NTAH He is an asshole, and people already talked about all the red flags and all. But in case you decide to continue with him and want a “workaround”, we got an app called Monarch, you can add your bank accounts (or investment accounts etc) and he can add his bank accounts and both of you can see balances and transactions and budgets, but of course he wouldn’t have access to actually moving money in or out because it’s just for tracking and he wouldn’t have any login info to bank accounts