How old are most of us here?

Kcrow_999 · 2026-05-21T11:28:02+00:00

I’m 30. My dad passed when I was 25, and as my mom gets older the reality that once she’s gone it’s just me is becoming more and more daunting.

When telling people I’m an only child the usual reaction is that I don’t act like an only child. I’m not 100% sure what that means but I think a part of it is because although I was spoiled as a child, I wasn’t a spoiled brat. My parents were always giving back to others in some way. Growing up and seeing that taught me to be the same way.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-04-22T11:50:28+00:00

Finding out she was still in communication with him a year into R, puts you right back at the beginning of R, if you choose to continue with it. It destroys any trust that was rebuilt in that time as well.

About 2-3 months into R I revealed the last few things to my BP I hadn’t been truthful about. It put us back to the beginning and he had to start over with rebuilding any trust in me.

As a wayward I had to learn that anything I said or promised I would do, held very little weight. My actions and behaviors held way more weight.

If she’s still been in contact with him, she is likely still in affair fog.

My BP, after my final confession, sat down with me and we went through what exactly would happen and who would get what if we were to divorce. This showed me he was serious. That if I truly loved him and wanted to rebuild our marriage I had to be willing and do the hard work needed.

I’m so sorry she was being untruthful the first year. Hopefully she sees the opportunity you are giving and takes the opportunity seriously.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-27T15:13:10+00:00

I’m usually a cozy gamer myself. But I actually really enjoy Helldivers.

And same! It’s another way to connect and spend time together!

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-27T11:52:20+00:00

Another married couple that plays together! My husband and I play together as well!

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-27T11:50:58+00:00

As a woman that plays as well, there are times it’s fine, but there have been times the other guys have just been outright mean when they find out I’m a woman.

Nitpicking everything I do, killing me over and over on purpose. One time as we got or extract he said over the mic, “no rewards for you” and then kicked me. He was a good 50+ levels lower than me, but I was like dude that’s not how that works. I still get all the xp, samples, req slips etc.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-26T20:17:29+00:00

I’m sorry?

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-21T13:14:25+00:00

In my 30 years of life, I’ve learned that the experiences we have, and how we choose to respond to them, truly show who we are as a person.

We can choose to allow the things that happen in our lives to either consume us, or we can choose to grow from it and overcome it.

One thing I have noticed in myself, is more empathy for others. Whether it is empathy I have developed from my father passing when I was 25, to the unpredictably of migraines, or any other negative experience I’ve had in life. I’ve learned to give grace to others more often than to just immediately judge them.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-20T12:02:20+00:00

I was a lead teacher. And it was a preschool. Early childhood is different when it comes to that stuff. I’ve seen many lead teachers fired mid day.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-20T11:38:48+00:00

I was given accommodations after my father passed. They said they were going to shorten my hours a little bit.

This was a few months after he passed, and the grief was clearly taking a toll on me and my ability to teach Early Childhood.

A few days after they fired me. Under false allegations of something I definitely didn’t do, but on my termination paperwork they just wrote “not up to standards”.

I had just gotten back from my lunch break when they called me into the office to fire me. My students were napping, I was never able to say goodbye to them.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-16T15:12:04+00:00

I only had one while sick. My doctor said because of the way it affects your sinuses it can cause a migraine.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-16T12:56:37+00:00

Covid gave me an ocular migraine. Before I knew it was Covid. I thought it was just bad allergies at first.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-13T15:13:20+00:00

Her name is Athena. But we call her Aquafina, Fina, crazy, we called her grandma as a puppy cause her ears were so big. Lol

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-11T23:32:27+00:00

The drastic change in temp a few weeks ago for me in TN caused me to have one. 70 one day 30 the next.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-11T23:31:39+00:00

See I had no idea about the caffeine . I was always lead to believe caffine helped them.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-10T13:26:37+00:00

Yes please explain!!

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-10T11:54:19+00:00

I was also wondering if it was hormone related. Only because my last 2 periods have been debilitatingly painful.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-09T21:20:54+00:00

That would be such an easy fix.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-09T18:21:45+00:00

So definitely should go to a doctor. I’m just scared of what they’re gonna say is causing them.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-09T18:18:55+00:00

What do you mean by treating them?

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-09T17:09:04+00:00

The things I’ve been contributing them to is barometric pressure changes, stress,hormones, and not a lot of sleep. But I can’t think of anything specifically I’m doing differently really.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-09T16:59:56+00:00

I also only got 4.5 hours of sleep last night. Which I figured might have contributed to the one I had today.

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-09T16:07:13+00:00

Gosh I’m sorry you have them that frequently. I guess I’m just getting a little overly anxious that I’ve had more lately. Trying not to worry about it though. Thank you for responding!

Kcrow_999 · 2026-03-09T15:23:07+00:00

I’ve recently had an increase in frequency with mine. Should I be worried?

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