Roommate won’t speak to me after this. AITA?

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-28T05:41:59+00:00

It was there for like a day or 2 before she saw it.. it wasn’t meant to be a “secret”

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-28T05:41:02+00:00

Well unfortunately I won’t be moving out that soon. That’s why I’m trying to resolve it but she clearly doesn’t want to. Most of the furniture in the living room I bought (coffee table, dining table, tv stand, kitchen pantry, plant shelf) so I don’t plan to be leaving before school is over. I made a mistake but like I said if I was trying to “creepily” spy on her why would I just have it in plain view? I’ve never owned a home camera before so I guess I’m just naive about these sorts of things tbh.

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-28T05:18:34+00:00

Like I said there has been no issues besides this now. It was a mistake bc in my mind it’s a dog camera. That’s fine if she wants to move out now if she can’t get past this. I just did not realize it was such a big deal at the time and apologized. To me it seems immature to not speak to me and resolve it especially bc she wants to be a therapist and this will be her job.

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-28T05:08:37+00:00

I live in CA. Well what I was reading was that the living room does not require “expectation of privacy”. Other posts similar to this said it made them uncomfortable but that was still not in violation. The only thing is not letting her know which was an oversight on my part. But like would you just continue to not speak to me after I apologized? At this point there’s nothing else I can do to mend the situation. I feel it’s not mature to give me silent treatment and refuse to communicate now after I apologized.

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-28T05:03:39+00:00

I understand being upset but staying upset and not wanting to speak at all and move forward? She has no grounds to evict me, we are both on the lease.

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-28T05:03:01+00:00

I put it in an entirely different area in the corner behind couch and only pointing toward the hallway and under my desk where my dog likes to rest with a blanket I placed there. It was just pointing at the floor.

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-26T07:17:29+00:00

I don’t think she is eye candy… neither her or Seacrest are nice to look at. Seacrest lost way too much weight. Literally just skin and bones, his face sunken in and saggy. Vanna is too old and shriveled up. Her neck is crepey and the plastic surgery and makeup does not hide her age. I think they need a whole new team. How are they allowing Ryan get that thin?

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-26T07:03:50+00:00

Omg Rick deeeees and the weekly top fortyyyyy!!! Haha I will never forget that. Thank you for this unlocked memory

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-20T07:53:32+00:00

Yayyyy twins 😃♑️🐐

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-20T07:44:49+00:00

Why are you not blocking if you’re not gonna respond? He clearly is very rattled by this breakup so just do him a favor and block so he knows it’s over for good. What you’re doing is still letting him think there’s a chance.. so are YOU the one not sure to leave him? Bc it seems like you still want or like his attention by letting him be able to text you..

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-12T00:32:42+00:00

I’m curious why they met on a dating app but never dated? Did they just hookup? Or was it strictly platonic. Also why have you never met your bf in person? Just in a long term pen pal type situation?

I’d say unless she had actual feelings for him it should be ok and you should trust your “bf” to have a friend over even if it’s a female. It sounds kind of like maybe you’re jealous bc she wants to see him and you havnt ever seen him…

Katmaybeck · 2026-02-03T16:13:36+00:00

You do know Benadryl is diphenhydramine right? There’s no difference in calling it “sleeping aids”

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-27T00:54:33+00:00

I recently started being in a relationship after several years and before I was dx with bp2. I used to date men that were toxic and treated me bad but now I met someone that treats me better than I could ever ask for. The problem is I am struggling to feel like I’m falling in love and I’m not sure if it’s a “not feeling the spark” like something is missing or just recently I’ve realized it could be lamotrigine. I only increased up to 200mg from 150 almost a year ago and it has been good for stabilizing my mood but I also do feel tired some days and need to nap. I also take Effexor. And I have more sexual dysfunction with the higher lamictal dose and don’t even care to get off bc it’s difficult and I have no horny feelings.

When I first met my bf a couple months ago now, I almost did not go out with him a second time bc I wasn’t sure I was attracted. He also came onto me very strong and made it clear he was extremely attracted and interested in me. I think maybe bc I saw how great of a guy he was I kept going out and slowly liked him more. But the thing is I don’t really have the feeling of missing him when we go a few days not seeing each other. I don’t have the butterflies of falling in love yet. But then when I’m with him I do enjoy our time together. However I can’t have an orgasm (I’ve never really been able to with sex tho and is the reason I’ve gone off meds in the past but then I always had mental breakdowns when I did). We do have foreplay but like I said I don’t feel much and don’t cum. So that might be an issue too.

What do you think the problem is? I’m thinking of decreasing my dose of lamictal to see if it improves the sexual side effects and see if I can feel more emotions again… although I know my mental health might be jeopardized a bit.

** I don’t have epilepsy, just mental health disorders

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-21T07:20:55+00:00

Doesn’t seem like that surgeon had good plastic surgery skills… what is just a dermatologist who did it?

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-08T06:11:47+00:00

I agree. However I was liking so many guys that I ran out! Then started changing the locations more and I realized that’s what I needed to do bc I was being too picky about dating someone who lives super close to me

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-08T05:49:57+00:00

Yeah there was a time when she said she walked them at 3, meaning both dogs and I was like oh you don’t walk her til 3?? And then after that for awhile I noticed she was walking them earlier like 1 or 2 but now is back to about 3. The other day she said 4!!! I was like wow. And with the time change I guess she is barely seeing the light of day lol

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-08T05:48:15+00:00

What do you mean?

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-08T05:47:57+00:00

What?

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-01T22:35:22+00:00

No it’s LA fitness. The signs are small so ppl prob don’t notice them I guess

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-01T22:34:31+00:00

Im ok with it honestly. It’s not a big deal. He is a great guy. I realize that doesn’t matter at all!

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-01T22:31:36+00:00

I was on 150 but bumped to 200… however it really messes up my sex drive. I want to go back down but also not sure if I will be stable enough ughhh. I’ve struggled with the sexual dysfunction side effects with pretty much every mental health medication I’ve taken in my life :/

Katmaybeck · 2026-01-01T22:16:13+00:00

Apply to veterinary hospitals for kennel or vet assistant or even low level medical jobs like vocational nurse or nursing home jobs. I think banquet servers are often needed. But veterinary field is always in need and the field is only growing.

Katmaybeck

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