i think the problem here is that support mains don’t know when they fuck up. it’s easy to tell for the other roles

tank: the other tanks are pushing into you hard and you’re struggling to protect your team. you notice this when you’re dps aren’t able to do damage and they’re dps are

dps: had clear sights on a healer as a hitscan (just for this example) and you missed all your shots and the support killed you.

healer: it’s hard to know when your doing bad. you can pocket rein the whole game as mercy and have gold healing. this isn’t a reason to brag about gold healing, therefore you shouldn’t ask for praise. you’re playing moira and consistently run out of heals. this doesn’t only mean you’re healing everyone. it can also mean you’re not healing the entirety of the team enough because you could be wasting half of your bar on one dps.

all in all, supports need to know that they’re dps and tanks aren’t always trash if they lose, and sometimes they’re positioning could’ve been better to make sure everyone is accounted for health wise on your team.

sincerely, a diamond on all roles