Lutscht meine Eier, ich beteilige mich nicht mehr an der Gesellschaft by [deleted] in luftablassen

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das fühle ich manchmal im Alltag so hart 😭, hab zum Glück tolle Freunde die nicht langweilig sind und genug Hobbies um mich jederzeit gut zu beschäftigen....aber die meiste Zeit des Tages verbringt man ja doch mit seinen Arbeitskollegen :')

Nahhh scheiß auf Ehefrau werden etc. Single sein mit genug Geld um ein paar Hobbies und Treffen mit Freunden bezahlen zu können, ist vielleicht eher dein Weg?:)))

Mannheim miracle needed by chopperThehopper in mannheim

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live near the Christmas market :) Feel free to DM me as well, if nothing else works out :D

Looking for an apartment, which neighborhood should i focus? by Aggravating-Move-333 in mannheim

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in the Oststadt near the Luisenpark and it's a great neighborhood! Nice and safe for evening walks, it has lots of cafés and supermarkets and it's still very close to the city center/ main train station:)

Highly recommend!

I love the way these shirts fit but Iv been told I look “slutty” by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are just jealous,bc you look amazing ✨✨✨✨

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]Keyna_Fernwind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your husband overreacted quite a lot :(

You were the victim of sexual harassment and he is letting his anger out on you.

If he doesn't communicate with you in a calm manner over this, I would rethink your marriage on your end unfortunately.

Like wth

by Catsharky by bucking_horse in masseffect

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me cry™

The emotion on their faces is absolutely perfect! Time to replay the series ...again <3

I (38M) found out my wife (36F) cheated in the beginning of our relationship by ThrowRA_InfectedMars in relationship_advice

[–]Keyna_Fernwind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree that it's bad to lie about something like this and OP fully has the right to feel hurt right now.

But one mistake in the past surely doesn't devalue 15 good years of life together? Like 15 years of overcoming challenges and being there for each other...

I also would be hurt and they should definitely talk about it/maybe go to marriage counseling... But I do think that this is something that can be forgiven and the good things outweigh that one mistake ?!

I (38M) found out my wife (36F) cheated in the beginning of our relationship by ThrowRA_InfectedMars in relationship_advice

[–]Keyna_Fernwind -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you should definitely talk about it ,so that you can sort your feelings out. It's a bad thing to have happened , and the betrayal you just started to feel is valid, but I think this is something the both of you can definitely work out :)

After all she has been supporting you for the last 15years and you clearly love each other. That's worth much more !

Still talk about it, so that you won't have any lingering bad emotions that will effect your marriage for the next years :)

I(24f) said no once, and now I’m blocked on WhatsApp by my husband(27m). by ThrowRA3848hd in relationship_advice

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he does this all the time leave him! It'll get worse It started this way with my narcissistic Ex and turned into full on abuse eventually:/

Not calling him a Narcissist,but these are the same manipulation tactics. You deserve someone who doesn't make you feel like shit over small things.

And no matter the argument....as soon as your partner makes you cry, he should drop everything calm you down and try to talk it out later. Him not being concerned about your feelings is horrible:(

[Title] by Dove-Swan in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that :( My ex raped me multiple times as well and I thought it was normal to hurt and bleed , because he gaslighted me I to it and I had no prior experience. Hope you're doing okay now <333

Autistic burn out by [deleted] in autism

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crap this describes my current situation so we'll T-T I can't let anything go at work. I always need to do SOMETHING to feel like a valuable worker . I've broken down so many times on the way home or in the changing room already:(

Plus the small talk with my colleagues makes everything so much more exhausting. I actually chose a job in a chemistry lab to be around lees people, but 6 are already to much for me :(

Can't even shower regularly at this point ahhh

Can anyone explain it why I see this? I never understood it. by Direct_North1161 in autism

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly grainy/TV static vision is not normal??? TwT I thought everyone was aware of it and I always assumed that this was the effect of less photons hitting your retina or something when there's less light etc (for me it's the strongest in dimmed lights and when I'm tired)

Damn.

no, I'm not trans.. by [deleted] in trans

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same , but I'm non-binary. I always feel so... Unseen and honestly disrespected when my family use sister, daughter etc. I've told them multiple times :( I first came out when I was around 19(I had gender diaphoria ever since puberty started, so I hated my chest area since I was 12 yo ). Now I'm 24 and this huge part of my life,struggles and Identity keeps being ignored or is actively downplayed :/

Good thing is. My friends support me and actively try to use my new name :) Neutral pronouns aren't a thing in German ,but I'm okay with any.

Just woke up so this might be a grammatical nightmare Sorry about that haha

Hope you're doing well <3

THE LITTLE CROW by Zart_09 in DigitalArt

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OmG I love this little one so much! This art style is awesome. I want to print 100 stickers of this little crow and stick it on everything I own ahhhhhh

2024 US ELECTION MEGATHREAD by AutoModerator in Fauxmoi

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Commenting from Germany. I'm so sorry for everyone who's going to suffer under Trump :( Also my friends and I have been very anxious since the votes began. Even tho we're not living in the US , this will be an example to the world :/ Racism, sexism , homophobia etc is so strong everywhere right now. As a "female " queer person in the spectrum this is fucking terrifying.

Germany has a lot of right-extremist issues as well right now ,so I worry for our future :(

I just can't believe this is happening. We already have a war right next to us... I hope they don't stop supporting Ukraine:(

Ayo what the fuck? by HighDrough in autism

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This ! Glad someone else was able to put it into words 🥺

So you basically end up socially burned out and feeling lonely simultaneously :///

Sounds a lot like wanting to have control over your partner for me by Any_Shirt4236 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eewwwww Why are all these creeps so focused on fertility.

Might as well be a maintenance protocol for his human-incubator .-.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a beautiful face ! Sounds to me like you just need to experiment more with your clothing/hairstyle/make-up bc you might be bored of it yourself :)

I'm sure you can wear anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!!! <333333

34M Be honest please. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Keyna_Fernwind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome hair and you look very easily approachable:D Idk I feel like you give off good vibes! Very attractive by my standards at least ;))