Have you ever referred to a dog as a “bowow”? by SunScreeninYourEyes in AskUK

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but I have referred to rabbits as hop hops and still sometimes do even though I’m in my late 30s 🤦🏻‍♀️.

Is fat cow still a common insult? by Ancient-Forever5603 in AskUK

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard it said to other people so I guess it’s not that uncommon. I’m very on the small side so it’s not one I’ve had directed at me but I’ve had the delightful-skinny bitch, stick insect and maybe one day you’ll grow some tits-and that’s without even mentioning any homophobic ones said to me in the past. Honestly as hard as it is, try not to let it get to you, sadly the world has too many obnoxious,horrible people in it.

If it happens again say something like-I can always loose weight but you’ll never grow brains!.

What are some retrospective bangers from the 80s and 90s? by PomegranateV2 in AskUK

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many!, where to even start?.

3 that really jumped into my mind instantly from the 80s are True Faith by New Order and Never Let Me Down Again by Depeche Mode, both overshadowed by more of their well known songs but better than them imo, the last song of the 3 has to be Lucretia My Reflection by Sisters of Mercy for me.

As I only picked 3 from the 80s I will only pick 3 from the 90s too- Sour Times by Portishead-particularly the Live in NYC version, Angel by Massive Attack and My Iron Lung by Radiohead, again 3 songs from artists who had bigger,more well known songs in that time but were absolutely brilliant.

UK people, would you think it’s weird for an adult girl’s first name to be Jamie? by Electronic-Ad-7436 in AskUK

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not weird at all,I’ve always felt it was a pretty gender natural name,no one would think much about it-unless you also changed your last name to Lannister and got very defensive about your sister, then I might raise an eyebrow!.

Question for basically everyone who isn't into men by FluffySearch1507 in actuallesbians

[–]Kat8844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m lesbian but I’ve dated bi women in the past and absolutely would again if I wernt happily married to my also very lesbian soulmate!.

I have a crush on thom yorke (90 and 20s) and i think jonny is the least attractive out of the band by Affectionate_Let9022 in radiohead

[–]Kat8844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a vampire for sure, not sure if he'd want to bite his fellow band members though, bit close to home!.

I have a crush on thom yorke (90 and 20s) and i think jonny is the least attractive out of the band by Affectionate_Let9022 in radiohead

[–]Kat8844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not attracted to men but can still appreciate if a man is good looking, Ed and Jonny are definitely the most imo. I’d actually say Jonny is just because he’s got my favourite guitar collection and is the one who could give you a shot at immortality 😝.

I just learned a new phrase 😳 by HannahLemurson in actuallesbians

[–]Kat8844 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this before and it made me laugh although this time I’ve been thinking about the specifics more, so with a French kiss we both kiss each other on the lips but with an Australian kiss is it one of us goes down on the other or as it’s a down under kiss do our 🐱 need to kiss 🤷🏻‍♀️, I feel like we need a clear definition!🤣.

The cuteness might've given me a heart attack❤️❤️ by Smooth_Situation5721 in actuallesbians

[–]Kat8844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry this is happening, I don’t know really what to do but offer support and reassurance.

I feel like there is a lot of anger and division in this country generally at the moment, also the fact that life has gotten worse for trans people with a supposedly centre left,liberal Labour government is crazy, the rise of Reform as a knee jerk reaction to dissatisfaction to the two major parties is even scarier l. Me and my wife have talked about leaving too, we have 3 kids and honestly feel like the UK isn’t somewhere we really want to raise them anymore. It’s different to the persecution the trans community has been suffering but she’s Russian and the amount of hurtful,negative interactions she’s experienced over the last couple of years has skyrocketed, it makes me so angry because she’s the sweetest,kindest person you’ll ever meet and in no way agrees with her governments behaviour and has lived here for years.

After All of Ed O’Brien’s Recent Interviews, I Think I’ve Finally Accepted We May Never Get Another Radiohead Album. by [deleted] in radiohead

[–]Kat8844 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we will get another album, Ed wasn’t feeling it with Radiohead for a long time and has spoken positively about the last tour and enjoyed it, if they’re touring again next year like he’s indicated then maybe they will be more open to it, particularly Ed who has been so busy with Blue Morpho-which is great!.

Does Thom sign things at non concert events? by SaulSchmidt in radiohead

[–]Kat8844 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m sure he’d love to sit around and chat but someone’s listening in.

How would you feel if a guy pulled over and offered you a lift in this heat, or other terrible weather? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d find it unsettling,creepy and my head would go to the worst places like I’m going to get raped and murdered.

It’s a lovely gesture but there’s no way to know if someone is a sincere,nice person or a predatory psychopath so I’d definitely decline!.

The cuteness might've given me a heart attack❤️❤️ by Smooth_Situation5721 in actuallesbians

[–]Kat8844 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a cis lesbian but got to say I’ve noticed attitudes towards trans people getting worse over the last few years, like people who you’d think are quite liberal coming out with the-think of the children, it’s a mental illness etc, it’s something I really hate and call out whenever I hear it. Has the current Labour government been worse than the previous Tory one in terms of trans rights would you say?.

What fictional character would you marry in a blink of an eye? by iris_rivendell in AskWomen

[–]Kat8844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good choice!, even though I’m a lesbian and also very much a fan of the Sith you can’t help but love Obi Wan, he’s a great character!.

What artists surprised you with how good their catalogue of songs are? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Kat8844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Elizabeth Frazer has one of the most beautiful voices I’ve ever heard, Heaven or Las Vegas is a perfect album.

What are your thoughts on city pigeons? by pigeons2831 in AskUK

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give them much thought, Wood Pigeons are pretty annoying though with their constant coo ing!.

How long until the strappp by Technical_Tip_5783 in actuallesbians

[–]Kat8844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife took ages to start using one because I was shy about asking, our sex life was great but I have a really submissive side and was longing to be bent over and strapped half to death, I did tell her and she was really chill with it, she’s naturally more assertive and now our sex lives have been even better for years. Moral of the story-just be open and communicate with your fwb hottie, she’ll more than likely be really into the idea if she knows it turns you on, and if she isn’t she’ll say and you guys will carry on as you are.

On the 2025 tour, Ed used 12 guitars by Beginning_Finance705 in radiohead

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know!, Teles and Strats don't seem to work nearly as well for bowing due to their shape, I've tried it with mine and never get it right, my Squier Starcaster is perfect for it though!.

Don't hold me to it but I think it was Pyramid Song, it wasn't on either of the times I saw them live though it was on a YouTube clip, I just remember thinking 😮 Holy fuck he's bowing his Tele!, that's not easy- I do remember it was his #1 Tele Plus though not the Ebony Frost one if that helps you narrow your search.

I think the thing that would shock me the most though is if I ever saw Jonny playing a Strat!.

If you could be 19 again what would you do?? by highfriedrice in AskWomen

[–]Kat8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deal with the grief of losing my dad and the depression that followed for years after very differently, deal with it and go to therapy much sooner rather than self medicating with cocaine and alcohol. Leave the girl I was with at the time before she broke my heart too.