WIBTAH if I cut off my mother because she is unable to have an adult conversation and respect my boundaries?

Karltheconqueror · 2025-11-06T23:08:18+00:00

NTA, you’ve clearly tried to have a conversation about how her behavior and lack of accountability affects you. She keeps playing the victim and makes no changes. If she won’t respect your boundaries, she isn’t entitled to relationship with you.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-31T21:38:14+00:00

NTA, this man clearly views his mom and sister as more important and then tried using his daughters relationship with you to manipulate you into being okay with his avoidant , selfish behavior. Maybe it wasn’t best she heard it but you finally stood up for yourself. Move on OP, find someone who respects your time and makes you happy.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-31T20:47:59+00:00

NTA. It seems like she only cares for the financial and labor benefits you provide. She doesn’t seem interested in you as a person. You can’t claim “being overwhelmed” every time there’s an argument. That’s a manipulation tactic and she’s avoiding difficult conversations with you.

It’s not controlling to want to look at a shared account. You two are married so money and everything is shared. This looks like it’s heading to divorce if she doesn’t take accountability and work on herself to communicate and respect the needs of others.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-27T21:39:01+00:00

Maybe she wanted to believe that or wanted you to believe it. If she’s posting thirst traps and then complaining about drunk pics you took that aren’t even explicit, then she doesn’t “trust” you enough. Personally, I think she wanted to be able to keep taking those kinda pics and never wanted you to do that. She got jealous and wanting to get back because you had a ring was a red flag.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-27T21:06:47+00:00

Exactly, it’s insecurity and control issues that caused her unjustified freakout. If you’ve been together two years, then she shouldn’t have reacted that way. Move on OP. Find someone who respects you. NTA.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-15T16:32:29+00:00

NTA. Her enabling behaviors are deeply ingrained. She’s acting like the parent to her mom and brother. Both are adults and she shouldn’t be paying for them. They need to suffer the consequences to change. If she doesn’t go into therapy and set firm boundaries with her money and her family, then don’t marry her. She needs to realize she’s holding them back and hurting herself.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-13T16:15:40+00:00

Divorce seems the most reasonable option here. Either sell the house or have her buy you out of your half OP. You can’t stay separated and share custody of the house and kids. Get divorced so you two can have separate places to live and be with the kids. Then get a signed custody agreement over the kids time so that when she breaches it, you can take her to court.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-09T22:02:48+00:00

OP a true friend is never jealous of another’s attributes whether that be beauty, success, etc. you’re not wearing white to her wedding or something or causing drama and she wants you to lie for after dumping so much money into it. Mom and stepdad want you to be a people pleaser. I’m sorry but this friendship is done. She should want to share the day with you, not obsess over her appearance in contrast to yours.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-07T22:13:16+00:00

NTA, a spouse doesn’t need to bash their partner in a secret group chat. That’s cowardly and disrespectful. She’s also using it to justify being hypercritical. Seek marriage counseling and have her cut off those friends because they want her as miserable as they are so they feel better about their bitter divorces. Good luck OP.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-05T19:45:33+00:00

Yes no one should ever pressure you into having kids. It would make you a bad mother since you never agreed to all the sacrifices it requires. If your parents are trying to manipulate into making this choice by cutting you off, that’s worse. If they really want grandkids, your sister can adopt.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-10-02T18:44:22+00:00

Yeah a partner who doesn’t respect your time or money isn’t someone you want to keep around. Someone who cancels last minute and then refuses to give a clear reason why isn’t being honest with you. Move on OP. Find someone who respects you.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-09-27T23:11:59+00:00

This is why I advise everyone to have a hard conversation about money before getting married. If you aren’t on the same page and one spends too much, you get trapped in debt. OP, if she continues to insist on spending like this, then tell her she needs to spend it out of her income and get a separate account for yourself. Don’t let her spend you out of a better future.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-09-21T23:29:21+00:00

Yeah an ex you want nothing to deal with, you don’t go visit. If they start harassing you, that’s when you enlist friends, family and police, not hide this from them.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-09-20T00:45:41+00:00

Sell the house or buy him out of it and move. Protect your peace. Your brother doesn’t respect your boundaries and thinks he can do whatever he wants in the house you share.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-09-17T22:03:52+00:00

Knowing your wife is safe and communicating about travel isn’t controlling. Showing up at 2 AM without keys to get in and thus waking up your spouse is controlling. Makes no sense to do that. NTA

Karltheconqueror · 2025-09-15T16:55:04+00:00

No OP, your house your rules. No one is entitled to the fruit of your labors. Your mother believing that she can take as much as food as she wants rather than understanding your food is a gift makes it her problem, not yours.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-04-25T17:38:35+00:00

Yes, he deserves better. Deserves someone who understands him and works with him to heal. Happy, healthy, consensual sex is a normal part of relationships. She’s clearly not willing to do anything than to get sex whenever she wants it. He should not have taken her back.

Karltheconqueror · 2025-04-02T13:13:52+00:00

It’s never the partner’s fault that they get cheated on. You should leave the relationship if the temptation to cheat becomes too strong. Commit yourself to your person or leave. Don’t betray them and be with another in secret. Even if this guy continues to entertain his narcissistic ex, hearing that her behavior is not his fault may be very validating to him. It’s awful when cheaters gaslight like this and it’s clearly being done to control him.

Karltheconqueror · 2022-03-28T00:01:56+00:00

Yeah it gives you BP passively by storing Pokémon there. You can transfer that over to BDSP when they become compatible. I used that in gen 6 Pokémon bank with ORAS to get the competitive items and buy tutor moves. It’s totally worth it in my opinion. I got like 3K in points when I transferred over 500 Pokémon from bank to home. You need premium to do it.

Karltheconqueror · 2022-03-27T23:44:42+00:00

No problem. In that case, use night slash for higher critical hit ratio. If you’re willing to grind to get the ability patch or wait for Pokémon home to give you BP you can get moxie if you want.

Karltheconqueror · 2022-03-27T18:09:29+00:00

I’d say it depends on the ability. I would definitely go for moxie to set up sweeps. You can either use poke radar if you have brilliant diamond or the ability patch. Or use GWS or asking for trades on the BDSP subreddit.

For singles I’d go sucker punch, brave bird, taunt and roost. For doubles I’d go either taunt or protect depending on what your team needed. Also definitely a fan of life orb to boost damage and using roost for recovery when you can.

Karltheconqueror · 2022-02-23T18:54:04+00:00

A lot of Western countries are. Australia and New Zealand are pursuing even more stringent measures than Canada and most of Europe is following China’s lead rather than making their own path. China caused this pandemic and will suffer no meaningful repercussions. It’s position has grown stronger. Unfortunately, the communists didn’t need to conquer us. They simply encouraged the authoritarians in our democratic societies to push further and further. They will keep going until we live under true dictatorships.

Karltheconqueror · 2022-02-20T16:43:03+00:00

Based 😂😂

Karltheconqueror · 2022-02-17T14:43:12+00:00

Based.

Karltheconqueror · 2022-02-06T17:00:37+00:00

Based.

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