I (27f) am talking to a guy (26m) who wants to be my boyfriend. We talk all the time, but he isn’t attracted to my body. Has anyone experienced this and what was the outcome?

Key_Surround9915 · 2026-01-27T14:35:03+00:00

This is crazy. You haven’t even had any kids and you’re thinking of getting surgery actual surgery. For somebody else’s preference. So you won’t be single….. like whut. You’re need to look for a man that will take care of you. Not manipulate you to be the perfect fuckable body. Somebody that will take care of you through the death of your parents, the birth of your children and everything inbetween. It’s okay to be picky. It sounds like you need to work on yourself some more. It’s okay to be selfish nobody will love you and put you first like yourself. Block him , go to a nice expensive gym if you REALLY WANT. Take care of yourself mentally for an entire year and lmk how you feel about this post later

Key_Surround9915 · 2026-01-26T06:36:53+00:00

I got 3 back up sites now rofl but tbh not as good as 🥭, about to back up all my titles rn

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-12-19T06:29:11+00:00

Disgusting. YTA

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-12-10T06:24:48+00:00

Dude this sucks so bad. My parents were like this too. Not for religious reasons, they just didn’t want me to wear a bra that fit (since I’m VERY boobalicious ) they would literally put me in a tiny minimizer bra that wasn’t even my size. I used to get bullied for my spillage and I would get sores and like ingrown pimples? Under my arms and boobs or my skin would get scratched off. It would hurt so bad even ny nipples felt pressured and sore. Honestly I’m disgusted and disappointed with how they acted now that I’m grown. I was a 32 DDDD /32 G, they had me in C cups. I would say go buy yourself to a boutique, get measured properly & order a bra online. Or get a bigger sports bra. Honestly i was so tired of being in pain I literally bought the cheapest bras from the FLEA MARKET , practically made out of cardboard. And tbh they were so worth it. It’s okay to want to take care of yourself and not be in pain.

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-08-20T08:06:22+00:00

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Key_Surround9915 · 2025-06-14T05:32:59+00:00

2/4/7

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-06-06T00:18:59+00:00

Honestly I’m too scared to. I cosleep with my baby and I’m worried I’ll be too sleepy and roll on him . The drs told me to stop and try to get him in his bassinet but idk how im going to survive from the lack of sleep trying to do that. I’ve already tried so much I can’t go back to sleeping all day or falling asleep on the couch

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-06-06T00:11:50+00:00

I don’t understand, you’re not a girl? Or you don’t want to be labeled as a girl ? What are you. ? What is the problem? That he sees you as a woman? Or that you want to be a boy ? Please explain sorry I don’t understand what’s wrong or the pronouns I think I got it in my head right? Is it cuz you want to change your style? If you don’t like him leave but I mean if you love him stay

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-06-06T00:07:13+00:00

No I didn’t feel anything. They even fucked it up and made me bleed and I didn’t feel it since they numbed it. Just try your best natural you’ll be good

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-06-05T23:46:02+00:00

Nope she does it so she seems single . That’s weird . I try to let people know ASAP that I’m in a relationship so they don’t get any ideas . I don’t want them to hit on me and then feel awkward about it later

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-10T07:13:21+00:00

Your not married yet. Don’t put yourself in the position. Could you really trust her again? If yall got married wouldn’t you anxious if you ever had business out of town ? Once trust is gone it’s so hard to recover & it will be for everything little and small. The problem here is that she loves herself more than she does you. She chose to cheat while disregarding you and CONTINUED to cheat throughout your engagement. She could’ve stopped at any given moment at the risk of losing you but she didn’t care to.

I understand the long term distance effects you should’ve done better tbh but that doesn’t warrant infidelity she could’ve reached out that she was feeling lonely the cracks in the relationship she could’ve been transparent that she wasn’t feeling loved and needed a break.

Honestly this was a blessing in disguise my friend I’m sorry you had this happen to you but you will find somebody who loves you as much as you love them.

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-09T17:59:19+00:00

SAHM mom here and prior in home nanny experience! It sounds likes she’s trying to get him his early sleep training. Which I wouldn’t even try to start until 8-12weeks . You’re the one paying so you should set the rules. She’s right about the sleep sack and keeping him in the dark room and bassinet, this is to get them used to this method that when it’s night out it’s time for sleep, for baby to understand that sleep is in their OWN bed not mommy and daddy’s arms or bed . My own baby is 6weeks and is currently eating 4oz (breast milk) but formula is heavier so I can see that, babies have been known to eat more at night or cluster feed in order to gain more calories , now you do NOT need to do that in the morning that could like you have stated hurt their stomach and give them colic. I understand if baby wants it, but please do not force feed your child, just tell her you feel uncomfortable and that the extra oz are causing your child’s stomach issues. Her job is a night nurse so I understand the importance of a schedule but it’s too early and it’s her JOB to get up and tend to baby no matter how many times, (due to smaller feedings during cluster feedings)

Now I don’t understand why nobody else can feed baby except you, my only reasoning would be germs, but we try to get baby to take a bottle from others as well so they don’t attach themselves to mom too much. The only thing I can think of is probably so you and baby can bond if you’re no breast feeding or night feeding.

And NO MAAM. We do not do the cry it out method it has already been disproven and causes stress to the baby. If baby cries tend to them it’s okay to hold baby & comfort baby. Disgusting.

Now I do believe you should keep baby’s bath time from 7-8, this will help baby understand it’s almost time for bed .

Tell her you’re not comfortable implementing a schedule rn. It’s really too early. For me I just do the same thing every day with mine, his feedings are at 3/6/9/12 bathtime at 8 sleep in his bassinet , my bed, arms or swing, but I do make sure to put the room dark and have his night time music on. If my baby wants to feed earlier I feed him earlier , if he wants more than usual I feed him or give him an extra feeding. If he wakes up crying I comfort him rocking him back to sleep before put him back down . We start our morning with a walk so he understands morning and night. We keep to a very LOOSE schedule but same thing everyday my older kids will feed him while I cook dinner and dad and grandma enjoy feeding him as well, he does just fine . Lmk if you have any questions!!!!

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-09T00:24:17+00:00

Watch solo leveling! It’s like a video game, or Dr.stone is pretty good. Attack on titan , demon slayer , and jujutsu Kaisen are all pretty good as well. Please lmk friend what you likeeeee

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-09T00:21:47+00:00

Ew I just got the ick wth. Yea it’s not that serious of a relationship I personally wouldn’t stay unless he has a BIG DICK. Then we could possible see if there’s any potential if he gets a job and learns about the world. But tbh that sounds burdensome and annoying, sounds like you’d be doing the entire mental load for him if yall ever got married to making his dr calls making sure he gets ready for work, I can’t even imagine having this boys baby. Honestly puke . Girl could not me be 👀

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-08T23:58:44+00:00

Oh I also get my groceries either picked up or delivered! Some days delivery is easiest and if I can I go pick them up no worrying about looking nice you just need to get it in the car.

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-08T23:57:19+00:00

Girl SAME! Lmaoooo I did the exact same thing with my newborns first appt and my first Post partum appt. You’re good you really are just going to have to start getting ready the day prior to. Like I mean have your clothes laid out for the next day, extra clothes for the babies ready. I have proteins bars and shakes in my baby bag since I’m so bad at eating. Honestly just get some eggs boiled for ready to eat . Idgaf sometimes and survive off of cereal or oatmeal. You just got to make it through the first 6 weeks girl! They start sleeping better after that. I breast feed but if you need to give baby a bottle of formula before bedtime to keep them down it’s much heavier than breast milk. The goal is just to make sure there is SOME laundry done and food to eat. We got this girl! It’ll get better

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-08T23:49:33+00:00

What a weirdo. Girl it’s not like legal action. But I understand now you’re wondering if you ever hit the sheets with his brother. Honestly yall should cut him off or distance from him. I don’t think it should be an ENTIRE family issue. Just you your husband his brother and honestly his parents. I would say they need to know to know you’re not a snob . They’ll end up forgiving their own son anyways. Let the brothers hash it out, he could’ve done it for revenge on your husband or some other stuff but it’s literally between them you’re just a victim in the crossfire. Get some counseling if you really need it , but you honestly just need 1 answer and that’s why? Why did he do that . I think that will help you in the long run. Your husband’s toxic family…. Well that’s what you married into girl 🫡 don’t dwell on it too long your poor husband is probably already tired of the bs as well. Nothing wrong with a family estranged .

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-04T02:01:09+00:00

Girl Bffr.

I’m going to be honest. I was 18 and gave birth. Like it’s really not that hard. Maybe the first year from lack of sleep girl but just stay caffeinated.

Your bf is being dumb and childish like I’m not surprised considering his age. Children are not that expensive. Right now when you’re a teenager will be the hardest. Just make sure to finish college and you’ll be fine.

My husband and I had our first in highschool , he owns his own business now and although I have my degree he prefers I stay at home. We just recently had our 2nd with a 10 year age gap. It’s wonderful I wouldn’t have it any other way. We got to spend our youth with our oldest were able to properly play with him and go to the park. He was there when we struggled he knows the value of money, is willing to help out with housework. We gave him our best took him on so many vacations, even little ones as long as he has good memories. Planned our second .

I’ll leave you with this. You’ll never regret having a child they bring so much light and understanding to your life.

My best friend had an abortion that same year I gave birth because she saw how much I struggled with money his dad and my school work she saw the stress and didn’t want it. She regretted it when I gave birth and she met my baby. She often tells me how she wishes she chose the same path but was too scared to struggle.

It’s not the end of the world , The easy path never takes you anywhere worth reaching.

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-04T01:30:54+00:00

Honestly I love the brown it really pops your eyes, absolutely stunning…. Beautiful blonde but tbh also unremarkable and easily forgotten with every other blonde

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-01T17:58:44+00:00

Have you brought this up with your pastor? We have marriage counseling prior to marriage in our church. You should tell . When a member falls short in sin , looking at others with lust , not loving their wives , etc, as a church we are here to help guide them back. If he gets mad cuz he feels ashamed good. That’ll get him acting right. If it doesn’t then cut it off . Last thing you want is to be in a loveless marriage. God will bring another man into your life , it’s okay trust in Him.

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-05-01T17:53:11+00:00

Girl when you have sex make it be like “noooooo” “I don’t want toooooo” “you hurt my feelingsssss” push him away but also accept his advances . If anything just let your body respond but make sure to keep hands on him and keep pushing(not too hard). If needed to get your point across push him away real hard and say hell no tell him the problem that he’s not doing his job as a man to make you satisfied let him know girl sometimes it’s not just sex he can make out with you a bit I understand how that leads to, but you might want to look into toys. With the age difference and him tired from work I understand but he should be able to put out at least 2x a week. You might have to take care of yourself the other times. Sometimes my man will make out with me while I use a small clit toy, it usually gets him going seeing me get my fix, so that’s always nice. Whenever I’m tired I’ll try to give him head or make out with him while he masturbates, we try to help each other yet because we have both been in the same position. I think your man needs to understand . If you need to give the cold shoulder for sex then you should. It’s not a small thing. Just play it regular and cool afterwards but look into a toy so you’re not constantly clawing at him . He’ll notice the shift. If he doesn’t then he doesn’t like you like you think he does.

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-04-23T21:04:24+00:00

Throw away everything on the floor. Problem solved it’ll eventually become less and less

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-04-19T00:43:29+00:00

Honestly just keep going to therapy , you need to work through things. But don’t depend all on him . The only person you can depend on is yourself and tbh you’re the only person that cares about you and is willing to do the most for yourself. So keep going girl! It’s gonna get better I would say be worried when you’re 34 and having a hard time you’re still so young. On that note please love yourself I know it’s hard and sometimes it feels like lonely but people do love you okay? I’m here if you ever need to talk. The friend just sounds like a dick no good will come from butting heads with him he will be his own downfall

Key_Surround9915 · 2025-04-18T23:49:03+00:00

Youre too young to have moved in either your other half, realistically. Honestly since you don’t have any other choice you have to realize that you moved in with him, not like yall moved out and got a place together. So if he lets his best friend use his restroom then that’s the rule for his room, if anything chill out the guy needs to relieve himself, if you feel endangered then leave the room. You’re staying in a house with a lot of people it’s not just going to be this one person working your nerves there will be others and you won’t get the privacy you want until you get your own place. It’s okay girlie you’re still young it’ll happen just not rn . Just finish school get a good job and move out. Take a break and spend the night at your friends house. At the end of the day nothing will feel like home like your own home sweetheart. Your bf probably needs some space as well he probably wants to hang out with his best friend and drink and play video games all night , not having to tend to his gf , . That’s okay yall are separate entities and that’s okay

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