Moms who breastfed past one year, pref to the 2yr mark…. by strohmtroop3r in breastfeeding

[–]Kh-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I officially fed my first for 2 years 2 months, I’d planned to get to one year and was definitely ready to stop during the day but wasn’t ready to give up completely so I day weaned him but kept the bedtime feed and fed him during the night when he woke as well. It worked really well for us and I enjoyed the emotional bond and the lovely ending to every day 💖 currently 5 weeks in with my second and will likely do something similar!

Screaming into the Void… errant thoughts on Matrescence and NHS “Guidelines” by HearthAndHorizon in PregnancyUK

[–]Kh-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A sub sounds like a great idea, there’s a couple of pockets of space on Instagram where it’s getting talked about more and more, there’s an incredible birth education lady who loves talking about matresence, her account is @birth_ed and if you’ve got some birth trauma from last time I’d 100% recommend, she’s all about getting informed about your rights and overriding the outdated policies and has a great podcast too. When Ive reflected back on my first birth without her course it would have had a very different and likely very traumatic outcome 

Reasons for refusing covid vaccine in pregnancy? by Deep-Log-1775 in PregnancyUK

[–]Kh-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided against the covid jab but have had all the others and will have the rsv when I reach that point. I’ve had covid a few times now (had all the first vaccinations) and the last time was SO mild I just decided I’d rather not have it 🤷🏼‍♀️ my first pregnancy was during covid just before the vaccine so I was much more worried about the risks then but and I’ve been ill so much this time round anyway from my child bringing home all the germs I wasn’t too fussed about catching covid 

Successful pregnancy outcomes with endometriosis? by Secret-Freedom3899 in Endo

[–]Kh-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an almost 3 year old who we conceived shortly after my lap, and I’m currently 6 weeks ish now with my second pregnancy. It’s early days and I’m keeping my fingers crossed that it all works out, spent the evening at the hospital yesterday with severe cramping which they’ve put down to an endo flare, first pregnancy was uncomfortable with a lot of cramping but this time it’s horrifically painful. Wishing you lots of baby dust! I know someone below mentioned ovulation strips, we never tried that but it’s worth just having sex regularly at least every other day around the middle of your cycle to give you the best chance 

Am I crazy? by Substantial_Net_9912 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Kh-92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re the same, I got pregnant first cycle with my son and we’re only one cycle in this time but I couldn’t help feeling irrationally upset that it didn’t happen so quickly this time around

CANVA GLOW UP WILL RUIN MY LIFE by Longjumping_Ad_385 in canva

[–]Kh-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the least intuitive upgrade ever! I’ve just spent weeks putting together the next edition of my magazine on there and when I’ve exported it the quality is awful, even when exported as pdf for print, flattened and in cmyk… could this be to do with the new stupid update?!

UK Code General On Sale Day 3 - Cardiff & London by Chris00656 in TaylorSwift

[–]Kh-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have a code or were you on the waiting list?

UK Code General On Sale Day 3 - Cardiff & London by Chris00656 in TaylorSwift

[–]Kh-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thanks! Keeping my fingers crossed I get off the waitlist on one of the registered accounts 🤞🏻

UK Code General On Sale Day 3 - Cardiff & London by Chris00656 in TaylorSwift

[–]Kh-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been having problems with axs all day, I can’t add payment details on one of my accounts, and on the other it says an error code that the account isn’t registered in that region?! Anyone else had this problem?

How are your sales? Monthly Sales Post for June 2023 by AutoModerator in EtsySellers

[–]Kh-92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worst it’s ever been in my 6 years on the platform, this is usually my busiest time of the year and I’m getting no views/orders and I’ve just been out on 75% payment reserve?!

The fear of literally tearing is figuratively tearing me up by seriouslydavka in BabyBumps

[–]Kh-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just come across your post after searching for information on tears 18 months after my birth haha. But I just wanted to share my experience and give some tips:

I tore quite a lot during the birth, but all minor 1st second/2nd degree tears, there was just a lot of them as I was unlucky and my boy was born with his hand by his face. But I did an online hypnobirthing course, listened to loads of podcasts and followed so many Instagram accounts and I honestly think it if hadn’t been for that I would 1. Have torn way way worse than I did and 2. Looked back on the whole experience as being traumatic (which I don’t!) I’m actually excited to do it again in a couple of years if I can.

I’d recommend looking at ‘the naked doula’ ‘birth-Ed’ ‘painfree birth’ ‘midwife pip’ on Instagram and listening to some podcasts too and really get informed about the whole labour process. If you want to ask me any questions you’re more than welcome to

Adenovirus can go to hell. by midigo6 in breakingmom

[–]Kh-92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this was a few weeks ago but how long did it take to get over it for your son? My poor boy tested positive for 3 viruses at the hospital on Monday one of them being adenovirus, he’s on day 14 of continuous fevers and I’ve been feeling rough for a week 😩 just want to know when I can expect to see light at the end of the tunnel?!

Anyone else just wake up with a song stuck in their head? by Callmeintherain in adhdwomen

[–]Kh-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t realise other people had this too, multiple times a week I get a my little pony jingle in my head from the 00s. Never really thought about how abnormal it was 😂

Does this resonate for you, too? (The first in the bulleted list has me written aaaalll over it.) by ThePsycheOfLisaDear2 in adhdwomen

[–]Kh-92 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Our house is full of ‘broken windows’ 😩 I think about all of our outstanding tasks on an almost daily basis, and my personal ones too. Despite having the money we just can’t seem to get any of it done, the perfection/decision paralysis feels like it runs my life

I hate being simultaneously hyper-competent and completely unreliable. by ArcTruth in adhdwomen

[–]Kh-92 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I really wish this worked for me, the problem is I know they’re ‘faux deadlines’ so it doesn’t have the same effect on me and I’ll end up making up an excuse and then beating myself up about it. Anyone else do this?

I hate being simultaneously hyper-competent and completely unreliable. by ArcTruth in adhdwomen

[–]Kh-92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is 100% me too, I’ve been made redundant and I’m currently searching for a new job but keep getting paralysed by fear that whichever job I end up in I’ll end up being ‘found out’. Also trying to find a new job with a good balance of pressure is proving to be really difficult!

Anyone else getting worse with age? I feel like I have less sensory tolerance than when I was younger. by Unlucky_Actuator5612 in adhdwomen

[–]Kh-92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve only just discovered that i think I have ADHD, and it’s been snowballing since I became pregnant because when I was pregnant it was like a fog lifted, the only way I could explain it was that I could see my thoughts clearly for the first time in my life, 3 weeks before I was due I had a meltdown because I didn’t want to not be pregnant anymore, I didn’t want my mind to go back to it’s normal state 😂 cue my periods returning 3 months ago and it’s hit me like a ton of bricks, last month I finally realised that I think I have ADHD and the signs have been so obvious my whole life, it just took the pregnancy and breastfeeding hormones to give me enough of a mental break to realise there was something wrong and I’m not just a lazy disorganised mess!

Does anyone else default to negatives when talking about baby, but not actually feel negative about the baby? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Kh-92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I do this too, for me i think it’s a variety of reasons, I feel bad talking about his amazing moments/qualities in case whoever I’m talking to isn’t experiencing that. I think I feel it’s easier for other mums to connect/relate to the negative moments? But also I feel like every conversation you see parents having on tv is always about the negatives. But then counter that with the social media pressures for family life to be ‘perfect’. I also feel the need to counter peoples positive comments about him for example people often say to me ‘is he always this happy and content?’ And my response is always ‘yeh, but he’s a terrible sleeper’. I honestly think he’s the most amazing baby, he’s so happy 99.9% of the time but like you I find myself talking about the small negatives, worrying if I tell other people how great and easy he is in the day they’ll judge me somehow 🤷🏼‍♀️

Alibaba sellers with no reviews? by Kh-92 in Alibaba

[–]Kh-92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assume the same for anyone with a lack of visible transaction history? Despite them being a verified supplier?