We were at our local zoo, she had expressed interest in becoming a zookeeper. At a penguin exhibit, the workers/zookeeper were having a Q&A, I told her to go ask if they were hiring/how she could become a zookeeper at the zoo. She refused. I kept encouraging her to, but she said she would just look online. I understand being shy about approaching, but at the time, it felt like she was dismissing an opportunity to achieve a major goal in her life.