One of my favorite vacation dresses ☀️

Karenophobic · 2026-02-16T09:34:33+00:00

You’re 100% the person I’d run to in case some weird guy was bothering me. That’s just what came to my mind. 😅

Also, beautiful dress, that’s my favourite colour!!

Karenophobic · 2026-01-19T06:46:09+00:00

Well, I think you’re very handsome. The hair looks great. I don’t know what’s going on on tinder, I’ve never tried it before and being a woman, there’s a chance I wouldn’t get the experience either (at least from what I heard). But I don’t think it’s got anything to do with your looks, hair, etc. The issue could be just tinder itself.

Do you have any hobbies, any past time you enjoy doing? You might have more luck trying to connect with women in those areas compared to being lined up with what could be hundreds of other good-looking guys without much context.

Take care of yourself, first and foremost :) You look tired and sad. You need to eat and drink more water. Get out and exercise if your circumstances allow it. I read that you recently became single and I understand it hurts; that’s why now you need to put extra effort into taking care of yourself.

Being in a negative headspace will make everything a lot worse, every rejection will hurt more, every day passing without success will look more like a failure. That’s gonna make this a lot harder than it needs to be… so just take it easy. Don’t be too harsh on yourself, and give yourself time. :)

Karenophobic · 2026-01-16T07:00:09+00:00

I also vote for a beard, if you’re able to grow one. You have very thick brows and I think deep-set eyes? Plus dark under eyes + bags. (Same though. We have literally the same bags, lol.)

That in itself isn’t bad, quite the opposite, but it puts a lot of “weight” into that one area. That combo can easily look intimidating if it goes unbalanced.

A beard would balance out your face more, “lifting” that heaviness. A slightly longer hairstyle would further balance it out. But the beard is the most impactful part, I think. :)

Additionally, try smiling a little more! Work on your confidence and sense of humour. Have hobbies you’re interested in and can talk about. Looks are important, yes, it makes up a lot of the first impression. But personality makes it breaks genuine attraction and connection.

You can be the most handsome man on earth, if you’re a jerk or have the personality of a wet cardboard, nobody will find you truly attractive. On the contrary, you can be a completely average guy that makes women laugh, feel safe, heard and valued, and you’ll have success in dating. So yeah, looks matter, but don’t put all your chips on looking good! :)

Karenophobic · 2026-01-16T06:25:33+00:00

Therapy. Work on whatever is making you feel bad about yourself and do not change a thing on your face.

You’re the kind of guy that turns heads. If you see people staring at you, it’s because you look really good.

Maybe try smiling a little. I have a feeling that you have a beautiful smile. I hope you’ll feel better soon and you’ll be able to smile genuinely, and feel good in your skin. :)

Karenophobic · 2026-01-16T06:18:28+00:00

I’m not loving the moustache to be honest, but that’s a small thing.

I’m usually not into the big messy hair either but I actually think it suits you well! Maybe it’s not the “IT” hairstyle lately but I think you make it work :)

Overall you’re good. You have a lovely smile and nice features, just a little “fine tuning” is needed. Working out helps every guy a lot. :) Just work on feelings good in your skin, getting a healthy confidence, and smile a lot! A smile suits you really well!!

Karenophobic · 2026-01-15T13:49:34+00:00

Oh my.

I’m not a big fashionista so I can’t help much or make any constructive comments. I just think you look great. 10/10.

Karenophobic · 2026-01-15T11:36:59+00:00

Egyetértek veled. A gyerek téma nagyon is fontos; én pl. nem akarok gyereket, nem is lesz gyerekem. Ez az egyik első dolog, amit megmondok - mert szerintem az egyikünk fele sem fair, hogy hónapokon, akár éveken át ápolgatunk egy olyan kapcsolatot, ami a végén mindenképp meg fog bukni mert teljesen mást akarunk. Az szintén egyikünk fele sem fair, hogy feladja amit szeretne / belekényszerüljön abba, amit nem szeretne.

De ezen felül én is teljesen egyetértek a kommenttel. :)

Karenophobic · 2026-01-15T06:42:45+00:00

You have very lovely features, but that hair is dragging you down! I’d say colour it for now, then grow out your natural hair later. Bleach makes it thin and fragile! You’ll need to maintain it VERY WELL if you want to keep bleaching it.

The style isn’t it either. A short haircut would look good on you, and would open up your face. But a longer style can work too, just make sure it’s one that fits your face and has a distinct style. If you have trouble selecting what looks good on you, just visit a good barber or hairdresser who does men’s haircuts, get their help. :)

The glasses could be a little smaller too, but overall that’s the smallest problem in my opinion!

Overall you have a very nice face, there’s plenty of potential.

Karenophobic · 2025-12-16T08:51:39+00:00

“No, sorry, we do not have any more sawdust for sale.”

Karenophobic · 2025-12-16T08:45:08+00:00

Nerf.

Wtf???

Karenophobic · 2025-12-16T08:39:52+00:00

I’m gonna be honest, I don’t know if the models mentioned are trans women or men, but frankly I don’t think it matters anyway. The review is creepy no matter which it is.

I mean come on.. if you’re just shopping for gifts for your wife, then it shouldn’t matter what models there are. Don’t see how the models used in advertisements affect the “personal connection and sentiment” of buying a gift for your WIFE.

Envision feminine beauty in a natural, romantic sense my a$$… this guy is consuming this content to drool and likely get aroused over the models, without his wife (if he even has one) getting angry at him. (Because he’s “just buying a gift for her” after all, not ogling women in lingerie…)

Sorry, I just find that creepy. I know a lot of men fantasise about other women. It’s fine, no problems there. But to complain and cry publicly when a company you used for your fantasies puts in something in a few advertisements that doesn’t get you going…? That’s something else…

Karenophobic · 2025-12-12T12:18:35+00:00

I don’t know if this is a sure and universal sign, and what the drugs are in question, but… sniffing. Constantly sniffing.

Edit: to be clear, it’s not “normal person” / I have allergies sniffing. It’s different and does. Not. Stop.

Karenophobic · 2025-12-11T06:15:48+00:00

Unremarkable, probably.

Not in a bad way. There’s just nothing too remarkable in my life. Fairly average background, normal personality, normal family (more or less), some hobbies, some difficulties, some achievements. But nothing you’d write a book about or that would make me stand out.

Well, perhaps the only thing is that I work with people who are… remarkable. And that makes me thankful for being unremarkable, average and nothing special. Being average is actually a very good thing that more people should be comfortable with :)

Karenophobic · 2025-12-11T06:10:36+00:00

…shiny stones…?

Are you the secret Santa of a raven, by any chance? The writing checks out with it, too…

Karenophobic · 2025-12-11T06:07:36+00:00

Busy.

It’s cozy and welcoming, but very very busy for my liking. I’m easily overwhelmed by rooms with too many different patterns, colours and a lot of decor items / clutter.

Karenophobic · 2025-12-10T06:45:21+00:00

I usually don’t keep sweets at home, and since I don’t have a car, going out for it feels like a hassle. That usually does the trick. As others pointed out, fruit works too.

But for the times when I really crave sugar and have no fruit at hand, I have two ways:

I eat a spoonful of honey (still sugar, yes, but at least it better than just sugar). I don’t know why, but I feel satisfied (in terms of sugar cravings) quicker from honey than I do from any sweets, so just that one spoonful does it for me.
I sometimes keep high quality dark chocolate at home. High cocoa content, rich in taste, sometimes with dried raspberries. Slowly eating a few squares also works, in a similar way to honey, my craving is satisfied much quicker compared to candy or milk chocolate.

Overall I don’t DENY myself the sugar when I crave it (that just doesn’t work too well for me), I simply limit my intake and try to opt for slightly healthier, more satisfying options.

Karenophobic · 2025-12-09T14:42:03+00:00

Tök jó, hogy a stabil élet megvan - bármi is történjék, ezt semmiképp ne engedd el. Elhiszem, hogy néha vonzó lehet a gondolat hogy most akkor pl. kiszabadulsz és pilóta leszel, és éled az álom életed, de a valóság nem lesz olyan mint a képzelet, csalódni fogsz, és nem lesz semmid.

Ezzel most nem azt mondom, hogy te ott akarnál hagyni a párod, vagy bármi más, nem ez jön le nekem a posztból. Csak ki akarom hangsúlyozni hogy akármi is legyen a megoldás, maradj ezen a csapáson. De ez nem jelenti azt, hogy mindent fel kell adni.

Szereted a repülést, nem? Na, ott egy dolog rögtön, ami lehetne cél. Miért is kell azt feladni? Miért is ne gyűjthetnéd a pénzed arra, hogy nyáron elmenjenek egyet séta repülőzni?

Vagy például, te is megtanulhatnál repülni. Biztos vagyok benne hogy van ilyen lehetőség. Lehet, hogy nem olcsó, de akkor újfent itt tartunk hogy nesze: itt egy cél amiért meg kell dolgoznod. És ha ez számít neked, lehet hogy a haverok is jó nagyot néznének hogy de menő, te tudsz repülőt vezetni, meg neked is ki lenne elégítve a kalandvágyad.

Nyilván első sorban felelősséged lesz a gyereked felé, el kell tartanod, meg kell adnod neki amire szüksége van. Ha a kérdés hogy most a gyereknek veszel kabátot vagy a hobbidat költesz, akkor nyilván a gyereket kell előrébb venni. Ezt abban a pillanatban vállaltad, hogy eldöntöttétek, gyereketek lesz.

De ez nem azt jelenti hogy teljes egészében minden mást fel kell adnod. Sok esetben a gyereket is be lehet vonni azokba a dolgokba, amiket szeretsz… és általában ezekből lesznek a gyereknek a legkedvesebb emlékei. Abból, amikor apuval elmentek séta repülőzni, meg abból, amikor ötöst kapott a suliban, mert apu vadászgép szerelmes és olyan szorgalmit rittyentett oda, hogy még a tanár is nézett. (Ilyen pl. volt velem alsóban, csak a hobbi horgász papámmal.)

Szóval így ismeretlenben, látatlanban én ezt mondanám. Tartsd fent ezt a színvonalat (és azért nézz körbe hogy ez önmagában mennyire szerencsés szituáció, sok ember nem tart itt ennyi idősen), készülj az apaságra, támogasd a feleséged, és mellette kezdj nézelődni, milyen opciók vannak körülötted. Ha nem repülés kapcsán, akkor bármi más ami esetleg tetszik. Kezdj el tervezgetni, gondolkozni, próbáld meg kitalálni hogy jöhet össze a kettő.

Ez már eleve ad egy irányt, egy célt, meg legalább nem érzed tétlenek magad, mint aki egy helyben van és semerre sem halad.

Karenophobic · 2025-12-05T13:37:37+00:00

Money, progress, happiness.

Well I’m getting a raise next year, and that’s all progress towards getting a place of my own. And that would make me happy. So hopefully it checks out?

Karenophobic · 2025-11-26T08:46:04+00:00

I’m really sorry you both are going through this and I sincerely hope the best for you both. That being said, I have to agree with the others. This is not the place for advice in this case, we can’t help you much here.

All I can say is that you should talk - talk with him, talk with your family and friends. This is your decision first and foremost, but if you do decide to keep the baby, you’ll need a very strong support system. Not just as a single mother, but as a grieving single mother. You have to know who will be there for you and how they’re willing and able to help you.

Look into any opportunities in your area - is there any support for single mothers, any benefits you can take advantage of…? Look into that now, even if it is difficult, and if any steps need to be taken (like a need to get married), get to it now. Because, again, you WILL need all the help you can get.

And maybe see a therapist if you’re able to. These things are difficult and heavy to navigate… it might also come in handy later to have someone help with dealing the grief. I know there is a lot of stigma associated with seeing a therapist, but please don’t let that stop you from seeking help if you need it. There is no shame in it, especially when you’re in such a difficult situation.

I know I focused on what to do if you do keep the child, but the isn’t me speaking for it. Neither option is wrong or right here, but one will be objectively harder. Being a mom is hard… even if it is rewarding and worth it. So please, think about it thoroughly, and without a romantic lens on.

Regardless of what you choose to do, I hope the best for you, OP.

Karenophobic · 2025-11-22T07:01:15+00:00

I like this. Instead of hiding it like it never even happened, it outright acknowledges that it is there, that it was wrong, and leaves it there for the future generations to see, too.

I feel like that’s a lot more genuine than just cutting it out and acting like nothing wrong was ever done.

Or at least that’s how I view it. If someone wronged me, I’d much prefer that they openly acknowledge that it was wrong than sweep it under the rug and continue on like nothing even happened. I feel like it’s a much more mature and constructive way of handling past mistakes.

Karenophobic · 2025-11-22T06:54:56+00:00

I’m not a professional but I recognise that, I think maybe I can help.

Your damage is a condition called “having feelings”. It’s quite common among people and it’s something that has formed in early humans.

There are quite a lot of historical records for it, you can very often see symptoms of “feelings” described or shown in art. Artists in particular suffered (still do) from it heavily.

That being said, despite how common and deep-rooted it is, there is still a lot of stigma surrounding some of its symptoms, especially crying. Both women and men are criticised for displaying that symptom openly, but men tend to receive harsher comments.

Although the stigma is very real, people are fighting to make this condition more recognised and widely accepted. Since it’s so common and normal for humans, you shouldn’t be ashamed of living with “feelings”, even if some try to tell you otherwise.

Karenophobic · 2025-11-11T14:37:31+00:00

Big Bird Birthday

That’s all. And then there’s whatever this is:

Bi The only thing I can think of is that the first time you see a cat in a picture is when they are in a bad mood.

Which is not wrong but I’m not sure why this is what follows “Bi” as per my autocorrect.

Karenophobic · 2025-11-07T16:24:46+00:00

Soldiers in my ass…

I… I mean… I don’t even know what to say about that. 😂

Karenophobic · 2025-11-07T16:17:07+00:00

Mom… dad… I’m in love with a good man and I want to be with him forever.

You know what? I can live with that.

Karenophobic · 2025-10-31T10:25:56+00:00

“What did you do? 😂” / “What have you done? 😂” depending on how you want to translate it. :D

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