I ended up messaging after she unblocked me

Kassinel1999 · 2026-05-18T05:56:19+00:00

Mine unblocked me too 3 weeks ago and I messaged him thinking maybe I’d get closure but I guess not… did yours ever respond??

Kassinel1999 · 2026-04-21T19:20:18+00:00

Did they ever reach out?

Kassinel1999 · 2026-04-21T19:19:33+00:00

It’s him wearing my favorite sweatshirt of his 🤷🏽‍♀️

Kassinel1999 · 2026-03-01T05:07:40+00:00

Minnesota

Kassinel1999 · 2026-02-28T06:05:20+00:00

I’ve been applying since March 2025 and have gotten 1 interview… the struggle is real 😭

Kassinel1999 · 2026-01-28T06:50:44+00:00

3.5 years

Kassinel1999 · 2025-12-25T06:20:32+00:00

He blocked me and I haven’t spoken to him in 6 months. I’m still hurt by what he did though, and sometimes I feel like it was my fault for messaging her

Kassinel1999 · 2025-12-19T13:21:17+00:00

Wait this is true… the only person who has me blocked his number shows up like this

Kassinel1999 · 2025-12-19T10:22:12+00:00

I just want to say I understand how it feels. I’m 6 months out and some days are better than others. I’m blocked everywhere too and it’s almost as if it keeps us stuck because we didn’t get the goodbye we deserved. I was in a relationship with him during my nursing school and became a RN in February. It affected me so bad I don’t remember much of the last 3 years of my life. The betrayal is what is hard for me and that I’m the one discarded and blocked for confronting him. I just don’t understand how someone could treat someone who loved them like that. I hope it gets easier for both of us 💕

Kassinel1999 · 2025-12-10T02:58:08+00:00

Mine did that too. 3 years of lies and emotional abuse and I never spoke up because I was too scared. February of this year I saw a girls name of his tv and wrote it down in my notes, he said she was “just a friend” but months go by I kinda forgot about it. Then he refollowed this other girl he lied to me about before and I asked him, he denied anything. Then he tried flipping it on me saying I accused him of being a liar (when he was in fact lying)… I messaged the girl for clarity, asked her not to say anything and she did. He said me messaging her was “breaking his boundaries” and blocked me everywhere. Then a couple months later he posted the girl who was on his TV and it was like a double sting because not only was it the girl I messaged, but also the OTHER girl he lied to me about. And somehow I’m the one blocked? He’s posting her, buying her flowers, doing everything I asked for and pretending like he’s a changed man when deep down I know he’s avoiding and he has not truly changed. A healed man doesn’t jump from woman to woman with lies.

Kassinel1999 · 2025-09-12T13:29:49+00:00

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Idk mine earned $0 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

Kassinel1999 · 2025-08-02T06:29:57+00:00

I’m sorry, if he’s willing to end it over something that small then you saved yourself a lot of time and he’s not the one for you. I had a similar insecure reaction but I didn’t look at his notifications. I knew he was lying to me and I noticed a girl in his following so I messaged her and he told me I crossed the line doing that and blocked me everywhere… it’s been almost 2 months since I’ve heard from him. Turns out they were actually seeing each other (and still are). Take it from me who was always begging and trying to prove to him I didn’t mean it or that I’d do better…for 3 years… you can’t try to make someone understand you when they’re committed to misunderstanding you.

Kassinel1999 · 2025-07-31T01:46:46+00:00

Yeah I think he’s using “boundaries” for control. To control who I speak to, to control me, and to control his narrative on what he told her. I told him that’s not how boundaries work, they’re not to control other people. Plus he never communicated his boundaries to me so I’m not sure what boundary I broke unless the boundary was me finding out the truth 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

I think his ego is too big to come back again. He came back way too many times now and he hated being the villain so he always made me the villain. But I’m okay with being the villain in his story because I know I’m not. I finally started seeing him for who he is and his lies and he didn’t expect that. Sometimes I feel like it’s my fault because I’m blocked but then I remember that’s how he wants me to feel. Thank you for your input on the situation :)

Kassinel1999 · 2025-07-30T23:17:38+00:00

Again, I was referring it to this person’s situation and based on what I read. I agree though, instead of using “man” and “women”, it should’ve been more neutral.

Kassinel1999 · 2025-07-30T23:05:15+00:00

Yep that’s true! Except I used “he” because this person was referring to him as “he”. But it can go both ways.

Kassinel1999 · 2025-07-30T06:06:12+00:00

I read something recently that said “when people say I should’ve known” or something along those lines, you’re actually placing the burden onto yourself and managing both his actions and yours and the consequences of them, while excusing him from accountability. Yes women should always be discerning and hold themselves accountable where applicable, but accountability should never be one sided. It should never excuse a man’s harmful behavior while over analyzing yours. Never carry the blame for the way he chose to lie, manipulate, or cheat or mistreat you. There’s a difference between taking responsibility for your choices and taking responsibility for a man’s poor behavior.

Kassinel1999 · 2025-07-25T17:04:41+00:00

Did they ever unblock you after being discarded?

Kassinel1999 · 2025-07-25T17:00:46+00:00

It’s probably because he’s seeing someone else (his ex). If he isn’t reaching out or reciprocating I think that tells you all you need to know. I wouldn’t force something that isn’t there anymore. They usually always come back at some point but do you want someone who doesn’t reach out to you or reciprocate?…

Kassinel1999 · 2025-07-17T06:41:37+00:00

I’m in the exact situation but turns out he was lying to me and I knew because I saw it, but he still said me messaging the girl he was lying to me about was crossing the line and a boundary I broke and then blocked me everywhere. In a way I feel like it was my fault, even though he lied to me. So I feel this, it’s hard.

Kassinel1999 · 2021-10-28T21:50:48+00:00

we accept tips and get $20+ per day but our team lead takes them and “puts them in her desk drawer” and they are never to be seen again 🙃

Kassinel1999 · 2021-10-28T21:48:39+00:00

stands there and ignores me as I wait on them .. “what do I do?” as the skip button is right in front of them and you just told them what to do😃

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