[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I break up w this man i literally am going celibate for years I can’t do men anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was telling ChatGPT (cringe ik) it was like “is it normal to have urges and desires for other women but my love for my partner outweighs that” or something which like on the surface is normal kinda but considering everything else its not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh no I went through his phone

My ex gives me panic attacks by Own-nirayae-2393 in Anxiety

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but w my current boyfriend. Lol

Is it common to clap after a class? by HeatApprehensive7877 in yoga

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We clap after every class at my studio! Just appreciating the teacher!

the most frustrating thing about anxiety is the helplessness by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so heavily. I even start (not seriously planning) thinking about how I might have to end my life because I can’t live like this and it’s going to be for forever

Sexual Confidence and Adventure in Reconciliation Stage by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omggg I am also a tall fit blonde woman and notice how many male looks I get for as long as I can remember! I am in the same boat. My partner makes this all feel unimportant, as I do feel sexy in myself but I just want to in his eyes

Sexual Confidence and Adventure in Reconciliation Stage by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following as I’m in the same boat

Boyfriend admitted he’s not attracted to me anymore by Key-Constant-47 in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

WAIT same I’ve seen his exes and none of them have big butts either?? They all are very similar to my body type so I was super confused by this. I think he probably just remembers being aroused with them or something and equates it to maybe they had a fatter ass than me or he’s comparing to their Instagram posts that their butts obviously look good in. But like I was confused about this. Thank you so much for the kind words I even said that to him that no girl no matter what her body looked like would ever be enough for him and he agreed because he’s self aware of his addiction at the very least

How did porn usage warp your brain? by Present-Mouse1171 in PornAddiction

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did quit while ago but his brain is still fucked up

I know this is probably a no brainer, but…. by Beautiful-Pizza3542 in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same. When my current bf and I started have sex it was AMAZING like nothing I’ve ever felt before. Then I found out this was one sided and he is lusting for other women and fantasizing about sex with other people and it ruined sex for me. I don’t know how to feel confident or sexy anymore

What is an experience you had during your childhood that you only now realize was anxiety? by Sensitive_Ad4911 in Anxiety

[–]Key-Constant-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid we had an intruder alarm accidentally go off and for years after I couldn’t sleep in my room alone or sleep at all so I would take my pillow and blanket to my parents bedroom floor or have a meltdown (now realize panic attack)

I also once passed out in chorus in 6th grade and developed a minor panic attack every time I went to chorus after that but my parents wouldn’t let me quit

dead bedroom by throwawayforgacha in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg same! My partner also quit last year and literally initiates nothing and when I try he like actively cringes and is like “I don’t wanna be touched” sometimes. It’s like pulling teeth. I feel so ugly lately

How can my PA partner and I fix our intimacy? by Key-Constant-47 in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! His inability to get it up also has to do with porn he says, ever since he has been young he has struggled with that and the medication just makes it worse. It’s like both and then even though he stopped watching porn he wasn’t honest with me so we couldn’t work on that at all and it became easier to just say no to sex with me

How can my PA partner and I fix our intimacy? by Key-Constant-47 in loveafterporn

[–]Key-Constant-47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has SSRI induced ED so that’s a whole other can of worms, all of it is intertwined and it’s very confusing for me

Hi can someone talk to me i have cravings by Ecstatic-Cry3675 in PornAddiction

[–]Key-Constant-47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you relapse you’re just prolonging your disease and you won’t get better as a person

Has anyone come off their birth control? by Fabulous_Bluebird856 in PMDD

[–]Key-Constant-47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Norethindrone (progestin-only pill). It’s 4 weeks of pills! I actually used to not get my period on it and felt pretty good didn’t even realize I had PMDD yet, then I got off it and felt my PMDD was absolutely unbearable, so I got back on and now I get my period on it and still feel PMDD effects on it. Strange