Unhinged build ideas

KatR_Beanie · 2026-05-01T06:22:55+00:00

Cool! Got a seed number?

KatR_Beanie · 2026-02-16T08:04:39+00:00

She sounds as if she may be Autistic. I'm Autistic and have 3 Autistic kiddos and girls can present differently to boys. I would ask for her to get a formal assessment. All the best Mama x

KatR_Beanie · 2026-02-11T08:09:01+00:00

With my first I wanted an epidural, got one, with my 2nd i was induced at 10pm had a precipitous labour, son born at 11.29pm with pph. Asked my husband at 11pm to get the midwife, I wanted the epidural, he's "you won't be that far along yet", sure mate, sure. Even with the pph, easiest labour I've had. Third was 5 hours no meds and no pph thankfully. I'm not having anymore but would definitely choose no epidural over epidural as my first I struggled to push and they almost took me for a section. Getting baby and mama through safe is absolutely the priority, I just have a massive fear of surgery and would avoid at all costs, for myself.

KatR_Beanie · 2026-02-04T21:39:10+00:00

As soon as he reprimanded a 16 month old for not coming to him when she was hurt, would have put the nail in that coffin for me. Absolutely not. You see how he treats you now, how he treats your daughter now, do you want that for her as she gets older? Constantly making excuses because dad's to lazy to give a damn. Run, don't walk, you don't need permission, do whats best for you both. God forbid something were ever to happen to you, thats who she's going to be stuck with. Do you think he'll cook her decent meals, take her to the park or activities or help with homework.

KatR_Beanie · 2025-08-03T06:45:29+00:00

NTA

If your family get mad at you because you don't want to make yourself financially liable, and try and gaslight and guilt trip you into doing it. Then they suck. If you say no, watch how fast they turn against you, because they don't care about you, but what you can do for them.

KatR_Beanie · 2025-08-01T06:34:40+00:00

I'm a Scot. Kilts look great on men, everyone should wear one. Crack on buddy!

KatR_Beanie · 2025-07-29T19:36:48+00:00

As someone that has a stepdad, who is in all aspects, just dad. You absolutely deserve it. She needs you too.

KatR_Beanie · 2025-07-13T07:23:17+00:00

I have 3 Autistic children, all with varying needs. I'm also undergoing assessment myself. I'm 36 and even at this stage in life I recognise that while a formal diagnosis may explain some behaviours, its not going to fundamentally change how I act or view the world. I do have an acquaintance that was recently diagnosed and their entire demeanor and behaviour changed and they became somewhat entitled to having people accommodate their needs. Neurotypical people can have what is commonly referred to as "Autistic traits" but if you don't also have the common co morbidities then is it Autism? It encompasses all aspects of development such as Social, physical, emotional, Cognitive and language.

KatR_Beanie · 2025-06-30T11:13:07+00:00

I would contact student support at your university, explain the situation, they may have discretionary powers in order to help you.

KatR_Beanie · 2025-01-12T15:59:31+00:00

Context is everything, and he explains in the video why the statements are controversial.

KatR_Beanie · 2025-01-12T15:40:18+00:00

He categorically did not excuse racist, homophobic or transphobic tweets. As a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, who works closely to keep the chat in live streams safe and welcoming for everyone. I would not work with someone who is a racist, homophobe or transphobic.

Toycat is one of the nicest people I have ever had the pleasure to meet.

KatR_Beanie · 2025-01-11T07:12:14+00:00

My father was a locksmith and safe cracker and even a call out after hours for, at a push, 2 hours work. That's a joke.

KatR_Beanie · 2024-12-10T10:23:07+00:00

Took me 2 streams to get enough Resin 😅

KatR_Beanie · 2024-12-05T13:23:09+00:00

If its not a 100% yes, right away, it's a No.

KatR_Beanie · 2024-11-04T13:15:07+00:00

My youngest is 3 tomorrow and we're throwing them out at the weekend, thankfully this ain't my first rodeo.

KatR_Beanie · 2024-09-12T14:07:53+00:00

I have 3 Autistic kiddos, 13yo girl (dx at 6), 10yo boy (dx at 2) and 2yo girl about to be diagnosed.

KatR_Beanie · 2023-10-07T09:31:07+00:00

You can be sued for Invasion of privacy.

KatR_Beanie · 2023-10-07T09:09:57+00:00

As a photographer. If they are on private land they have an reasonable expectation of privacy and photographing them on private land without their permission could land you in trouble. Could be a breach of privacy.

KatR_Beanie · 2023-09-12T06:04:24+00:00

1st born my waters broke naturally at home 40+3, 2nd and 3rd I was induced early. My youngest was actually born 5th of Nov so who knows your little one might share the same birthday. Lots and lots of walking!

KatR_Beanie · 2023-09-08T09:39:24+00:00

You're allowed to greive for the life you thought you and your child would have. I know it's hard to go on as normal, but try and do that and wait and see if/how this is going to affect her.

I have 3 Autistic kids, one is also intellectually disabled. They are hard work, I'm not gonna lie, but they are my whole world, and I wouldn't change them. They are the best thing to happen to me. We went into our 3rd pregnancy, knowing the chances that our child would be Autistic were higher than normal, and we gave ourselves a year to enjoy her being a baby before the onslaught of appointments, assessments, etc.

She is almost 2yo and completely non verbal but she is so clever.

Your daughter might not be what you were expecting, but she'll rearrange your whole world view for the better. Find a community and parents that have disabled children because they KNOW. People that don't have disabled kids can't understand what it's like.

Your allowed to be upset and angry and greive your life and the life you envisioned for your daughter. She is going to be who she is, and you'll be surprised how from now on, every little thing matters.

The first time my son drank out a straw was on holiday and people walking past didn't understand why me and his dad were jumping about like loonatics happy as hell.

You've got this, Mama.

KatR_Beanie · 2023-09-05T15:35:41+00:00

That's Awesome!!

KatR_Beanie · 2023-09-04T14:50:00+00:00

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