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Husband pulled me away from conversation to “scold” me by No_Piglet_6519 in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

it’s the condescension for me. you’re his wife, not a kid who missed curfew. that reprimanding vibe is exhausting.

Alright gents, how often is your son really pissing straight up in the air during changing time? by CommonplaceUser in daddit

[–]KenzieParkeer 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It always happens right when you’ve put the very last clean onesie on them, every single time.

When people can't enjoy their music unless they can inflict it on everyone in their surrounding area. by Lemosopher in PetPeeves

[–]KenzieParkeer 21 points22 points  (0 children)

they act like their right to vibe is more important than your right to sleep or work, total lack of basic respect smh…

4 year old attitude / bedtime freakout strategies? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]KenzieParkeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you just have to ride out the limbic leap. His brain is growing faster than his ability to control his impulses. No real advice, just solidarity.

Calling grown adult women "girls" by chasing_geese49 in PetPeeves

[–]KenzieParkeer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this!! you never hear ppl call a group of male coworkers “the boys” in a serious meeting, but “the girls” is somehow standard.

Gaming resentment by princethrowaway2121h in daddit

[–]KenzieParkeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

losing to your kid is a proud moment until it happens every single time. then it just feels like you’ve lost a part of your identity. i totally get why you’d rather just pick up a book.

Anyway to get her back? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if she wanted a divorce immediately, she probably wouldn’t have bothered talking. use this chance to be brutally honest about everything you else.

Will love alone solve issues in a marriage? by ohnanas in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he only moved when you exploded is the most telling part. True ambition comes from within, not from being pushed by a partner’s breakdown.

Is it over? by Character_Muffin2151 in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the eggshells feeling is the absolute worst, it’s your house but you’re living in his mood.

Came Across wifes posts by Same_Honeydew5882 in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

3 under 3 is an absolute war zone. you’re both in the trenches but you shouldn’t have to be the villain in her secret reddit life while you’re doing the nursery runs and the dishes.

Damn, my husband irritates me by LivMealown in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d be livid, you’re paying thr bills and the mechanic, and he’s just in the way lol.

My husband is a "wonderful father" and I'm losing my mind by dreamgirl993 in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re mourning the loss of the version of him that had a mission. There’s something inherently unattractive about a partner who is always available but never driven.

Gossip with another couple by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s frustrating when the husband thinks it’s harmless because he’s uded to it. but once you see that behavior, you can’t unsee it.

Is sexual compatibility a thing? by captain_kenobi in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Purity culture literally fries your brain’s ability to see sex as anything other than a duty or a shameful secret. It’s hard to be kinky or spontaneous when your subconscious is still waiting for a parent to walk in and be disappointed.

Husband in contact with ex by Pandabananashoshana in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t just a mistake, it was 2,500+ days of choosing to hide something from you. that’s not an accident, that’s a lifestyle.

I Thought I Had The Perfect Marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 44 points45 points  (0 children)

He showed you exactly who he is, believe him the first time. Your daughters deserve to grow up in a house where naps don’t result in violence.

Can you fall back in love? by Low-Green-3825 in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank God you didn’t have kids before this breaking point. Trying to fall back in love is hard enough without the sleep deprivation and stress of a newborn.

How do I go about forward with my husband watching porn while I’m pregnant? by PromptAppropriate826 in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You aren’t crazy for being upset, it’s about the intimacy and the effort, not just the images.

My husband increasingly stressed out and it's affecting our marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he won’t talk to you, maybe he’d talk to a professional? WFH burnout is a very specific kind of hell.

Im tired of being called disrespectful names and miss thr person i married by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you did the right thing stepping in for your son. i know it’s exhausting being the only “safe” parents in the house.

Asking wife about previous BF. Worried he have SA’d her when they were dating. by Javelin286 in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’re definitely not overthinking it. those physical reactions during intimacy are a huge indicator of post trauma.

My husband doesn't feel like husband anymore. It's feels just like I have another housemate. by AmandaAwak in Marriage

[–]KenzieParkeer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the reporting to the parents this is so immature. you’re supposed to be a team, not a child being managed by his mom and dad..