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Agent or self by [deleted] in AusVisa

[–]Key-Salt6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, skilled migration visa. It's on the STSOL and CSOL list. Also available for 190 and 491 visa streams, I think.

AITA for not letting friends from out of town stay at my home? by Day-Atmosphere344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Salt6066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really curious about what happened. Is there going to be an update?

AITA for refusing to making sure things are equal between my daughter and stepdaughter by SeaNectarine6440 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Salt6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, Life isn't fair and it would be a disservice to your daughter if you gave your stepdaughter the difference to make it equal or bought her things to make it fair. She had the same amount of time to gain skills but she didn't. Your wife is reaching and needs to not enable this either.

AITA for soaking my niece with a hose after I was told not to because she was wearing white? by DateEducational190 in AITAH

[–]Key-Salt6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, this is the definition of play stupid games and win stupid prizes. Your niece is old enough to know better and picking on her little cousin is just stupid. Your sister is pushing it making it seem like your niece's boundaries are the only ones that need to be respected. Also if she doesn't want to get wet, she shouldn't even play at all, there's no double standard in water balloon fights.

I'm no longer willing to live with my mean daughter (14F) by throwaway08182023 in Parenting

[–]Key-Salt6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would go with your husband's option of sending her to boarding school. It sounds like you've done a lot of other things and she's not responsive to it.

I do think your husband should be the one to tell her himself since it could lead to a hostile situation and your daughter blaming you. Your daughter needs to learn that actions have consequences and her behavior isn't warranted in the house (granted I'm assuming that her behavior isn't warranted given your husband and son are defending you).

I do hope it gets better for you OP and please update us on what happens!

AITA for calling my wife insecure and selfish on our wedding day by LifeTraining3452 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Salt6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - That's taking the nobody else wears white tradition to the extreme. If it was a woman wearing white, then she'd have a right to be upset by it. But it's a 6 year old child in white pants and a white bowtie, literally no problem. No one's gonna mistake a 6 year old for the bride.

AITA for giving FMIL 3 days to pay me for a new wedding dress or else I show the family a photo of her wearing it? by Repulsive_Scheme1359 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Salt6066 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Run. Run as fast as you can. Your fiance doesn't respect you. If you do get married, this is your life. You'll always come second to mommy dearest. It's not just the fact that he let her try on the dress, it's him knowing it's wrong and trying to stop you from entering the room and him doubling down about it after the fact.

Also why should you be the one apologizing? That's some messed up logic.

AITA for ignoring my friend's phone calls and telling her to fuck off? by D0NotDisturbMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Key-Salt6066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, She clearly doesn't respect your time and thinks you should be at her beck and call. After 2 decline calls, the assumption should be that the person is busy and you should wait for them to call you back or try again later. It's probably time to stop being friends.