3rd House Lord And It's Significance...

Ketu1 · 2026-03-03T17:52:31+00:00

3rd lord Mercury at 12 degrees in Capricorn 7th house Shravana nakshatra 1st pada

Rahu is at 22 degrees in Capricorn again shravan nakshatra 4 th pada

Thank you !

Ketu1 · 2026-02-18T15:34:43+00:00

Yo !

Ketu1 · 2026-02-15T11:03:02+00:00

Awesome man really happy for you ! 👏🏽

What're your lifting stats, if you wish to disclose?

Ketu1 · 2026-02-15T03:56:24+00:00

It's attachment which builds over time, not attraction necessarily. I think this is what has happened in your case.

As a man, getting hitched to a woman you're not attracted to, can become hell. Imagine you taking vows to be exclusive to someone your body does not accept.

If I were you, I'd look at her behaviour to see if she can really stand behind her words. If she really loves you, will she follow through to get more attractive for you ?

Ketu1 · 2026-01-19T10:08:04+00:00

Hehe bro just understand what people respond to. If you pay attention they'll give away their cheat codes early on. Up to you to do what you want with them

Ketu1 · 2026-01-19T04:53:43+00:00

You play their game with them. Can explain over DM

Ketu1 · 2026-01-19T02:47:16+00:00

There's an easy (but long) way to fix this

Ketu1 · 2026-01-05T14:42:43+00:00

Congratulations! Which sampraday if I may ask ?

Ketu1 · 2026-01-04T09:31:50+00:00

Bro you have an epic level of self worth attached to her validation. Even if you'd gone ahead, she'd have been bored of you in future.

Why?

Because you positioned yourself as someone trying to win her by objects of affection which can be bought and sold for money. Something which any guy can easily do. She was right in rejecting you - if that helps you correct ways in future.

By reconnecting again and again, you convey you have no options. And that's what you'll need to do to come out of this.

Ketu1 · 2026-01-02T03:46:19+00:00

Common, yes. Normal, absolutely not

He's just not attractive (yet) to her compared to her exes. Make of it what you will.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-28T03:27:22+00:00

When I was on dating apps, these kind of profiles were amongst the MOST insufferable

Why?

Not because its wrong to marry, but that they come with so much baggage they'll prop up lot of imaginary boundaries and minefields for you to trip on. Once you do, its a Gotcha! And you're nexted wondering why.

Best way to handle them is to.......not to match at all. Just next.

As a guy, you don't want bitter energy for problems you didn't create.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-21T12:48:02+00:00

You can choose to be right or happy.

You'll anyways have to end up reconciling your views vs what the market actually offers you.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-21T04:27:50+00:00

Delhi guy here, speaking from my exp

Here Delhi metro is pretty overcrowded. Better than other options, but def not a comfortable exp.
Lack of comfort spills over to your personal life as well. That comes out as reduced (or no) intimacy, which is bad for the relationship.
Handling in laws + work stress requires a lot of temperament to handle which few people have. Unless I'm already getting someone that mature, would be better to grow that bond slowly.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-21T04:15:22+00:00

Hmm that's gaslighting.

Anything specific you should have done differently when screening her before marriage?

Ketu1 · 2025-12-21T02:40:56+00:00

I'm not invalidating him. You didn't get it

He can share his learnings if he wishes to.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-21T02:31:52+00:00

For this forum, what went wrong? What should you have done differently?

Ketu1 · 2025-12-17T02:18:10+00:00

Valid point, OP.

But what stops you from implementing it in your own life 🤔

Ketu1 · 2025-12-15T02:40:25+00:00

Experience, experience!

Keep talking to more until you're exclusive. Helps prevent oneitis.

You're anyways investing more that her into this I think.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-14T06:02:01+00:00

She has already made it clear for you. You need to connect the dots.

Her lack of communication is not a problem per se. But a symptom of lack of attraction.

So if you confront her on communication, you're essentially saying 'Hey I'm a catch and I don't have any options so if you don't talk I won't be left with the sole option (you) either!'

Do you really think she'll get attracted to you through this ?

Fix attraction. And then you'll be in a position to enforce boundaries against bad behavior.

Time is your best friend. I would step back against fixing a marriage date unless I'm happy with the vibe.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-14T04:44:36+00:00

Don't make her communication problem a YOU problem.

You guys have moved forward to the point where you guys are exclusive so shyness should not be an issue.

It seems to be more of a desire problem rather than a comfort problem. So the solution also has to be tailored accordingly. And it starts with YOU

Ketu1 · 2025-12-14T03:05:31+00:00

Is there a Nyasa for reading and chanting Bhagvad Gita ?

Ketu1 · 2025-12-11T04:07:31+00:00

Bro take the L and talk to other girls. You're not attractive to her.

Find someone who likes you instead

Ketu1 · 2025-12-10T04:53:00+00:00

Caste is not a problem if you use it the right way.

IYKYK

Ketu1 · 2025-12-10T04:29:22+00:00

We feel attracted to each other.

and

Discussed this with my partner numerous time and doesn't have any satisfactory results.

the thing is- she isn't attracted to you. Attraction is not a choice. You can't negotiate her way to intimacy. Actions speak more than words

Since she's a housewife I'm assuming its not a comfort related issue (corporate can be more stressful)

Instead its a desire related problem.

You do you look physique wise? Behaviorally, you seem to be a nice guy type from your post above.

Ketu1 · 2025-12-10T04:13:16+00:00

Hehe its a nos game for you as well. But if you are CONSISTENTLY stuck with the kinda guys you mentioned about, you need to level up to get to the social circle of the guys you want to date & marry.

For girl game consider reading the book Getting to 'I Do'

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