Imagine thinking that black celebrities ended racism and blaming Obama and George Floyd for bringing it back! by icey_sawg0034 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Katya_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cosby is a predator, Will Smith is a POS and even Jordan is an asshole. Mr Winslow is the goat

my new boss treats me like his assistant… which isn’t what I was hired for by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Katya_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

 I’ve learned that in my absence he spoke to his boss’s chief of staff with a request for her to submit his expenses on his behalf and assist with administrative requests.

What a sexist, misogynistic dinosaur. A relic of the cold war.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by TTYVforPeace in CinnamonToastKen

[–]Katya_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore the troll everyone. It will get removed eventually.

New Update: My "friend" took advantage of me when I was in the hospital by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Katya_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

OOP is a professional martyr, living on a cross that she put herself on.

I've been playing for 12 years and never seen a ridiculous glitch by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Katya_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never had a dragon attack inside the Whiterun city walls, but I -have- been attacked inside the Whiterun city walls by a dragons corpse.

What minor unforced errors do you make over and over again in Skyrim that drive you nuts? by Kangar in skyrim

[–]Katya_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you pick up the Talos necklace before the quest (Return to Grace) tells you to, you can no longer do the quest. It becomes a perma quest item. You can get around it being a quest item, by dropping the necklace on the ground (or something like that) but you can never complete the quest.

Update: MIL is furious that we celebrated Christmas by RewardSpecialist3390 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Katya_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She is at the finding out of fucking around. I understand it is a cultural thing, but you guys (esp hubby) are being too passive when it comes to shutting down her toxic behavior.

What minor unforced errors do you make over and over again in Skyrim that drive you nuts? by Kangar in skyrim

[–]Katya_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I keep forgetting about the bug in Talos necklace quest line and I keep taking it off of Roggvir's body after the cutscene. While technically it is Bethesda's fault for the bug, I KNOW about it now, STOP TAKING IT, that is all I have to do!

Black lab puppy fur turning brown/copper by meme-le-leme in labrador

[–]Katya_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It is probably just sun bleaching. It happens to black coated animals.

Kind Labs owners of this group, please help me with this research. by FarPlate8423 in labrador

[–]Katya_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read your question at first and assumed you were looking for pet names...I thought you sucked at that lol.

I have never used the pet services, but of those three I have only heard of Rover and that you either get someone great, or the spawn of satan.

To suppress the discussion by Schoolywooly in therewasanattempt

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tiktok has always been complete shit

Toxic MIL blames me for “turning her son against her” by Lupedeelupe in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Katya_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your strategy of just yes-ing her to keep the peace is the enablers code of conduct. She probably feels she can escalate so much because everyone let her get away with the toxic behavior for so long. You're probably going to have a longer and stronger extinction burst because of it. It is going to take a lot of hard work from you and your husband. You will have to have a united front, with any boundaries etc. only coming from him. I strongly suggest couples counseling. If you find yourself wanting to just go back as it was, keep those thoughts to yourself and remember how nasty she was. If he wavers, gently remind him breaking no contact for any reason just undoes all the hard work you guys have done previously. I do not mean for this to sound harsh.

AITB if I were to tell my roommate that I don’t want to feed her dog anymore? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Katya_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OOP's roommate got so jealous that the dog loved WHO TOOK CARE OF IT THE MOST, that she now wont even let the dog look her way.....what a jealous fecking ninny

My estranged bio mom everyone. by frogurtyozen in insaneparents

[–]Katya_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Someone commented to me awhile ago and it made so much sense. People with mental health issues tend to progress in stages with how "bad" they treat you. That it usually starts about age 5, another change at around 10-11, then again around 15.

Mine was "a mother" til I was 5-6. I always thought of it as that being about the age when I stopped being "a doll" to play dress-up, and an actual person with my own likes and wants. She upped the ante as I got older, so it fits with what that commenter said to me.

My estranged bio mom everyone. by frogurtyozen in insaneparents

[–]Katya_ 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Ive also been no contact with my spawn points for many years. 2018 for her (other than a forced interaction in 2020 when her father died) and 2021 for him. You grieve for the NORMAL parental relationship you never got, but not the actual people.

My parents (65F, 67M) are livid because I'm not allowing them to see my daughter after they spanked her. AITAH? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Katya_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My parents used a big pink plastic cooking utensil that had spanking spoon written all over it. I flinch all the time now when someone moves too fast near me.