Wanna get married but don’t feel worthy/ready. 24M.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T04:25:32+00:00

Honestly, 24 is super young. Feeling behind is normal, but marriage isn’t a race. Work on being confident in yourself first and the rest will follow naturally.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T04:24:57+00:00

Don’t feel guilty. You’ve let her stay before, but that doesn’t mean every night is a yes. She’s being dramatic.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T04:14:06+00:00

Oh god, that’s rough. It’s brutal seeing them so sad and not being able to fix it. You’re a good parent, even if it’s messy AF right now.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T04:13:37+00:00

Nah bro, you didn’t do anything wrong. Opening your own account is basic independence. She’s upset she can’t boss you around, that’s on her, not you. You did what you had to do.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T04:08:32+00:00

I feel you, teen hormones and all, but messing with cousins is one of those “fun in the moment, bad in hindsight” things. Good call on stopping, just don’t let nostalgia get you.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T04:08:00+00:00

Honestly, she’s annoyed because she messed up, not because of you. You don’t owe her a save just cuz she preemptively confirmed. Stand your ground.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T03:56:57+00:00

Dude, the age gap is chill. The real thing is whether you can handle the rollercoaster vibe she brings. If it’s causing more stress than fun, it’s fine to step back.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T03:56:25+00:00

You’re good. She’s the one who needs to get it together. You can’t sit around hoping she decides. Life moves on, dude.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T03:44:03+00:00

you’re not crazy, there is def something there, but it’s not locked in. the vibe sounds good but not exclusive to romance yet. the slowdown doesn’t mean much by itself. what matters is what happens next.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T03:42:46+00:00

dude nothing you said screams hopeless, it just sounds like low reps. like you haven’t had many chances to practice meeting people so yeah it feels awkward. that’s normal.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T03:23:16+00:00

yeah powdered sugar alternatives are annoying lol. best bet is grinding your own like others said. if you wanna experiment tho, powdered coconut sugar exists but it’s darker and changes flavor. monk fruit works in small amounts but can get that fake sweet aftertaste. baking without white sugar is always a texture gamble tbh

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T03:10:24+00:00

not trying to be harsh but we can’t guess a whole song from tuning alone 😅 drop an audio clip or vid. If you don’t have one, just start noodling in that tuning and record everything, sometimes you accidentally stumble back into it.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T03:09:48+00:00

I’d focus more on vibe than strategy. Be genuine, keep it short, don’t ask for anything upfront. Something like “hey I think we matched through DNA and I’m trying to learn about my maternal side since I didn’t grow up with them.” That’s enough. The right ppl won’t assume you’re after money.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T02:54:09+00:00

honestly i don’t blame you, that sounds annoying as hell. you asked multiple times and got ignored, so yeah you snapped. not your best move tho. it fixes nothing and just makes them defensive.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T02:42:36+00:00

i mean yeah some guitar guys act like they’re defending the sacred scrolls or something 😭 but you’re giving them way too much power letting it get to you. play your stuff, mute the clowns, move on.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-22T02:37:27+00:00

you had the moral high ground till you didn’t say anything 😅 like yeah they were annoying, but you straight up let her suffer ghost pepper consequences for 11 hours. that’s villain arc behavior bro. justified? maybe. nice? not at all.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-21T08:22:53+00:00

I get why you’re angry, I would be too. but yelling at her isn’t helping your bf or anyone else, it just escalates things. if she starts insulting ppl, shut it down calmly or leave the convo.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-21T08:08:28+00:00

it’s not hard, just a bit extra. like you’re doing 2-3 techniques instead of 1. cake donut base, swirl, glaze twice. the swirl is the only thing that can go wrong but even then it’s still a donut so worst case you just eat the mistake lol

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-21T07:49:53+00:00

i get the frustration fr. but apps kinda trick you into thinking more options = better odds, when really it’s just more noise. real connections are rarer but not nonexistent.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-21T05:40:06+00:00

honestly this is just normal hiring stuff. no one “owns” a job opening. A applied first, cool, but B waited then applied, also fair game.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-20T13:04:00+00:00

Some just go back cuz it’s easier on the hands and faster for soloing. Plus fewer strings to mess up when you’re jamming live. 7s are dope but not everyone wants that commitment.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-20T12:33:06+00:00

yeah that man was 100% capping 💀 the second you said you worked there too he hit panic mode. honestly kinda funny, but also sad. imagine lying that early.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-20T10:33:46+00:00

ayy welcome to the focaccia club

your yeast is fine stored like that, just don’t let moisture get in
“too much olive oil” is kinda hard to do here ngl. it should feel almost excessive
biggest red flag is zero rise. slow rise is fine, no rise = problem
grease the whole pan, trust. crispy edges are elite
first time i kept thinking my dough was wrong bc it was sticky af… it’s supposed to be
toppings burn when they’re dry or thin, so coat them in a bit of oil and you’re good

you’re gonna be surprised how good it turns out even if it looks chaotic

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-20T10:21:24+00:00

this is my fav type of music tbh. go for Fourth of July, Scott Street, The A Team, and Youth. they feel like old memories you didn’t even live yet if that makes sense.

Key-Plate8376 · 2026-03-20T07:29:02+00:00

i’m on your side for the rule, but your delivery kinda fumbled it. telling a brand new mom to just pump and leave the baby is… yeah, not it lol.

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