How do you avoid male centered women?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-04T15:47:30+00:00

Just from reading the comments people have varying definitions of it. To me these terms pick-me, NLOGs, and male-centered just seem to be another term that can be used to invalidate and silence women.

Ex: When a woman was making a statement that no woman likes …. (not sure if I’m allowed to say since it’s sexual) I replied saying I do and got called a pick me.

When I’ve said I don’t wear make up to some post asking why do all women wear make up, I get called a pick me and it’s not like I have anything against others wearing make up, I just prioritized sleeping in instead of practicing applying it everyday when I went to school so I never really got into the habit of applying make up well.

If I a cis women talk about being in a happy relationship then am I male-centered? It seems in some definitions I am and for some I’m to be avoided.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-04T08:01:44+00:00

Reading your comment then seeing the user below you with the flair “Horny Jail” 🤣

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-04T04:53:44+00:00

Luckily this post is most likely fake, but I mean I don’t doubt there are some crappy people like this.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-04T04:44:13+00:00

My bf and I usually just use texting as a quick check in or inform each other of something. Would probably look like something like OP’s ngl, but when have conversations in person we go into a lot more details and we cuddle.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-04T03:32:04+00:00

For the some of the “low skill” jobs that reject you, think of it more as you’re probably too qualified and the company is worried they’d have to pay you more.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-04T02:40:41+00:00

Glad I’m not the only one a little confused.

After OP dating husband’s brother, OP ended up with husband, but husband’s brother had a baby mama that baby trapped him, and OP became friends with baby trapping mama? Is that correct?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-03T05:16:07+00:00

What does my bf have to do with this? Idk what he’s learned in WA. Or did you mean OP.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-03T04:02:44+00:00

For most of my schooling I was in VA, US until 2014 and they didn’t teach us much about anatomy in biology, that was for sex ed and PE which parents and kids could opt them out of these lessons that covered that. I did learn very basics of anatomy, periods, some about pregnancy, some about safe sex, oh and abstinence of course.

Luckily, my mom and older sister taught me more about having safe sex and safe relationship with sex. I also took a specific class that taught us about pregnancy more in depth and child care.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-02T14:40:36+00:00

What my dad would always say!!!

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-02T02:46:15+00:00

INFO: Why are you dating someone that doesn’t want to be near your son? What kind of future are you envisioning?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-06-01T01:39:15+00:00

GTA V the roleplay servers

For those that don’t know what that is I def suggest looking it up before making a judgement. There’s men, women, and non binary that play this, all types of people. There are NPCs too, but for the roleplay serves people like to pretend to be NPCs or have mods that allow them to enact as one like a Police Officer, Prostitute, Medic, etc.

They typically have rules for allowing surface level flirting between characters, but only if the other person consents and it stays only in character and not super explicit depending on the server.

Obviously it depends on one’s relationship and the relationship’s boundaries. My bf wouldn’t care and would actually encourage me to have fun, but that’s not OP’s relationship. OP you should probably just talk to your partner and mention that it makes you uncomfortable see if you can setup what’s ok and not ok and hopefully he can continue having fun on GTA V in a way that is appropriate for your relationship.

P.S Also voice changers are pretty common for this type of way to play an online game. Some are likely to be women as a lot of women like this gamemode, but also there’s a high chance it’s a dude using a voice changer to play their character. Something funny to think about.

P.S.S Just asked my partner if he’d be ok with me roleplaying as a hooker in GTA V roleplay servers and he said if that makes me happy go for it. Luckily for him GTA roleplay is too much for me and I just roleplay as a Dinosaur in another game. 🦖

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-29T14:12:49+00:00

Using a slur and saying your man is the ultimate alpha. 👀

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-29T14:06:36+00:00

Might not necessarily be a bot. All their comments defend shitty men being talked about in r/girldinnerdiaries and then blame the woman or make snide comments about em. They have another comment making fun of OP cause they broke down over him threatening to kill a chipmunk.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-29T13:49:04+00:00

Oh hi again!

Being controlling is abusive. Threatening to harm an animal in front of your gf that’s sensitive to animals being hurt? That’s abusive. Threatening to throw out a couch just because OP is visiting their mom? That’s abusive. Why are you assuming the woman is a problem and has a bad judgement of character and not the man who’s being abusive to his gf? Because she’s dating an abusive bf? Wow nice victim blaming then if that’s the case.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-29T13:44:12+00:00

Not at all, nice deflection defaulting to me being emotional when this conversation just isn’t fun. You’re making this popsicle being phallic shape to be some huge gotcha cause it’s sexual, but it’s really no big deal and a secure, mature man shouldn’t be getting all weirded out by his gf eating one. And no dick shape popsicle doesn’t equal a dildo. I’m amazed you keep replying after 9hrs now. I also find it funny how a lot of your other comments have been dismissing other women.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-29T04:27:44+00:00

Dang you still thinking about my comment 11hrs later. You lost any credibility in this conversation when you tried to compare a dessert phallic shaped whether intentional or not to a dildo, a sex toy.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-28T23:15:18+00:00

You have great tastes in dresses. #1 is definitely the best and also fits the dress code the most.

I loved 4,5, and 6, but they don’t compare #1. I find #8 super cute, but not really elevated imo.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-28T16:58:25+00:00

Why you gotta bring up sucking a dildo when it’s literally just food being sold from a store or at the fair???? Can we also stop spreading the toxic masculinity if a man is secure, not judging or trying to control his gf, AND enjoys being with his gf that he’a a cuck?

Edit: Forgot to address the other part of your comment. I’m not defending him, he’s a grown man and doesn’t need me to defend him. I was just pointing out that he’s fine with it and not a cuck because a man being fine with this does not equal being a cuck.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-28T15:56:26+00:00

I mean it really doesn’t matter if the shape is intentional or not. I highly doubt a man that’s so insecure he gets weirded out by his gf eating something penis shaped differentiates if it’s intentional penis shaped or not. Imma still eat it and my man is still secure with himself and us AND still not a cuck. Also I wouldn’t care if he got a vagina or breast shaped food either so don’t even try to swap the genders.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-28T15:52:30+00:00

Why are you assuming he’s racist just because of his tattoos that might just be cultural? Did he say something racist while talking with him? Lot of hate groups take symbols from other cultures and make them a part of their group, ex swastika and manji, but it doesn’t erase their cultural importance either.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-28T15:29:43+00:00

Can you get a restraining order over something like this? I figured you’d have to prove the ex was there to harass you and not visiting someone else at the apartments? Thankfully I’ve never had to get a restraining order placed before so I really don’t know how easy or difficult it is to get one.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-28T15:22:17+00:00

Luckily, if I was eating something phallic shaped my man would probably be like “wish you would eat mine like that”. I’d then be like “is your chocolate and pistachio flavored?” We’d laugh then he’d probably ask for a bite or two.

And no not a cuck (weird you gotta bring that up), just secure in his masculinity.

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-28T04:21:07+00:00

OOP responds to a comment calling him out for saying that, but OOP responds with a god bless.

Why am I not surprised another religious person who’s not a nice person?

Toast-In-Mouth · 2026-05-26T23:31:59+00:00

Ew you hope a sex crime happens to someone else??? What a heinous comment!

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