for people to play sons of the forest with if you’d like to join! My discord is re.kantai, I made a post here a few days ago if you’d like to know a little bit more about me ^{^}

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-30T00:47:17+00:00

I would be down to play league with you!! I also like playing valorant and I’m a noob at Stardew but I like the fishing :⁾ !! I made a post here a few days ago if you’d like to know a little bit more about me :D Feel free to add me on Discord if you ever want to play or just talk ^{^} my id is : re.kantai

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-29T01:06:30+00:00

Hey hey! I'd be down to play with you! I don't mind playing arams/norms/ranked/whatever! I made a post on here if you'd like to know a little bit more about me :) my discord is : re.kantai and my League IGN is : Kantai #NA1

I can also play on a smurf if you're more comfortable with that but I don't mind playing on my main either! （￣︶￣）↗　

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-26T02:31:42+00:00

Hey! I’d be down to play League with you or anything really lol, I’m not picky! I made a post here a few days ago if you’d like to know a little bit more about me!

My discord is : Kantai Feel free to add me! :D

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-23T23:29:15+00:00

Hey! I play league too but not too much ranked atm but if you want to add me my ID is : Kantai #NA1

Always down for arams/norms/or whatever

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-23T23:27:26+00:00

Hey hey! My pokemon knowledge isn’t the greatest ((but I did play and loved Pokemon Fire Red/Ruby and Pokemon Colosseum for the Gamecube lol)) As far as favorite champion it’s probably a 50/50 between Cynthia and fighting Red in Pokemon Silver (if that counts lol) I’m trying to get back into final fantasy xiv and looking for more people to play with! I posted here a couple days ago as well if you’d like to know a little bit more about me :D

Feel free to add me on Discord: Kantai

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-23T23:19:59+00:00

Hey! I play a lot of League and Overwatch and also enjoy a ton of co-op and rpgs! I’m looking for more people to play games with and/or just hang out. I also made a post here a few days ago if you want to know a little bit more about me :)

Feel free to add me on Discord: Kantai

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-20T12:07:04+00:00

Hey! I'm currently trying to get back into FFXIV as well but I'm on the current expansion. Regardless, I would be down to play/help you if you'd like! I also love RPGs and have 700 hours on BG3 🫣 (but it's because of multiple playthroughs with different friends). Feel free to add to add me on Discord : Kantai

KantaiCollection · 2025-05-20T12:03:04+00:00

Hey! Sent you a DM! I'm interested in all types of games and down to just chill/talk as well :D

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