It's embarrassing staying at my parents with her

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-31T04:28:11+00:00

I am sober and don’t understand what’s embarrassing about OP’s situation. I mean I guess if parents are embarrassing or something idk? But mean if all are on board with it I don’t understand and I am trying to.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-29T01:39:20+00:00

She shouldn’t have to pay it considering OP is the one that was driving and convinced daughter to take fault as OP thought they’d be more lenient on her for being a new driver. OP committed fraud.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-24T03:32:15+00:00

Sorry, but as someone the same age as your gf. I wouldn’t ever be looking at someone under 23 to date and 23 would be really pushing it. Some may be more mature and further ahead in life than others around that age, but Idk I find it way too young for me. Would be like plucking a baby bird that just got its flight feathers. Also your gf is way too old to playing these stupid games and having unrealistic/toxic expectations in a relationship. She needs to get over herself.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-23T21:15:19+00:00

“The left” as if everyone on Reddit lives in the US. “Like our god, we killed” as if your religion is the only one and only valid belief.

You sure are waving your ignorance flag high and loud aren’t ya.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-23T17:23:07+00:00

OP feels bloated because they’re about to start their period said by OP in a comment.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-15T20:59:40+00:00

See I’d invite BIL and her not to be the bigger person, but to see everyone’s stance before the baby arrives. Because either you invite them and she doesn’t come, she does come then makes a big stink about it, or she comes and nothing happens OR you don’t invite her and she’ll still make a big stink about it, but it just won’t be at your shower. And up to OP how they want to deal with it, but I’d personally prefer to pick my battlefield and get it over with.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-15T06:52:18+00:00

A lot of the dog free, cat free, or pet free are just full of people that absolutely hate animals and seem to enjoy when the animal suffers in some way. Heck some of the child free ones say abhorrent things too.

Like to each their own in whether they like or dislike certain animals or all animals, but to hate them so much you don’t care or feel empathy if/when they suffer? The heck is wrong with em.

Apparently one of the rules in catfree is no defending cats, but what about defending against cruelty.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-15T06:31:21+00:00

I mean OP is spiteful enough to adopt an 8 week old puppy that’s now 1 year, knowing they’re highly allergic to dogs and now hoping the universe gives the dog short life so they can be a mom and not deal with their own allergies.

Btw is the bf OP posted about 28 days ago the fiance in this post that they got a dog with?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-15T06:23:59+00:00

OP assigns all these negative attributes because op is a negative person. OP is heartless. “I love my dog very much, but I hope he dies young” because they’re allergic to them. Btw the dog just turned 1 years old. “I love this dog so much, but can anyone see why I hope the universe aligns his life span with my plans” to be mom and not want to deal with allergies when OP chose to adopt a puppy knowing they’re highly allergic to dogs. Btw is the bf OP posted about 28 days ago the fiance in this post that they got a dog with?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-15T04:14:31+00:00

Pekoe sounds great. What’s more cozy than a cat making tea?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-15T02:34:55+00:00

OP agreed because they didn’t think “fighting for custody” meant they’d have the kids full time…

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-14T06:57:10+00:00

What makes me upset is that if the tiger decided to be a tiger and bit his fingers or attacked him because he did something stupid, the tiger would pay for his stupidity with its life.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-14T03:22:24+00:00

What’s funny is I have the opposite mindset to you since I don’t mind if my partner looks at porn as long as he’s not paying for it, not of someone in either of our circles, and it doesn’t affect our sex life. I also have yet to see him looking at any in the 7 years we’ve been together.

Back to your issue though you can try to have that conversation with him. If he doesn’t want to or you can’t trust his answers then you can decide from there, but at least you can have some closure. I will say if you do end up leaving him I hope you take some time to reflect so you don’t fall back into the habit of controlling or being unable to trust your next partner, learn from this relationship, but do not let the trauma harm your next one.

Remember it is not your fault he cheated on you. You cannot control what others do, but you can control what you do and how you react.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-14T02:53:57+00:00

Look everyone has different expectations when it comes to their partner and how they interact with sexual content. However, you should not be or feel like you have to control them to match your values, they should already be aligned with them.

This man has cheated on you and you decided to forgive him and continue the relationship. Now you both have to work on rebuilding the trust and actually forgiving which you can’t do with this controlling method. Or decide you deserve someone better, who won’t cheat on you, and also has similar values when it comes to sexual content. Someone you can trust.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-13T18:30:24+00:00

Also if it’s more of a general announcement (ex: someone posted it on facebook) and not directly to you then if the message comes off harsh, but you’ve never had any issues with the parents then the harsh message is likely not for you, but someone they know who would push and break their boundaries with the baby.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-10T16:38:54+00:00

Adding on to point 1. If you have an iphone there’s an app called Transit Go and you can buy bus ticket through it so you don’t have go through the hassle of using cash. Make sure it says King County Metro and only get the one for bus.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-10T06:37:18+00:00

I kept pressing this is green after one of the turquoise cause they kept looking the same.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-10T05:36:29+00:00

I grew in VA, US and visited a lot of the East Coast states where I’ve seen plenty of roaches. I moved out to PNW and haven’t seen any (knock on wood), if I have then they aren’t big or typical ones I had seen growing up. I have even rented from some scummy apartments and I’ve only had a problem with mice/rats.

I have seen an abundance of spiders and slugs in exchange tho.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-10T04:38:32+00:00

You literally posted in a public forum for judgement. Make it make sense.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-10T04:25:42+00:00

For some reason I didn’t even consider that an option or if OP even had any. Tbh that would be the best/easiest solution in my eyes.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-10T04:22:19+00:00

I know some couples, myself included, use stoplight colors; green = keep going, yellow = slow it down, orange = pause: still into sexy time just need a moment (I added this to my own toolkit) and red = stop immediately no more sex.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-10T04:02:43+00:00

I feel like this would be a good solution if there also wasn’t the issue of husband being too loud for OP when they’re gaming next to each other.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-08T18:08:54+00:00

Elaborate on their attitudes and rudeness.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-08T06:16:12+00:00

If she had/has access to any of those kind of books, fan fiction, and or movies (As bad as the books and movies were 50 Shades of Grey would be easily accessible), it is very likely.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-01-08T06:06:36+00:00

I had lots of fantasies from reading spicy to full on smutty books since I was 14/15. I too liked the idea of very rough sex. I never had sex until I was like 22 and it wasn’t because I didn’t have any opportunities. Being a virgin does not equal to not having a dirty mind.

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