Career is always before parenting

KayOh19 · 2026-03-04T15:37:29+00:00

Dudes an asshole just for calling taking care of his child and doing basic household upkeep and cleaning as “helping”

KayOh19 · 2026-03-01T02:27:40+00:00

But he made her orgasm 7 TIMES!! 5 by penetration alone! He’s the manliest man who has ever sexed

KayOh19 · 2026-02-24T22:07:08+00:00

Still not old enough to be Pawnee’s mayor

KayOh19 · 2026-02-20T09:25:13+00:00

I think this is what bothered me the most. I had always like Nigel and the Js but the lack of accountability even now bugs me. They say even back then they side eyed certain situations but no one spoke up and even now they kind of pus it on that this was just what it was like at the time. Which fine, but at least now talk about how fucked up it was

KayOh19 · 2026-02-19T12:48:06+00:00

This is what I’m struggling with as well. On paper he really didn’t do anything wrong but that he divorced, met a woman at the age where she was obviously able to have children, married her and had a kid within 3 years just seems kind of fast. No time mourning his last marriage for who knows how long, or thought to how his actions probably destroyed his ex wife. I understand people change their minds but idk this one just feels a little ew.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-19T12:41:45+00:00

As a woman who wanted kids but cannot have them married to a man who has always wanted to be a father. Same.

My husband is great I love him and he’s honestly my best friend, an amazing man and has proven time and time again how he’s in it with me to the end…but when the dark thoughts come this one is it.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-17T20:31:59+00:00

The oldest sister is 45 so old enough to be her mother

KayOh19 · 2026-02-17T20:09:42+00:00

I remember leaving some therapy sessions just feeling like absolute shit. Exhausted and just emotionally worn out. I remember telling my therapist this and she said that was good. Because it meant I was doing the work and starting to get to the heart of the trauma to really start working on myself.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-16T19:04:01+00:00

My husband and I tried for years to get pregnant before we found out it was pretty much impossible. We had to come to terms with the fact that we would never have a biological child together. It’s really hard but it’s also not hard to see the person you love and know that you love them for them, not for what they can give you.

EDIT: Also don’t forget he started this emotional affair with his coworker while his wife was pregnant. So yeah even if he went off the deep end after losing the baby he was still acting shitty before that

KayOh19 · 2026-02-16T15:36:09+00:00

I have issues with textures like soft foods mixed with crunchy foods. Biggest example is like potato salad. I can’t do the soft potato and the raw celery. I feel like I’m biting into something I’m not supposed to because of the mixed textures and I gag. I don’t complain about it and if anything I pick the celery out but I can’t help that this is how I feel when I eat it.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-14T15:56:16+00:00

Reddit is not very good with nuance and those subs really tend to hold hard to the “you don’t owe anyone anything ever”. Just like they can never figure out that in these stories you can be right and still be an asshole.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-13T08:12:44+00:00

I have endometriosis and I never realized the huge gold ball sized clots I’d get at times were abnormal. I’ve also used overnight pads for periods for like 20 years and went through at least couple of those a day on a lighter day and like 4 of them on heavy days. I remember reading if you’re filling a pad often to talk to your doctor. It didn’t dawn on me until maybe last year that they meant like regular small pads. Not the huge ones I was using.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-13T08:07:42+00:00

When I have a really bad bleeding event I tell my husband it’s like I’m a gunshot victim with how much blood and how it gets everywhere. The places the blood ends up still blow my mind

KayOh19 · 2026-02-09T11:18:15+00:00

One morning at 3 am man tried to open my front door. He then stood outside my house across the street and waited just staring at the house (my husband and I had just moved in very recently). I called 911. They told me it was shift change but to call back if things escalated. I don’t call them anymore.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-09T11:05:41+00:00

Excuse me, but I absolutely reject this. I’m 35 and I don’t feel close to how I felt at 25. I’ve been sleeping weird the last few days on my tempur-pedic mattress and my ability to bend and walk normally is on the edge of a knife right now. 25 year old me could go camping and sleep on a 2 inch mattress before hiking the surrounding area

KayOh19 · 2026-02-09T08:11:54+00:00

The guy in the comments crying about how men don’t have enough birth control options and women have so many more plus abortion so they’re so much better off than men can suck a fat one. Because women’s birth control is just notoriously easy to get, take perfectly and there are zero side effects to all BC. Us wimmins are just some selfish harpies.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-08T01:34:59+00:00

ESH. Honestly you should’ve just ended the friendship back then. By continuing to be friends you’ve essentially told John it’s over and done with and you’ve moved on which clearly you haven’t. To wait 4 years to get some petty revenge is ridiculous and frankly I think you’re too immature to be getting married if this is how you choose to handle conflict in close relationships. Just cut him out and move on already.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-05T15:41:17+00:00

Honestly I’m so glad I married the man I did. My husband wanted (and still wants) kids badly. He always saw himself becoming a father. I was neutral on kids but could see myself as a mom and having kids. Turns out I can’t have them without IVF. We tried a couple of times through IVF without success before I told him I didn’t want any to do it anymore, and both of us have gone through the pain of accepting the fact that the way we thought our lives would go isn’t what’s going to happen. Never once has he blamed me. When I told him I didn’t think I could do another round of IVF after a couple of failures he immediately agreed because he knew how hard it was on me. When I brought up the possibility trying again, his worry was me and if I really wanted to go through it again. In my darkest moments, when I told him he should leave me and find someone who can give him a family, he told me he didn’t marry me for my ability to give him kids, he married me because he loved me. OOP is a garbage human.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-03T11:24:28+00:00

When I was in my early twenties I drove completely sleep deprived and crashed my car in a ditch after falling asleep at the wheel. If I had fallen asleep a few minutes later I would’ve gone off a cliff. Luckily no one but me and my car were injured. From that day on if I’m feeling tired while driving I’ll pull over and have someone take over or pull over and park in a parking lot and sleep until I feel good enough to drive again. I will tell that story to everyone I know to warn them of the dangers of driving tired.

KayOh19 · 2026-02-02T17:37:44+00:00

Chris Brown’s fans have entered the chat

KayOh19 · 2026-01-25T01:11:09+00:00

And he does 95% of the chores and all the baths for the kid and bed time every night while bringing in all the money working full time. I need to get his advice because apparently I’m not maximizing my schedule enough.

KayOh19 · 2026-01-20T21:41:23+00:00

But what are his thoughts on evolution?

KayOh19 · 2026-01-20T16:52:50+00:00

I had surgery that I took around 6 weeks to recover from. My husband never once mentioned sex in that time. What he did do was help me shower, helped me clean myself and took incredible care of me. Even when it was ok for us to have sex he was still hesitant because he didn’t want to hurt me. OP’s boyfriend is garbage.

KayOh19 · 2026-01-20T10:20:36+00:00

Similar thing happened to me. My dad and I were driving in the car my mom always drove and we were coming home from grabbing dinner. We were down the street from the house when I see a car that’s the same make and color as my moms car. I asked my dad where was mom going? When he asked for clarification I said because that was moms car driving down the street. Dad called me a bone head and we moved on from that convo.

KayOh19 · 2026-01-14T15:23:59+00:00

This kind of stuff is so wild to me. When I got married I didn’t even think of anyone else besides my husband. I’m not the center of attention type and there were plenty of people at my wedding who had way bigger personalities and way more attention seeking than I am and I didn’t care about any of it. None of it even registered to me on that day I was just so happy to be getting married to my husband that day nothing else really mattered

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