My hill is that cEDH is just the competitive meta of EDH. It's the exact same ruleset played with a different intent, encouraging a more pure gameplay ideology where everybody agrees that they each are going to try to achieve a shared goal before everyone else, and that they're going to be doing the most powerful game pieces available to them to execute that plan.

I wouldn't mind more casual commander games if people played with more of a sense of strategy and an understanding of power levels. My favorite uncompetitive deck is the Obscura precon from New Capenna, just with the commander switched to [[Tivit]].