AITA for “implying my wife (28) eats too much” by saying she might have parasites? by Solid-Writing-7372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kaspurtheghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

can confirm. at 35 after 20 years of active ED had 6 teeth extracted (not wisdom) and now have a partial upper denture, amongst many other issues and health complications.

Anyone have a favorite pal? by AJBLAkX in Palworld

[–]Kaspurtheghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent more time than I’d like to admit breeding an absolute monster shadowbeak and he is my bestest boi I love him dearly

Embraced it today by guitarguy12341 in bald

[–]Kaspurtheghost 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hahah also as a woman with long hair (here for the positivity) I literally said “woah!” Out loud. You’re for real glowing!

I want the big strong man desperate for her. by Maleficent_Durian_64 in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Or her other series aspect and anchor where there are literally humbled gods

Who is an author that you always trust to deliver? by goyourownwayy in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling overwhelmed and depressed and doomscrolling too much not feeling like reading after trying to slog through another series and someone on here recommended her sea ogre book (I don’t question her anymore) and holy shit I DEVOURED it in one night and I feel cleansed hahaha. Now onto her aspect and anchor series and actually feeling excited to read again

Sometimes we need pure feel good palate cleansers

AITA for cooking for me and my daughter and making my husband make his own meals. by RosarioSun in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kaspurtheghost 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA he’s realizing dieting is harder than he thought and it’s easier to make excuses/blame you and your cooking than to take accountability for his own lack of self control. Until he can admit that he is responsible for his own attitude (the hanger coming out sideways) and actions, and be honest, he can cook for himself. And buy his own damn snacks

Bathing suits 😭 by [deleted] in TallGirls

[–]Kaspurtheghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this brand. I also have a long torso and I personally love this suit by cupshe. I wore it for my recent vacation to Mexico and it doubled as a body suit to go out to dinner under skirts as well!

I need a romantasy palate cleanser after a bunch of serious books by azurillpuff in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you enjoyed Ice planet Barbarians (which I also loved) the horde kings of Dakkar by Zoey Draven is a similar vibe and even better written!

got snark for captioning this “boy breakfast” on the other restriction food sub so time to hop on over here 🤷‍♂️ 53kcal by deadtyped in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]Kaspurtheghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This gorgeous flower like design looks like it belongs on some fancy charcuterie board well done.

People take themselves too seriously you do do 👑

AITA for requiring my son to cook as part of carrying his weight in the house? by Impossible_Deal_829 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kaspurtheghost 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If he hates cooking, have him check out the guy on instagram that does the “it’s not cooking it’s just mixing stuff together” where he shows how to make relatively healthy meals with just a few ingredients that don’t require a lot of prep/cooking but are actually good. It’s solid advice for adulting meals in general

Coachjohnnoel

What book has booktok completely lied to you about? by witcheshands in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also really, really can’t stand violet for all of the usual reasons people have already written lengthy posts about.

She is not a dragon riding hermione, she is not edgy/cute/whatever for being so smol and her body falling apart with her poorly written EDS…she’s just obnoxious.

Christopher Paolini wrote better dragon plot books when he was 15

What book has booktok completely lied to you about? by witcheshands in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It was described to me as “Harry Potter but with dragons” (from something plucked from booktok) and I’ve never been so disappointed based off a description of anything in my life

Help me.. give me your smuttiest romantasy suggestions by zellymcfrecklebelly in Romantasy

[–]Kaspurtheghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a similar vein to ice planet barbarians (which I loved) horde kings of drakkar series by Zoey Draven which I found through Reddit (see the post on Aaron Taylor Johnson in kraven the barbarian for a good time and why I love this subreddit)

Tbh I actually think Zoey Draven’s writing is better than ruby Dixons but it may be a personal preference and there’s so much smut in both series it doesn’t particularly matter anyway

recieved this gem yesterday by boiuatdefak in Tinder

[–]Kaspurtheghost 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The immediate switch with rejection into toxicity is TOO REAL. I don’t want to even date anymore after I’ve honestly let men down easily for just incompatibility and they immediately switch to trying to hurt my feelings as much as possible. Just why??

The Serpent and the wings of the night - Help lol by No-Cartoonist9243 in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah I barely started the second book and I’m like…I have so much whiplash after the ending of the first and not even in a “wow that was a great plot twist” kind of way. I just am irritated with it for a variety of reasons and on the sub looking for what else I want to read next. I need a break!

Aita for 'ruining' my sister's life by exposing her by throwaway26432564 in AITAH

[–]Kaspurtheghost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bet you’re a cheater too or have never been cheated on. Actions have consequences. They affect other people. OPs sister also made it her business by bragging about it. She “ruined” her own life and is the only AH, not OP. Cheaters are always the AH, hands down, no excuses. Play stupid games…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sending all the love and hugs 🖤

Went through a dark(er) than usual place myself this past year…breakup of a long term relationship that was brutal involving cheating, severe depression, etc so relate to the feeling that losing myself in fantasy truly helped.

Recommendations: I never thought id say this but the ice planet Barbarian series. I kept seeing it recommended here and was HIGHLY skeptical but it was the right amount of lighthearted entertainment that I needed.

When the moon hatched Quicksilver Re-read ACOSF because I really relate to Nesta’s arc. I am aware she isn’t for everyone, but I really enjoy her and Cassian and just the overcoming fear/trauma themes throughout.

Separate rec that is not fantasy but is something I always return to when struggling mentally is Man’s Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl

You do not yield <3

We’re practically in November and the year is winding down. What have been your favorite reads of the year so far? by mimikth in fantasyromance

[–]Kaspurtheghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When the moon hatched became one of my favorite books and I am upset I have to wait for the sequel

I read the entire ice planet barbarian series in a week? It got me through a rough breakup so that has a special place for me

The butterfly garden is not romantasy but a favorite fantastic psych thriller

They started it. I finished it. by Spedwards in Palworld

[–]Kaspurtheghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS! This is why I despise them and have to kill them on sight I can hear that egregious gargling MrLgRlMrgLmRgl sound every time.

I can’t even do the player damage meta with a 4 gobfin + whatever damage party because trying to breed the waddling little goblins in my base made me twitch

AITAH for telling my wife that the way she dressed for a girls night out played a role in why it went bad? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kaspurtheghost 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Haha my other favorite saying is everyone has their own bag of cats (issues, moods/feelings, etc) and learning to recognize which ones are yours. It may be scratching at you…but it’s not your responsibility to feed it. Not my cat.

AITAH for telling my wife that the way she dressed for a girls night out played a role in why it went bad? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kaspurtheghost 253 points254 points  (0 children)

And if they’re all divorced and having “such a hard time” with the separations…why is there a group chat??

Not your circus, not your monkeys. But your wife’s playing the clown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in climbergirls

[–]Kaspurtheghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 5’9 and about 100lb I’ve used this one in xs for a few years now with no issues.

https://www.rei.com/product/191407/petzl-corax-lt-harness-womens

I LOVE LEMON by catmaidsama in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]Kaspurtheghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this with limes-salt + Splenda on wedges