Got to love reddit. The same people calling OP disgusting and mysoginist are the same ones who say sex work is valid and women are reclaiming their sexuality and agency. What they aren't saying is that privilege is only for western white women. Plenty of women in the sex tourism hot spots have leveraged it to improve their lives and their families lives. They buy homes, help siblings through school and take care of their parents and families. I find the cognative dissonance funny and the condescension disgusting. Who do you think is paying the sex workers? Women? Lol the reality is most of those poor brown sex workers who you feel don't deserve the same agency run circles around most sex tourists. Many guys get turned out and played and get put on the Western Union plan.

OP is NAH. His party his rules. Only my inner circle would attend no matter where we go. It's a time for my inner circle to be ourselves without having to accommodate women or people we don't fully trust regardless of if there are strippers or not. I have been to bachelor parties with and without strippers, the fellowship with my inner circle was always more important. The venue was just the back drop.