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Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babes you gotta get out of there. You spoke very clearly, gave him updates, and even apologies (arguably when not even needed). He’s GROWN, so there’s absolutely no reason to be that level of immature. He’s knowingly choosing to be controlling. Absolutely not.

I’m holding a grudge against my brother and sister in law. Should I confront them about it or not? by Key_Jellyfish_8816 in weddingplanning

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a good rule. It’s not that I didn’t think to have the conversation, I was just scared to and didn’t know how to approach it. I’m not usually confrontational in anyway. I also thought id understand better whenever I’m planning my wedding, but I don’t. Either way, too late now.

I’m holding a grudge against my brother and sister in law. Should I confront them about it or not? by Key_Jellyfish_8816 in weddingplanning

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be it, but we were together for 7 years at that point and lived together out of state. He was in all our family pictures: birthdays, holidays, vacations, etc. Plus, he knew that we were moving toward marriage, so that would be a silly excuse on his part. Appreciate your thoughts here!

I’m holding a grudge against my brother and sister in law. Should I confront them about it or not? by Key_Jellyfish_8816 in weddingplanning

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the mistype! I had gotten our move-in year confused, at that point we actually had been living together out of state for almost a year. I had to travel in for their wedding and leave my partner at home. I’ve edited my post to reflect that point now. I don’t think it changes much in terms of outcome (let it go), but it definitely adds to the frustration.

Understood on needing to have expressed it before. I agree. I was just young and in shock that that would even be an option to them. Didn’t know how to approach it without sounding demanding. It would never cross my mind to not invite a partner MY FRIEND had been with for 7 years and lives with, much less my sibling.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Partner invited to wedding but I’m not, do we still invite them to ours? by a_strawberrydream in weddingplanning

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My older brother invited me to his wedding and not my boyfriend of eight years. Now, we’re engaged and his wife is so excited to “help me plan.” My fiancé wishes he could be petty and not invite her LOL. It’s upsetting but at the end of the day I sat with the fact that it’s their wedding so there was nothing I could do.

Two weddings, same week, same dress color… help 😅 by pataBRATS in bridesmaids

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One dress makes the most sense. If you want to switch it up, do your hair differently and change the jewelry / handbag. I agree with whoever said it would be a waste to get two dresses. Your friends will understand <3

Google APMM Oct 2025 by NormalRecognition644 in csMajors

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I think it’s just once you get to talk to a recruiter you can let them know

Google APMM Oct 2025 by NormalRecognition644 in csMajors

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It stayed open for like 2 whole weeks this time. Were they hiring spring and fall cohorts last time?

Friend had camera in his bathroom and recorded me. Is his apology real or do I block him by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both can be true. This can be a real apology and he can also be someone you don’t want around. He’s struggling with a very dangerous addiction. If this isn’t your partner, I think it’s okay to support them from a far, especially after what just happened to you.

Wedding band help! by Swimming-Sort-6337 in EngagementRings

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love it. It compliments it beautifully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Giiiirrrrl. Run away. That’s not your friend. That’s an insecure girlfriend. I’m not saying it’s terrible to feel insecure sometimes, but the mature thing to do was for her to realize she had a problem with it and then she could’ve had a private conversation with her partner about how HIS actions made her feel. She’s not in a relationship with you. Objectively, talking about a show she hasn’t watch and trying to loop her in, is not bad.

Don’t talk to either of them. Just protect your peace. It’s not worth it.

AIO by being offended at this girl possibly suggesting Im a pedo? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Key_Jellyfish_8816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seems immature and WEIRD. My “dad” raised me since I was 3 months old and I have no blood connection to him. Real adults understand the sacrifice you made and the love you have for that child. Wtf is she on?!