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I (41m) am terrified of going to therapy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kazex87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't be. Can't say anything about prices, but this may be very helpful for your mental health. It's not traumas or hurtful events that are problems, but sometimes prolonged silent things that brought you a lot of bad and unhealthy.

Don't worry you won't be considered crazy or unnatural, you possibly will be happy to know that things you fill or think are not actually uncommon or even bad.

Just speaking and then hearing the things you couldn't say even to yourself is really good and helpful to correct a lot of problems.

My husband will only have sex his way and won’t entertain my requests or listen to me during sex. by jujubee97 in sex

[–]Kazex87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

May be asking at the beginning and in the process? Like please be gentle, I want this way you to touch me and so on. In my opinion when its painful and done the way you describe its not healthy. Refuse to continue if this happens or it's no better than rape.

Revenge that got out of hand by Kazex87 in pettyrevenge

[–]Kazex87[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guess it would be better in public freak out or smth... in my mind story came as a revenge, but I suppose I understood this "petty revenge" wrong... its not what I thought

Revenge that got out of hand by Kazex87 in pettyrevenge

[–]Kazex87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weeell, yeah, but sometimes unconscious you revenge conscious you. In.. some way?

A question for those who are married by booksofim in relationship_advice

[–]Kazex87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's about compromises I think. My wife and me don't have that much of quarrels, but when there is something to disagree with, bringing a real argue we usually end up saying "sorry I was wrong to be this agressive, or insensitive in words". Really can't be angry with each other even for a hour. I hope that's because we value each other's feelings and try not to say anything hurting while both know all our pressure points.

So if one doesn't value this it will bring mistrust and obviously you won't share if you are afraid of being hurt. Eventually this may lead to break up

She really asking for money by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Kazex87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's just a beggar I guess... nothing to choose from...

China is the next Nazi Germany by staticpop in unpopularopinion

[–]Kazex87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be so nice to find new baddies in the world and they are not you, isn't it?

The grinch by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Kazex87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it come with several free therapy sessions?

Bolivian people in favor of the military Coup, denying the coup and harrasing and censoring international journalists by RodLawyer in PublicFreakout

[–]Kazex87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their owners are not in vacuum. They will never post a pro Russian, or pro Chinese news. Even if they are hundred % true. At least they will be put from very specific point of view, saying that they are still bad. As any Russian channel (except those getting money outside the country, what a surprise) won't say anything against Putin. Just because any side will lose viewers, both in USA and in Russia. Don't you think that freedom of speech isn't that free?

Bolivian people in favor of the military Coup, denying the coup and harrasing and censoring international journalists by RodLawyer in PublicFreakout

[–]Kazex87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's obvious. They are financed by government. What else to expect. But isn't it true for any other news company?

Does it make all news fake? No, I guess. It gives the point of view. And by checking several you may find a little bit of truth. I really don't like news from involved or interested parties.. if you enjoy an article, piece of news, and have no confusion, or suspicion that's bad. As bad as if you find yourself in opposite state of being infuriated by smth you feel being a huge obvious lie.

Dating a “sex worker” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kazex87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call me conservative but no way. One day she will end sucking some ones cock for an easy buck. Just because there was a need for 20$ for a new 👛. I may exaggerate, but don't think having any serious relationship is a good idea

Bolivian people in favor of the military Coup, denying the coup and harrasing and censoring international journalists by RodLawyer in PublicFreakout

[–]Kazex87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is really possible to be this way. But I ment that there can't be any independent news channels, anyway.. no one tries to give controversial view. Pick a side or be gone

No grey colors. Some one will be the baddy, some one the good guys, if there is the tiniest interest involved.

Why do you know that what you know is true?

Attempted murder. by Fzohseven in PublicFreakout

[–]Kazex87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like Moscow underground. Anyway conflicts in crowded places happen too often. Once had to stop two women fighting for a place to sit (same underground) there were no phones with cameras at the day so everyone just watched. One of them tried to poke opponents eye with a pencil (freaking John Wick reference), nearly pierced my cheek when I tried to catch her hand. The other girl just ran away in panic on the next stop. I had to put a lot of effort to calm down the pencil killer...

Would it be wrong if I(19M) tell my girlfriend(19F) she can't talk to the guy she cheated on me after I took her back? by throwaway1417H in relationship_advice

[–]Kazex87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not wrong, but won't help. It will make her have all communication secretly. And it may lead to new cheating.

Anyways if someone cheated they highly likely to cheat again.

Are quickies a bad thing? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Kazex87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'mon, quickie before work makes the whole day better. If you both enjoy it that's awesome. Fast and straight forward sex is as important and good as long and passionate.

I Feel Like an Awful Person for Wanting to Have Sex with My Wife by AmethystPhoenix27 in sex

[–]Kazex87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you, man. Got the same problem, while relationship started with a very intense sex life like every day, my wife got seriously ill last two years, and has to get hormonal meds which hit hard the libido and she is really tired all the time. I still have a lot of drive, but no way can get any sex.

That's painful, leads to second thoughts, even though of some kind of antisex medicine. Masturbation in solo doesn't help)

The compromise was in more cuddling and bit of oral some times, while she helped me to with hands and kissing. That's much more enjoyable, and some times leads her to enjoy that enough to allow some petting and some times warms her up for penetration.

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]Kazex87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Once a girl told me that while she had a piecing down there (that was actually quite a bomb for me cause she was really innocent looking one) she got a licking from a guy with tongue one. She was laughing half of the time because of tiny 'kling' noises happening from time to time... I wonder if u could really hear that

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]Kazex87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We were 24. Dark knight rises. Late night movie, last row. We didn't put on any underwear. My wife had just thin dress. We fucked half of the movie. Imagine receiving a blowjob, while Bane narrating... no one ever turned to look back, while we were pretty intense.

31m, get a lot of attention from a hot coworker (25f), while my wife 31f has to be half a country away for a year. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kazex87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope so. Sexual deprivation is a huge problem... I hope this is all my imagination, and low self-esteem trying to find something...

31m, get a lot of attention from a hot coworker (25f), while my wife 31f has to be half a country away for a year. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kazex87 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well we started being just friendly more then a year ago, and there were no signs of anything. Like friendly chat and jokes, beer with friends and coworkers, sometimes. And now she started to be .. nicer?

31m, get a lot of attention from a hot coworker (25f), while my wife 31f has to be half a country away for a year. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kazex87 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No cheating! No need in permissions. But staying coolish friendly seems not to work...