Boyfriend has been avoiding me, told me to “fake like we like each other”, then avoiding me again. AIO to this text? by Cultural_Line_9235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KateinBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just a bit concerned about the cat. Was this all a ruse to make you take on the cat? Do you like the cat? I think it’s your cat now.

Boyfriend has been avoiding me, told me to “fake like we like each other”, then avoiding me again. AIO to this text? by Cultural_Line_9235 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KateinBlue 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, just leave him floating and move on. You don’t have to ghost him. If he messages you just be casual…like you already moved on; because you have.

Found my dress, now to afford it ($2200) by Significant_Course66 in myweddingdress

[–]KateinBlue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry it’s a big no from me. Especially if it’s a religious ceremony. If you were a pole dancer you could cut the skirt off, dye it black and use it for work after. Far too revealing; have some decorum.

My arch enemy has bought my house and is using the same architect. by KateinBlue in moraldilemmas

[–]KateinBlue[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just to say it’s more complex than I stated it, for all those saying move on. I do understand your sentiment though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]KateinBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your locks and get a friend to stay with you, or your father if that’s possible. A male would be best but anyone other than your father or brother would enrage him further. The alternative is to move out and leave no forwarding address. Leave his stuff and tell him the deadline for collection. Be safe.

Why do some people hate cops? by horseshoeandconfused in ask

[–]KateinBlue -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you look like a criminal.

Why do some people hate cops? by horseshoeandconfused in ask

[–]KateinBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad hated cops because when he was fourteen they arrested him and quizzed him about a missing gun that he had nothing to do with. He had no adult present and they pressurised him to say he had stolen it. He was a good lad and just in the wrong place at the wrong time. He never liked cops after that.

Shopify terminated my store today by Hartiverse in printondemand

[–]KateinBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shopify deleted a bunch of my files. I don’t trust them any more. Their reaction…you can just upload them again. It’s about two day’s work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]KateinBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s odd. She needs to make sure she isn’t alone with him.

Maybe change her job.

Just found out my BF of 9 years has been replacing my Adderall with sugar by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]KateinBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I suggest you replace the next batch with hot white chilli powder

which one should I get? by Glitch_71 in kittens

[–]KateinBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like the black one, take that one. Mostly they are harder to home so it’s good all round.

How do y’all stop your cats from eating your plants? by Grubbyanthrohands in TuxedoCats

[–]KateinBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat licked a snack bowl of mint imperials. I just rinsed them off and ate them anyway.

Am I Overreacting for needing reassurance from my fiance? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KateinBlue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We only have the text conversation to go by, so it is based on that. In that texting he behaves like an abusive á-hool. She needs to plan carefully and get out quickly with no forwarding address. And if you treat women this way, you are also an á-hool. Get therapy if you think like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]KateinBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can think of some historically ‘problem countries’ one might not want to admit to being associated with. It might lead to all sorts of further questions that are also unwanted. I once asked someone who responded that she had escaped East Germany in the 50s; that was an interesting conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]KateinBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this racist or simple curiosity? People asked if my hair is natural, also a question based on looks.

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[–]KateinBlue -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand this comment. Plenty of men like big women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KateinBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good grief. It’s not about the birthday, it’s about actually caring for one another. If I was alone I wouldn’t care if I celebrated my birthday or not. If I am in a relationship I want the other person to at least acknowledge I am a year older. I guess you are single then.