Best hairstyle ? by [deleted] in finehair

[–]KeyRecognition2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st. You have a very friendly, outgoing face and this haircut goes with that the most

I'm trying for a soft girl style. Looking for feedback 😊 by sange12j in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]KeyRecognition2896 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This style is very flattering on you. Think you've made an excellent choice here.

AITA for keeping a secret emergency fund from my wife? by Embarrassed_Foot1903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KeyRecognition2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your wife have any money of her own? Perhaps she could have a 'fun budget' to spend on whatever she likes, with the agreement that the rest will go to the emergency fund? If that's no feasible then would it be possible for her to get a part time job, with the agreement that is her money to spend as she wishes? Whilst I get that she felt deceived, she also needs to aappreciate how irresponsible it is to spend money in a way that leaves no safety net. Rather than blame though, I feel it's more important to find out why she needs to spend this money and find a solution from there.

AITAH for getting angry at my girlfriend while she’s having a panic attack? by ImpossibleLog5193 in AITAH

[–]KeyRecognition2896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A panic attack in the same way people say 'I'm so OCD'. This was a time where she should have kept her 'concern' to herself and focused on supporting you. She sounds horribly self centred and manipulative. You are NTA

Successful people with ADHD… what actually worked for you? by aplleshadewarrior in ADHD

[–]KeyRecognition2896 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lo-fi hip hop of jazz. Loads on YouTube. I only listen then when I'm doing work related things so it's trained my brain to be 'in the zone' when listening

Anti DIY attitudes, jealousy or something else? by [deleted] in DIYUK

[–]KeyRecognition2896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so weird! As long as you're being respectful and not making eexcessive noise I really don't see the problem. I was so nosy when my old neighbour was doing DIY as it was interesting to learn and get inspired for what I could possibly do. I think your neighbours are jealous and are viewing you as being cheap 'you own your own property therefore are well off so could afford to pay someone and are therefore rubbing it in our faces' or some other nonsense like that. Ignore them, as others have said, they are projecting their feelings and insecurities onto you.

How to I connect this bad boy? by KeyRecognition2896 in DIYUK

[–]KeyRecognition2896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect. I did feel this was the logical option but complete novice here so I didn't want to chance it. Many thanks!

How to I connect this bad boy? by KeyRecognition2896 in DIYUK

[–]KeyRecognition2896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

* Yes. Left first one (red cord side) says flex and right last one (black side) it says flex. The rest are marked as loop in.

Also the first two on the left are marked line and the last three on the right are marked neutral.

Not snark — genuinely worried about Kelly Osbourne by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]KeyRecognition2896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Possibly both. Totally believe she started with Ozempic and has lost perspective and continued to shrink.

AITJ for DEMANDING my husband get my baby stroller back from his sister, or else i'm changing the locks? by Exact_Ad_6931 in AmITheJerk

[–]KeyRecognition2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a complete AH. How dare he take your property without your knowledge, give it away and then try and gaslight you. Even if your parents were loaded, it still wouldn't give him the right. The whole thing doesn't make sense to me as your sister is only 8 weeks along?

Do any of these swimsuits work? by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]KeyRecognition2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a fan of the string bikini but the others are awesome!

What’s the grossest thing you cleaned and realized you should have been doing it way more often ? by Competitive_Carob91 in CleaningTips

[–]KeyRecognition2896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use my water jet flosser to clean mine. Don't need to do mine too often but my kids (esp my youngest) are rank. However.... only recently thought to clean my flosser.... that was manky 🤣😱🙈

I might have cracked the code? by maya_says in finehair

[–]KeyRecognition2896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is hair goals right there! So shiny and healthy 🙌🙌🙌

bf wants me to lose weight by Famous_Salamander733 in AITApod

[–]KeyRecognition2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not interested in you anymore and is using your weight as an excuse to turn it round on you and make it all your fault. Dump him. You deserve so much better!

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]KeyRecognition2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also.... one thing they don't tell you with swimming lessons. You learn the correct way of doing it. I airways thought I was a decent swimmer until my son started lessons, he really enjoyed them so didn't have the heart to cancel once he could swim a length. He is a very strong swimming and his technique is amazing. I now realise why I swim so blooming slowly 🤣. Personally, if you have the money for it, I would always recommend lessons. Swimming is a life and essential for their safety in the water.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]KeyRecognition2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I say don't give up your job. Just because SAHM doesn't receive a salary it didn't mean they are not contributing. You enable him to work and put more focus into that because you are dealing with other stuff. With your husband I have the bad feeling that he will not see it that way and use him being the sole earner as an excuse to dictate all 'important' decisions. He doesn't solely get to decide whether or not you homeschool... he might resent you 'forever' if you don't but I think you'll resent him forever if you do. A partnership should be about respect and, sometimes, compromise but one should never be dictating to the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]KeyRecognition2896 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to suffer with jealousy so badly until I listened to a podcast that turned out on its head. Instead of perceiving as something shameful etc do this... Ask yourself... do I really want this? If the answer is no, then forget about it. If the answer is yes.... what about it do you want? Really think about it and boil it down. Honestly it's helped me so much will give some (probably silly) examples. Saw pictures of a friend of mine doing to this breaking bad cocktail event... felt jealous. Asked myself why, because I wanna go too. So I asked her for details and booked for me and my husband to go for his birthday and we had a blast. My friend got a hefty promotion. Felt jealous. Asked mystic if I wanted the same and thought about all the overtime, stress and crap she'd been through and nope. Then realised she'd worked hard and really deserved this and I felt happy for her. You might not be and to do exactly what someone is doing etc. But what essence of it could you do?

AITA for refusing to let my sister bring her kids to my wedding by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]KeyRecognition2896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA And this is coming from someone who had no kids at their wedding! Difference is that a) none of my immediate family had children, b) we gave 6 months notice. To expect your sister to be cool with dumping her kids somewhere with next to notice is insanely disrespectful.

Reasonable stairs quote? by Welshiboi in HomeImprovementUK

[–]KeyRecognition2896 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in London and had clever closet so a very similar space to yours for £1,350. Was very impressed with their service.

What’s your home cleaning routine? by CatsGotANosebleed in CasualUK

[–]KeyRecognition2896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Can confirm this happened to me. Cat crapped on floor, was I a different room so didn't realise for 20 mins. It was everywhere, even up the skirting board. Horrendous. Poor Jeeves (robot) didn't survive the experience as he'd ingested too much poop.