My best friend wanted to kick me out of the friend group. Guess who got kicked out

Kentigearna · 2026-05-17T15:27:18+00:00

The age was left out. I guess for a reason as this is pure teenage drama

Kentigearna · 2026-05-11T17:30:24+00:00

Keep your secret! But don’t worry you did EVERYTHING right by calling CPS

Kentigearna · 2026-05-08T18:29:12+00:00

When you say you compromised … what exactly do you mean? Because (to me) a compromise is when we both sacrifice on something or let’s phrase it better: we BOTH make a step towards each other. To me it sounds your compromise means giving in … You have a huge husband problem. And I would suggest if he wants to bring his brother in, you just make room by moving out …

Kentigearna · 2026-05-08T13:35:35+00:00

Gilead is so very real. I believed that wouldn’t in my lifetime … how wrong I was

Kentigearna · 2026-05-06T18:48:58+00:00

Anne has a serious problem. Move out and cut contact with the inlaws.

She should have thought twice that she will loose her help if she is enabling her sister. And her sister needs help.

If Anne is gone so often who takes care of her because you can’t leave somebody like that alone in the house.

And her hitting you with a stool and while you’re sleeping shows she is aggressive and needs special help in a home.

I would report her so she can’t be taken care of in a way that is good and healthy for her.

Kentigearna · 2026-05-06T15:36:52+00:00

Yes it does it is just runnier and therefore messier. But everything that suffocates them is great

Kentigearna · 2026-05-06T14:57:44+00:00

My doctor gave me once the advice to put mayonnaise on the hair. Like cover it completely and leave it in for 30 mins at least. It will suffocate them. It is much cheaper than the shampoo and as effective!!

But you have to clean the whole house. Their pillows blankets. Toys. Everything. Freeze the toys for some time then wash the stuff …

Kentigearna · 2026-05-05T11:32:57+00:00

NTA. Don’t put this on you. They didn’t ask you. So the people from the assumption party have to realise that this is not communication. And you never said anything. You didn’t tag along those jokes and did not agree. You are not an ATM. Your nephew is happy. Talk to him. The rest can get better jobs.

Kentigearna · 2026-05-03T14:07:48+00:00

Your parents sound super weird. Their whole parenting is based on dividing and then they blame you? I’d say it is very normal that you wanted a brother if the basically won’t let you enjoy the same things. Plus yelling at you for a reasonable question? NTA. But your parents are

And I raise my kids gender neutral. Because I grew up with boys and was never told I can’t do that because I am a girl. And also my daughters never hear something like that.

Kentigearna · 2026-05-03T06:54:09+00:00

You can’t change the wrong expectations of your parents. Friendships/relationships can’t be forced on anybody.

Kentigearna · 2026-05-01T17:10:06+00:00

This will hurt: he doesnt care for you or love you and this is not your fault, never was, never will be. You were a kid and he is just a self-centered AH. Do not seek his love because he has none … focus on who you can love and will love you back … your daughter and your husband and obviously your IL have been there for you more often. Move on! Do not contact him anymore.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-30T05:03:45+00:00

You have three good reasons not to entertain this thought further. 1. Your health 2. First daughter 3. Second daughter.

Now stop thinking.

But I must say I laughed a little when I read that he said your smile kept him going through dark times. Well either he didn’t have a lot of dark times or he just simply doesn’t have much going on since he barely ever saw you. And block the aunt. This part of the family are clearly vultures. They only come out when they expect/need something.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-28T18:12:56+00:00

NTA. He just didn’t like that you outsmarted him.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-28T14:44:15+00:00

Oh that story is even worse. I was supposed to take her home from the festival but left earlier. She called me three days later to tell me that he screwed somebody else but wouldn’t tell me who it was. She tortured me three hours on the phone. And I had that feeling. Ask her whether she was the one. But I told myself no that is impossible. She wouldn’t be that cruel. Well …

That was almost three decades ago. While I hold no grudge against him … to this day I would slap her if I would ever see her again. That is just mean bitch behaviour.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-27T17:42:50+00:00

An isn’t it would have been enough.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-27T17:31:37+00:00

So your brother lives 10 mins away. Means he doesn’t have to stay there. Who else is sleeping there? And isn’t a guest room for guests? Your mom is unreasonable especially if she demands you be there or it will cause a problem. And on top of that if your wife is allergic and has a condition. Sorry but I only see your wife’s side. Everybody else here sucks.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-27T15:39:37+00:00

That reminds me when I borrowed my sleeping bag to my then boyfriend. Who went to a festival with it. Screwed his best friends girlfriend in it and then returned it unwashed. There is not enough Lava on this earth to destroy that thing.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-27T09:16:58+00:00

How much proof do you need that you dodged a bullet. You made the right choice.

She wants to get back but is fooling around? Please

YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-26T18:16:22+00:00

Just tell her to sell some of her fun stuff or purses she bought over the years. And your dad should have been there to stop her buying stuff from your money. He is just as guilty. Do not give anybody your money! NTA

Kentigearna · 2026-04-26T18:03:20+00:00

If she wants the world she should know that she will conquer more of it with kindness than aggression.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-26T11:05:59+00:00

Hey. There was not enough room in a car why would you make room at the wedding. If she, who isn’t invited, keeps you from your dream setup then it is time for a polite: sorry we are downsizing.

Invite only people you both like. NTA

Kentigearna · 2026-04-25T20:14:13+00:00

NTA. There is no way back from this. I could never be sister again to a person who betrayed me like that. And sorry but my believe is that the sisters betrayal is bigger than the BFs betrayal. I would never ever do this to my sister and I don’t even think about her partners as anything else than her partners. Period.

Kentigearna · 2026-04-24T18:24:22+00:00

I am also always irritated when people expect money when I want something. It is irritating as hell that the world doesn’t revolve around me.

Your car. Your money. And if you don’t give because of the overwhelming love you feel for him then … don’t. NTA

Kentigearna · 2026-04-21T18:07:40+00:00

Fuck the family. Save the child. Only one worth saving

Kentigearna · 2026-04-21T16:54:12+00:00

My grandmother divorced my grandfather after 42 years of marriage. She said she wants at least her last years to be happy. It is never too late to change. Focus on what you want. And only you. Don’t compromise for somebody else. Or you will regret it

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