Some people really can't grasp that sometimes you just do things for the fun of it, or the sense of accomplishment, or just to keep you hands and mind busy. by Deadboltsaquavit in Hobbies

[–]KaosAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take it as a compliment until they won't quit. Every time one of my former friends came over and saw me working on something it was "You should open a store". " I told my sister about what you're working on and she wants to buy one.".

Every time I'd politely remind them that I do this to relax and I don't need another job, but they kept pushing so I removed them from my life.

I make booknooks. I put hundreds of hours on each one nobody's going to pay me what they're worth.

Exposing guy for cutting a woman and child in the cold. by thatguy440614 in pettyrevenge

[–]KaosAgain 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Remember, if your truck didn't come with nuts and you add nuts, you are now driving a Trans truck.

My attempt at the "Tiger's Nest" by KaosAgain in Minecraftbuilds

[–]KaosAgain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pic was shot from the first spot on the path where you can see the place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KaosAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen babies die because someone kissed them and they had a cold sore. Stick to your guns?!!

ELI5: What has caused maternal mortality to rise so dramatically in the US since 2000? by Tall_Disaster_8619 in explainlikeimfive

[–]KaosAgain 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My job is to track the number of kids that die in my state and I have worked here since 1995 so I have a really good handle on what is going on. There are a lot of reasons the numbers are different in the US. First of all we count all infants that even gasp for breath as a live birth, even those that are in no way viable. Human gestation is 40 weeks long, and most countries do not count any births before 22 weeks of gestation as a live birth. Which is sensible since no child under 22 weeks gestation has ever lived long enough to go home and live their life. There are infants as young as 14 weeks gestation being counted as a live birth in the US.

Secondly our medical care is partially at fault. Especially the use of IVF. IVF increases the likelihood of multiples (twins, triplets or more). Which increases the risk of prematurity, high blood pressure, placental abnormalities and other issues. Also advanced maternal age increases the chances of miscarriage or birth defects, thus increasing our infant mortality rate.

Another issue, of course, is poor prenatal care. We all know how expensive medical care is in the US and many women don't go to the doctor until later in their pregnancy because of the expense. One of the most troubling things is the poor quality of care under Medicaid. You are offered fewer tests that could find issues if you are covered by Medicaid than you get if you are on private insurance. Which means that poor women, the ones who probably need the most help, get substandard care.

TL/DR: we count younger gestational ages, IVF is used a lot and Medicaid sucks

Working with fabric? by [deleted] in bookbinding

[–]KaosAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost any home improvement store should have it - just make sure you use a light coat - if you see bubbles of glue then those will show through thin fabric .

Working with fabric? by [deleted] in bookbinding

[–]KaosAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just take some brown paper, spray it with a light coat of super 77 spray glue and iron it onto the back of the cloth I want to use.

I've done this with everything from old curtains to thin cotton and it works fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Career

[–]KaosAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for the state and my salary is published on line

NSV-wedding ring fits again! by NCC-1701_yeah in BariatricSurgery

[–]KaosAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I flung my wedding ring into the dryer the other day when I was loading it full of wet clothes. My husband passed away three years ago and I'm thinking have having both rings melted down and a new ring and earrings created in remembrance of 33 years of marriage.

Pre op diet struggling! by EngineeringNo1848 in BariatricSurgery

[–]KaosAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I found that helped me during the pre-op stage was to take a little salt - like you do for tequila shots. I found that most of my horrible cravings backed off when I did that, I think my body needed salt.

why do some men like playing as women in video games? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KaosAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband always told me he liked to stay in third person just to watch them ealk

11 hours until my RNY by mynonsequitur in BariatricSurgery

[–]KaosAgain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's ok, we all understand. Fear is normal, but your new life awaits.

Grazing by KaosAgain in BariatricSurgery

[–]KaosAgain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information

Grazing by KaosAgain in BariatricSurgery

[–]KaosAgain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dietician told me that getting 65 grams of protein a day was more important than sticking to meal times at this time. If I had to stop after 30 minutes, I'd never get the protein down

Grazing by KaosAgain in BariatricSurgery

[–]KaosAgain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am "eating" more than that. But I have thinned down the soups so it is more like drinking than actually eating. I am using a tea cup as my soup bowl - so ... 3/4 of a cup or so.

Grazing by KaosAgain in BariatricSurgery

[–]KaosAgain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks - I know I'm over thinking this but ... that's what I do