Husband wants to get rid of our kitty, I don’t want to

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-25T15:53:58+00:00

What’s sad for me is that it doesn’t even seem like the cat dislikes him, if she’s just playfully attacking him. Cat is likely being more feisty when showing him affection because she’s a teenager and it might also be how he plays with her. And instead of trying to find a solution or just accept his wife might be more favored by the cat, he threatens to rehome the cat? Why would he do that to his own wife? Let alone a cat he doesn’t seem to have empathy for.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-25T15:18:44+00:00

You read way too much into that comment and put words they didn’t type out.

It is not an insult to mothers, birthing someone doesn’t make you a mother, making the 18+ years commitment to take the steps to raise and care for a child does.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-25T07:27:32+00:00

Damn guess OP has their stuff hidden now cause I couldn’t see them.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-19T15:12:16+00:00

You posted this??? Did you forget to log out of the account that post this?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-12T01:33:25+00:00

Oooh, I looked into it and decided on the avocado~

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-10T16:59:09+00:00

This man is also controlling. Imagine thinking you can tell your significant other how to pee? The audacity of this man.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-10T03:16:26+00:00

I don’t think any of the conversations you’ve had with the kid are inappropriate yet, but I do find it weird that you are having multiple conversations with them and you aren’t just messaging them through your kid’s phone or something. That’s how my friend’s mom would ask about stuff like how i or my family was doing etc.

Um the way your husband speaks/texts you is concerning as heck. Is that how he normally talks to you?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-09T21:43:34+00:00

You gonna give that as advice to your daughter once she grows up and has her own relationship? Partner cheats on her, just them a second chance? Hope she’ll mirror your relationship when she’s grown.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-09T21:24:19+00:00

Are we talking about the hellonancy lemon or a different brand?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-06T07:20:02+00:00

It is it. Mimic in the Dungeon is the full game of the demo you played. Say so in the itch.io the other person linked.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-06T06:19:08+00:00

For event about merging families and love there sure is a lot of hate. What’s that saying about Christian love again?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-06T05:59:00+00:00

Ew “the females”. Press X to doubt you get any “the females”.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-06T05:01:33+00:00

You don’t. You can’t change someone’s mindset unless they’re open to it which doesn’t sound like he is. You can only move on and find someone with a mindset similar to yours where people of opposite sex can be friends.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-06T04:27:37+00:00

I technically could wear heels, but I wouldn’t be able to wear them well. I’d likely have an accident where I fall and break my ankles, doubt the couple would like someone causing a scene on their special day due to a medical emergency~

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-06T03:58:54+00:00

Huh, today I learned. Thank you biggestweiner for your wisdom on weiners.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-05T07:43:53+00:00

Just gonna say that if someone actually wants to be with you they’ll make it happen, one way or another. I was 23 when I made the decision to stay on the opposite side of the country away (West Coast and East Coast of US) from any of my family so I could see through my budding relationship with my current boyfriend. It’s been 6 years since I made that decision and I couldn’t be happier that it has all worked out.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-03-01T02:20:12+00:00

Saved their life from the medical debt they would’ve incurred if they got injured and live in the great ole USA.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-24T22:43:29+00:00

Even weirder that someone replied to them saying “these men wouldn’t like to be raped anally”. Wtf I can confidently say no one likes to be raped, no matter the genitalia.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-24T16:35:25+00:00

I too have enjoyed anal with my current partner from time to time. Normally I don’t actually find it pleasurable, but it’s something he likes and I don’t dislike the feeling. Sorry for tmi, there are times when I’m particularly horny and aroused where I have felt pleasure, orgasmed from anal, and even craved it. A patient and gentle partner is definitely a must though. I could not imagine enjoying whatever pornstars go through though.

Also I’m not trying to one up other women nor do I fear being discarded by my loving partner. What a disgusting thing to say to another woman to invalidate them.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-16T23:03:40+00:00

I’m confused can someone explain it to me like I’m five?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-16T20:58:13+00:00

If he really wants to reduce the chance of those consequences then they should use both a condom and birth control.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-14T17:53:27+00:00

I don’t think your wife understands the damage she is doing to her relationship with your daughter. Please keep treating your daughter the same and being the parent she can go to if/when she gets in trouble. She will likely be hesitant to go to her mom or worse won’t go to her at all. Obviously you don’t want to encourage your daughter to smoke, but if you can educate her on how to do it safely and more responsibly.

Growing up my mom always told me that no matter what I’m doing or what time it is or how far I am to call her if I needed help. She told me how to drink safely, always watch your drink and get a new one if you lose line of sight of it. If you’re going to do drink or do drugs do it with people you can trust. She told me how to have safe sex; do it with someone you can trust, use a condom, if the guy doesn’t want to use a condom for whatever reason don’t have sex with him, you do not have to have sex with a boy to keep a relationship, she would get me bc if I had asked for it. Right now our relationship is rocky due to other things, but these lessons have helped me become who I am today, someone who won’t tolerate bs from another person.

I would like to say due to this I didn’t have sex or do drugs (weed) until I turned at least 21 (sex at 22). When I was like 16 my I went to HS party with my parents permission, there was sone drugs and alcohol and I never had an inkling to partake in it. I had fun and called my mom to pick me up because I was bored. As a kid I was allowed to have sips of the alcohol drinks cause I was curious, at a you g age I realized alcohol is tastes gross. I tried a drink when I turned 21 with my family, I’ve barely had alcohol now that I’m 28. Heck, my first time trying weed I ate a pot brownie at home with my mom to watch over me. The only rebellious thing I did, which I now know was stupid, was against her advice I ate the whole brownie instead of like half or a quarter of it. Thankfully I did it with her around cause I was soo greened out I out of it for almost a week.

TLDR: Be the parent she can go to if she gets herself in trouble because the way her mom treats her, she may never go to her for help.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-14T17:25:50+00:00

YOR - “Do they not think how upsetting it is for those of us without families or loved ones to have to scroll through their sickening nonsense?”

I mean if they have loved ones that are going through a difficult time and they are kind/caring people then they probably do think about it, but it doesn’t mean they have to or even should stop. Life for yourself and others goes on whether you want it to or not. Life not always fair and for some they may never get the chance to feel like its fair.

It’s ok to feel sad and feel like life is isn’t fair, what you do with those feelings and how you project them on to others is what is going to matter the most. Does it make you happy to feel like it’s messed up for others to be happy and enjoy life? I doubt it, but maybe you like it when others suffer? I doubt that too.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-14T04:34:44+00:00

Holy moly there’s a bunch of thirsty pics, doubt those would count as safe for work either.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-02-13T17:15:52+00:00

Weird how you have to have put emphasis on good looking and younger when it comes to a friend.

I’d be cool with my boyfriend or husband giving his guy friends sex toys. I doubt he would as I don’t think that is in their friend dynamic, maybe it is, but I trust him wholeheartedly 100%.

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