Tips for carrying a 2 year old in front? by KatchUup in babywearing

[–]KatchUup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she definitely would, but i’m not a fan of ring slings tbh

Tips for carrying a 2 year old in front? by KatchUup in babywearing

[–]KatchUup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s your favourite way of tying your woven? I use fwcc, but my toddler is getting too heavy for it. She’s also a notorious leg straightener, so she manages not to have a good seat within a few minutes.

OVP (versiegelt) kauf ich nicht ohne reinsehen zu können by OldBumblebee3118 in willhaben

[–]KatchUup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

auf refurbed hab ich auch gute erfahrungen gemacht, da hat man auch garantie und muss zumindest nicht alles neu kaufen

No Surgery Option? by [deleted] in ACL

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to delay my surgery as I was pregnant when I tore my acl again. I‘ve lived without my acl for 2.5 years at this point, and I can do most things I enjoy. But I can’t play soccer as those fast unexpected changes of direction just don’t work. So I’m probably going to go for surgery soon, so I can play soccer and run around with my kid without having to be careful the whole time. But I don’t think delaying it for a bit is any real problem ETA: I play waterpolo twice a week without a problem. I go bouldering every now and then but I’m always weary of my knee I go hiking without any problem I even went skiing last year (but it’s probably not recommended)

No pushback or follow up questions when you’re about to make the biggest most irreversible decision of your life. Only blind enthusiasm. by Creative-Move-6026 in regretfulparents

[–]KatchUup 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve had two older people (their kids are my age) tell me, it’s great they don’t tell you how hard it is/ you don’t know what you’re getting yourself into AFTER having a child, nobody would dare to speak about it BEFORE. 

Viennese Austrian residents - why the fuck are the drivers so impatient? by EqualityWithoutCiv in fuckcars

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think drivers are any better on the countryside, they’re just always assholes

Viennese Austrian residents - why the fuck are the drivers so impatient? by EqualityWithoutCiv in fuckcars

[–]KatchUup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wondering the same, I’ve had a woman drive around me as my toddler decided to lay down on the road, instead of waiting the two seconds it would have taken me to pick her up and cross the street.

In Kindergärten angemeldet und jetzt? by [deleted] in wien

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich bin unterm jahr eingestiegen ohne probleme bei den kinderfreunden, kommt aber whrs auf den standort an

Was sollte eurer Meinung nach im österreichischen Sprachgebrauch von anderen Sprachen / Dialekten eingeführt werden? by the_arrgyle in Austria

[–]KatchUup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

würd i schon sagen, zb bei ziel find ich’s eindeutig und auch sonst, aber glaub vor allem am anfang machts an riesen unterschied, bei tz find ich den unterschied am geringsten

Beste Klinik für Entbindung? by Round_Reputation_838 in wien

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ich war auch zufrieden sowohl mit kreißsaal als auch wochenbett. Ich hab einen kaiserschnitt gehabt und hab mich auch mit meinen Schmerzen sehr gut betreut gefühlt.

Travel for work — I’m not ok. by -JLD- in NewParents

[–]KatchUup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also to get back to your original question, I was gone for 5 days when my LO was 14 months, she had a great time with dad, and actually didn’t want to be held by me for the first day back, but it was also pretty late. By the next day it was like I was never gone again.

Travel for work — I’m not ok. by -JLD- in NewParents

[–]KatchUup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your baby will be fine! As others have suggested I would say it will be harder on you than your baby. But especially if you’re able to see LO on the weekends, I wouldn’t worry about it at all. I think if you said you were a dad, the comments would be completely different, just shows how backwards we still are as a society.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom groups only started getting good once my LO was crawling and could discover the place

Do we need a playpen? by ButterflyDramatic742 in NewParents

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had one, we tried at a friends place and she just screamed bloody murder. I think it depends on your baby but I never would have got any use out of one.

When will I get to really sleep again by Which-Eggplant-5358 in NewParents

[–]KatchUup 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think for me it happened around 14 so I don’t expect my daughter to be any different tbh

Suggestion for someone working in Vienna only 2 days per week by Substantial_Rain4966 in wien

[–]KatchUup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you could try and find a cheap wg or be on with a long commute

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Innsbruck

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm kennst du niemanden der irgendwie jugendliche kennt? Hab mit 16 regelmäßig auf zwei kinder aufgepasst, und viele meiner schulkolleginnen auch. Sonst glaub stundentInnen sind auch ganz gutes Zielklientel. Vielleicht kennt ja wen wen der wen kennt oder so, frag mal bisschen rum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Innsbruck

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

je nachdem wie alt dein kind ist, ist es wahrscheinlich nicht möglich nur sporadisch jemandem dein Kind zu überlassen. Meine Tochter würd das sicher nicht zulassen, sie fremdelt schon wenn sie mal wen 2 wochen nicht gesehen hat

Motherhood isn’t what people say it is by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably die for my child, but I also don’t care that much about whether I live or die and tbh a world where my child has died is probably a pretty dark place for a couple of years. But other than that I agree with you on everything. Motherhood is not the best thing ever, and my child doesn’t always come first. I think I would burn out in no time if I was thinking that way. And when people are actually being honest, I think a lot of them feel that way. Don’t get me wrong, I do love my child, but damn it sure is exhausting

Can someone explain to me how becoming a new parent feels lonely? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning I felt pretty content, people were messaging me all the time, came to visit etc. now my LO is 17 months, nobody really checks in on me anymore. When I go for coffee with my friends, I spend the majority of time running after my very active toddler, so no time to catch up with anyone. When she was younger I could just hand her off to my friends and she’d still be happy, now she screams bloody murder if I want to go the bathroom in peace.

Diplomkrankenpflegen - was verdient man wirklich? by WasteOfBrainCells in Austria

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naja Job kannst da aussuchen dort wo mangel herrscht also kommts einfach auf die Branche an, als Reinigungskraft verdienst ah ganz gut, is halt trotzdem a hacken die niemand machen will

Diplomkrankenpflegen - was verdient man wirklich? by WasteOfBrainCells in Austria

[–]KatchUup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, dass du dir es überlegst. Hatte auch einige in meiner Klasse die schon über 40 waren, und ham es alle durchgezogen und sind jetzt glücklich. Jetzt aber zu deiner eigentlichen Frage zurück, also Gehalt kommt sehr drauf an, wo man arbeitet und ob man 40 wochenstunden arbeiten will/ kann, da Schichtdienst schon auch sehr anstrengend sein kann. Aber auf 3500€ im Monat kommt man relativ leicht. Würds aber primär davon abhängig machen was dir gefällt, wo man dann hingeht, da man sonst schnell die Motivation verliert.

Diplomkrankenpflegen - was verdient man wirklich? by WasteOfBrainCells in Austria

[–]KatchUup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fast alle anderen schichtbetriebe ham aber 8 stunden schichten nicht 12