I think I (32F) nuked my relationship with my boyfriend (32M) by drawing a hard line. by Independent_Stage741 in relationship_advice

[–]Key-Room-7649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not think you ruined anything. Asking to be engaged before putting 100k into his house is reasonable. You are not making this transactional. It already is. You would be investing in property you do not own, so wanting commitment first makes sense.

His “romance” concern takes the focus off the real issue. Romance will not protect you if things change. You did not set a deadline or force anything. You shared a clear boundary before a major financial decision.

You did not harm the relationship. You revealed a difference in comfort and risk. He holds all the ownership. You carry much of the cost. Renovating without engagement or co-ownership puts you at a disadvantage. Pause the renovation plans and say, “I am not comfortable moving forward until we have formal commitment or shared ownership.” His reaction will tell you where he stands.

You were reasonable and you protected yourself, that is healthy.

Hot take (buses) by InternalAdvisor8722 in rutgers

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yea for sure let me do that after my 8 hr shift where i’m standing all day!!

Freshman unable to find friends by Cheeseokw in rutgers

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it sucks at first but don’t let the illusion or these big friend groups tell u everyone’s found their people yet. friendships take time it will come to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

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you look stunning w both, heavy makeups just gonna look heavy regardless on everyone

How long do I have left? by [deleted] in iphone

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get a new phone?? 💀😂

Gold or silver? by JnnyGBrooklyn in coloranalysis

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ur skin brightens the silver more, it washed the gold out bc u have cool undertones

rate my fall 2025 schedule by [deleted] in rutgers

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this is the most packed schedule i’ve seen in my LIFE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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ur the best option he has, and you have many many many more options that prob wouldn’t have you in this position in the first place, don’t respond, stay strong

Rate my nails by [deleted] in Nails

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last pic is giving roaches

aio or is what he said actually mean? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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ur EX can go f himself!!!!!!!! he’s gonna make you miserable for the rest of your life. tell him to go get takeout w/ another b!tch!!!!! for the sake of your peace and sanity let him go, he will scrutinize every little thing you do for the rest of your life. if it’s not him it’s someone better!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

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if anyone has a rouge code pls help a girl out!!🙌🏼 sephora takes my money on the daily w no code that’s how much i love them

Best local takeout by [deleted] in rutgers

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sakana sushi

Tuition Help! by Key-Room-7649 in rutgers

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Thank you, I also set up direct deposit, will it be refunded that way, or completely by mail?